Reading has made my life a new possibility.
I have always been a person with my own small ideals and wishes. But every time I fished for three days and dried my net for two days, I worked hard for a few days and then returned to a dull state. I am trying to think, but my body doesn't want to move. People are lazy. The less they want to move, the lazier they are. The lazier they are, the harder it is for them to make achievements. In the long run, people will really fall.
Fortunately, I am a unwilling person. It's really hard to see yourself in this state. We have made various efforts to change ourselves. I am trying to write, read and research ... Now that I think about it, maybe all these efforts are in the right direction. However, due to their lack of self-discipline and self-awareness, these plans often die within three days of implementation. I repeated this several times and found that I was actually quite bad. I can't even stick to the minimum, but this is my reality. If only there was a way to change the status quo!
Just when I was thinking like this, I saw that Xiao Wei, a teacher who had been concerned for a long time, insisted on getting up early, and her life had undergone earth-shaking changes in one year, getting better and better. Besides, Mr. Xiao Wei seems to be in a good mental state. In order to find out the secret of Xiao Wei's insistence on getting up early, I paid attention to Xiao Wei's official WeChat account. I met a reading camp on the official account of WeChat, where Miss Xiao Wei worked.
Now it seems that joining the reading camp is the most correct choice I have made. During the 2 1 day reading camp, I wrote about 10000 words of reading notes, read three books and wrote nearly 6000 words of duplicates. I never thought that I could write so many notes while reading, and I could keep writing for a month. If you don't write every day, something seems to be missing, and your love for reading and writing is getting deeper and deeper.
Most importantly, this month, my milk tea income is twice that of last month, and making this money is far less laborious than last month. At the end of the book club, I also received a long-term manuscript from a circle of copywriters. What a big surprise for me! Unexpectedly, reading and writing, what I want actually came. I think this is the advantage of reading and writing.
Moreover, it seems that a series of surprises in life are waiting for me. People become active and life is different. I think it's good to contribute unexpectedly this month.
Reading has opened up new possibilities for my life. Let me no longer be a useless junior college student, let me no longer panic about the future, because I believe that as long as I keep studying, my future will be very good. All the goals I want to achieve will be realized, including editing, being a teacher and writing, and those beautiful goals will be realized.
2. In the book Five Languages of Love, I know how to find my own language of love. The way is: think about what the person you love did, said, or didn't do or said, which hurts your heart the most.
We can think back to the things that people around us who we love and who are most eager for ta approval did, said, or didn't do, or didn't say, which hurt us the most.
Having said that, I remembered a true story that happened to me: during the summer vacation, my high school classmates from an activity I was concerned about went to a public welfare activity that I couldn't go for various reasons. Then all kinds of growth and harvest in the circle of friends, in short, all kinds of floating. Think about it before, I also participated in similar activities, made friends and grew up. But that teacher seldom praises me. Maybe he has never seen it! I thought the same thing.
Thought of here, my heart is very unbalanced. I'm really sad, so sad. I know what I want most in my heart is the teacher's praise. I want to tell the teacher that I'm fine.
Because of all kinds of intersections before, proving to that teacher that I am fine has become my most eager thing. Knowing this truth, I began to make changes. I have done the following work:
1. Spend a year reading and writing day after day to keep yourself busy.
2. Make a list of the certificates to be tested within one year to keep yourself busy.
3. Plan my goal after one year. A year later, I will go to college and go ashore, and make some achievements in writing.
4. You can try to make money after studying, because money is a girl's confidence.
After making these changes, my life has changed dramatically. People have also become more active, the positive reason is because I found my own love language. My love words are the affirmation of others.
Reading makes me more diligent.
Father said, "Every bitterness you eat now is for the sake of sweetness in the future." Once, I didn't quite understand the meaning of this sentence. This month in the reading camp really made me understand the truth of this sentence. There are many awesome people in the reading camp. Ching Tien, the teaching assistant, Xiao Wei and the fat girl are all great people. Ta is powerful not because they are smart, but because of their extreme self-discipline and hard work, which makes them powerful.
I was moved to see them working so hard. In action, I began to learn from them, and my thoughts were consistent with those of TAs. Try to be a great person.
After studying for a month, I have completely changed. I seem to have fallen in love with this kind of life, both in life and study, and continue to work hard.