How much money a baby can spend before the age of one is really different, or it is decided by his mother's view of money and parenting. Different mothers spend a lot of money on raising a one-year-old baby. Even if the same mother gave birth to two babies, the expenses before the age of one are completely different. Here I share the story of a friend I know very well, Alian.

First, the eldest daughter is raised like a princess, spending more than 7000 a month.

When Alian gave birth to her eldest daughter, her husband's business was good. She takes care of the children at home full time, and her mother-in-law helps with the housework. What she can do every day is to take the children out to play and shop.

The eldest daughter goes to parent-child early education, 2000 yuan per month; Children drink imported milk powder, use Kao diapers and buy various complementary foods. These three items are about 1500 yuan per month; Children buy a lot of branded clothes; There are also toys that children like to buy, and there are many Barbie dolls, which is estimated to be 2000 yuan per month;

Another big item is snacks, fruits and so on. Alian carries a big bag of snacks outside every day. She eats them with her children. One day 180, one month is 2000. It is roughly estimated that when Alian's eldest daughter reaches the age of one, the basic expenses will be at least 60,000 yuan.

Second, when raising two daughters, I don't spend money indiscriminately, but I spend 500 yuan every month.

When she gave birth to her second daughter, her mother-in-law went back to her hometown. Husband's business is not good, she also goes to work, more than 20 thousand a month. At this time, the boss is 6 or 7 years old, and he has to apply for various training courses, which costs tens of thousands of yuan at a time. Coupled with various expenses such as mortgage, car maintenance and family expenses, the life of the second child has become like this:

Alian's own emulsion, try to give the second child breast milk, and the milk powder added later is also at a medium price;

The second child has no early education class and watches cartoons at home;

I seldom buy new toys, they are all my sister's old toys, and my clothes are all old clothes;

Diapers are domestic brands bought in a big promotion, and complementary food is made at home. ......

Once we chatted, she said that the second child was less than 500 yuan a month, but she was also very lively and lovely, and her figure was better than her sister's.

Because I have been reading Alian's story, I am particularly impressed that it is not necessary to have as many children as possible. As long as parents use love and have more money, they can raise excellent children.