I feel so relaxed, like a bamboo shadow stepping on the dust, and the bright moon is as bright and quiet as marsh water. I finally understand that the sentence is magnanimous, a petty man is anxious and worried.. In that case.
Looking back suddenly, after vicissitudes of life, human feelings are warm and cold, just like flowers bloom and fall. I will never feel sorry for anyone again, smile calmly, I am not crazy, why can't others see it!
Life, always face it calmly, the road of life is not whether you walk in a straight line, but whether you can turn.
Why do some people know that there are tigers in the mountains, but they don't back down and stagnate?
Why do some people stop for the scenery of that moment and live a drunken life?
Why do some people want to have both, and it is difficult to choose between love and bread? !
This may be the sad thing about people! After all, people cannot get rid of vulgarity. Only hypocrisy and truth can weave a realistic society. The sublimation of the times further outlines people's hypocrisy. Cheating in the Three Kingdoms period is not a good sentence. It is more suitable for modern people to be sinister!
In reality, friends look down on you because you are incompetent and women look down on you because you don't have enough money. This statement is quite reasonable and intriguing.
Modern people not only have vision, but also wisdom and means are indescribable. The wisdom of modern people reflects the cruelty of reality. Interests and friends can be clearly distinguished. Without benefits, where can we get friends?
Not as good as I am the basic principle for most people to choose friends. This is the way a wise man treats his friends.
Then, I want to ask, how do people compare with others and behave like people? Is it better than IQ or more ambitious than money? Will someone say that morality is greater than character? It can be seen that morality is worthless these days!
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Almost everyone who comes to the law firm to ask a lawyer to help with the lawsuit is in trouble.
When sorting out legal opinions and quietly sorting out these files, I can feel the inner feelings of the parties-either tangled interests, emotional love and hate, ambitious or full of trauma.
In addition to the cases I handled, I also read and listened to one case after another handled by many colleagues. Behind these lawsuits, between the lines of those seemingly boring legal documents, are multifaceted human nature, warm and cold human feelings, and naked life after all disguise.
Real estate is as expensive as gold and human feelings are as thin as paper.
A client wants to sue his brother. Because there were several bungalows under my father's name many years ago, after my father died, because my mother lived with my brother and had deep feelings for him, the bungalows were transferred to my brother's name.
But now, in the face of demolition, my brother wants to sue his younger brother and share those bungalows equally.
My brother gave a lot of reasons-how bad my brother was to his mother and how much he contributed to his family. But what did you do in the early days? My brother treats my mother badly. As a brother, have you raised any objections earlier?
No. Why? Because the house was worthless at that time.
Two days ago, a person I only met briefly called me and said that there was a big house in my hometown, which belonged to my great-grandfather, but for some reason, it was always registered in the name of his third grandfather, and his other two grandfathers had passed away. He wants me to sue for his house and demand the corresponding rights to this house.
In these two cases, after I answered the relevant legal questions, I did not agree to represent them. First, because I focus on the company's business, such cases are not my strong point; Second, I don't want to experience internal family disputes because of wealth.
However, there are more and more such cases. It is really "real estate is as expensive as gold, and human feelings are as thin as paper!"
In this case, lawyers can't be emotional. Law is law, and the legitimate rights and interests of the parties should be safeguarded within the framework of law. Anyone trained in law knows how to control his feelings. However, when you put down the case file and walk out of the court, how can you not feel that love is lighter than a room?
Vigorous urban construction, around the jungle of reinforced concrete, not only led to the alienation of human feelings, but also built a killing field for you. Some people have lifted their foster relationship with their adopted daughters who have been raised for decades because of real estate, some people have tried their best to prevent their fathers from remarrying, and some people have forced their sons and fiancee to do premarital property notarization. ...
Everything is for the house. People make money to buy a house; People quarrel about the house; People from love to strangers, or because of the house.
Mind reading is precious.
Lawyers can gain a lot of experience. As the saying goes, "thousands of books is not as good as Wan Li Road and thousands of books is not as good as Wan Li Road". As a lawyer, it can read countless people, and this profession can appreciate all aspects of society that other professions can't.
But if you look at human feelings too much, it is easy to lose confidence in love when dealing with various emotions. What a terrible thing it is when a person no longer believes in love.
One day, I heard a lawyer reprimand her client on the phone: "How can you hide your property?" I never take divorce cases, but you are my friend, so I made an exception. But I have to tell you realistically that * * * and * * * are the same property and cannot be hidden. You have been in love, you can't be husband and wife, you should be friends, you can't be enemies. "
I admire this lawyer from the bottom of my heart. She not only talks about the law, but also goes beyond the law to correct her clients' immoral behavior. I believe that the lawyer's accusation will make this client reconsider her love with her husband. If she can remember more about her love for each other, it will be more valuable than sharing more property.
By love, I mean not only love, but also the love of friends, family and colleagues-or, in short, "friendship". If you can still firmly believe in love and friendship after watching too much competition and intrigue, then you are worthy of this profession and become a successful lawyer.
I remember when Ying Da mentioned his view on marriage in an interview: "Although the first two marriages ended in divorce, I still believe in marriage, and I am still a married person." People should learn from Ying Da's spirit-they still believe in the existence of love and friendship, no matter how many intrigues, bite the hand that feeds them and disregard interests.
Without inner peace, nothing will succeed.
When I was young, I would envy those so-called "successful people", who had brilliant careers, well-dressed clothes and swarmed ... but now, I have another view of "success"
There are many so-called "successful people" who come to the institute.
The two partners began to calculate each other after the company's performance was booming and they earned more money. When the cloth was finished, one side began to push-it turned out that the other side had been prepared and set a trap for the other side, trying to kill the other side.
My client has been asking, "How can I send him to prison?" The lawyer entrusted by the other party keeps claiming: "These behaviors can put you in jail."
I have an appointment with each other. After expressing his point of view, the other party sighed: "I have been unable to sleep since 4 months ago. Insomnia and fidgeting every day. I must put her in prison. "
This party is high flyers of Peking University. Teenagers are successful, and they have a successful career just after 30 years old. Is the envy of others. However, the moment I heard his words, I sighed for him.
What is success? Without inner peace, there is no success.
I am not advocating compromise or ignoring my rights. My point is: one can't achieve "success" by any means, because that is not true success. True success is to gain respect from the outside world through hard work and dedication on the basis of upholding people's morality, conscience and love, and the result of all this is inner peace.
I also take this opportunity to discuss and observe whether the parties' statements are true or not. Their narrative is true or false, and I will observe his emotions in constant questioning-if his expression is peaceful and orderly, that is the truth. If the other party feels uneasy or anxious, then the party concerned is at least at fault. If he still claims that he is absolutely innocent at this time, I will continue to ask-because he must have concealed some facts. As a lawyer, although I don't make moral judgments, if I have all the facts, I can better protect the interests of my clients.