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My mother-in-law won't let me work. What about my daughter-in-law?
After marriage, it is illegal for the husband's family not to let his wife go out to work. The best way for a wife not to hurt her feelings is for both sides to negotiate calmly. If not, she can seek mediation from a third party as needed.

Xiaoyan decided to go to work after careful consideration and told her husband her thoughts.

Unexpectedly, my husband said: What class? What would you do if you were like this now?

Listening to the cynicism in her husband's language, Xiaoyan couldn't help feeling sad.

After marrying him, she gave birth to a child, and she took care of two children by herself. It's hard not to talk about it, but she can't understand.

Once the child had a fever, he began to blame her for not taking good care of the child. She was wronged, but she made no excuses.

She thought that when the child grew up, she would go to work after all, so she wanted to take advantage of her child's free time to learn some skills, and wanted to sign up for a training class of several thousand dollars, but she was rebuffed by him, saying that she could learn nothing. . .

Now that both children are old enough to go to kindergarten, the mother-in-law also said that she came to help take Xiaoyan to work, but her husband ridiculed her incompetence.

Although she was uncomfortable, Xiaoyan tried to calm down and smiled slightly.

He said, "You're right, I don't have any ability. I got married after graduating from college and went back to my mother's house to give birth to your children. "

"In the past three or four years, I haven't slept a complete sleep. Every day, I am surrounded by two children at home, which makes me dizzy and my memory declines. "

"Holding the child's hand all day and all night is very painful, the lumbar spine hurts, the thigh vein also hurts, the feeding is bitten by the child, and mastitis also hurts. . . "

"I have dedicated my youth, my health and my freedom to this family, but that's all. No one has ever understood me and cared about me. "

"You know what? I had postpartum depression, and you ignored me. I came out step by step on my own. "

"Now that the child is older, I can go to work, but I have no work experience and lack the ability to work. I know that many work units refuse to accept mothers like me. "

"However, everyone in the world can reject me and laugh at me, but you can't."

"If, if you don't want to help me or even laugh at me, please shut up and go my own way."

Breath to say that finish, Xiaoyan's husband gawk at Xiaoyan, he never dreamed that Nuo Nuo, who is passive in Nuo Nuo in front of him, turned over and became the master of his obedient woman one day.