However, it has been several years since I graduated from college. Speaking of this at the weekend party, I just held my hand and cried: "I thought I could find a girlfriend after graduating from college." I didn't expect to be a graduate student in our school, but I entered a large Internet company. Looking around, they are all code farmers. Please help me find a girlfriend.
I really can't bear to be gay by the majority of high-quality men in science and engineering. I have to write this article today to release these hungry, ah no, science and engineering men waiting for evolution.
First of all, science men actually have many advantages:
1, high IQ
It is said that IQ is the best aphrodisiac for women, and no one wants to get along with a person with insufficient IQ every day. The attraction of smart people is innate. Just like Sheldon in The Big Bang Theory, his IQ can crush everything, even if his EQ is horribly low.
Science and engineering boys have higher basic IQ, which gives people a very smart feeling. They have logical thinking and are easy to make rational and correct judgments. They can always work out the best plan, which product to buy at home and which way to go out for an outing today, and it is easiest to get along with them.
2. It gives people the impression that they are single-minded.
Science and engineering men are very single-minded in everything they do. Whether doing experiments, writing codes or even playing games, they will devote themselves to what they do and do everything well. At this time, there is always a feeling that the omnipotent male god is possessed in Korean dramas, which can especially give girls a sense of security and always attract girls' little hearts.
However, what girls need to pay attention to is that the data shows that the derailment rate of science and engineering men is the first in all walks of life. They look honest and single-minded, but in fact they usually can't get girls, giving people a sense of single-mindedness. However, once their advantages in the workplace are brought into play and their income rises, when a girl recommends a pillow mat, they often can't hold it, because they have little knowledge, and once they are delivered to the door, they are easy to be tempted, not as good as men with more experience and more women.
3, pragmatic, strong ability to support the family
Science and engineering boys are generally pragmatic. When I graduated from college, I basically thought about my plans for the next few years, where to work, which city to stay in, what certificates I need to take after work, when to borrow money to buy a house, when to buy a car, and the funds for marriage. In order to properly handle my life. If you don't believe me, the moonlight clan around you is either a girl or a literary youth, and science and engineering boys generally don't make themselves into this situation.
Their rationality determines that they are pragmatic, and pragmatism determines that they are more capable of surviving in society and supporting their families in the future. Therefore, in fact, some women are willing to choose science men when dating. (But Bian Xiao's goal is to make science and engineering men fall in love, not to take over because they have the ability to earn money to support their families in the future. )
However, science and engineering men also have many shortcomings:
1. Generally don't pay attention to the image, can't dress up.
2. The knowledge is generally narrow, except for those things whose professional fields are unclear, most science and engineering men have a blank life and poor experience in getting along with each other.
Don't touch anyone or anything that you are not interested in.
4. There is too little experience in contacting women, and there are no more than 20 women in WeChat.
So if we make up for the disadvantages and combine the above advantages, isn't it easy to pick up girls?
1, change your image and pay attention to dressing up.
Walking into the campus of engineering colleges, the hardest hit area in engineering male, we can see that either plaid shirts or vests with shorts and flip-flops have been worn for a whole summer.
Plaid shirts are actually a very difficult thing to control. It can be a must for male gods or a standard for diaosi. If you really like it, please bring your beautiful female friends (if you don't like it, bring your sister and your colleagues) to the physical store to try it on. The cut is fit, the grid size is fit, and the color is comfortable. Similarly, when choosing clothes, bring friends with good taste, listen to other people's opinions more, and don't be opinionated! Don't be stubborn! Don't be stubborn!
PUA sells you some fake Givenchy, which will never improve your dress and taste. Otherwise, why don't they be a more profitable image consultant and teach diaosi to ask P? Bian Xiao, as a woman, can tell you that the improvement of aesthetics is based on the real cost of trial and error-two thirds of the clothes bought by young girls can't be worn, which is the fastest and best way to improve your aesthetics. Don't spend too much money, it's much cheaper than hiring a professional image consultant.
2. Have a favorite hobby to attract girls outside the industry.
A science man may be a bull in his own field, but he is a complete idiot in other aspects. Bao Qiang, who doesn't know the entertainment circle, recently divorced; I don't know what drama is being broadcast recently and what it is about; I don't even know which books Mo Yan wrote. Their knowledge is generally narrow, and their life is to eat, sleep and work, plus playing games, and watching island action movies at most. Girls have no fun getting along with them, even if your IQ is high, you can't drag others to work overtime with you to show it! The hardware itself is good, but the user experience is poor
Therefore, it is a good way to "seduce" a girl by learning a specialty and hobby, and it is best to have a sharp contrast between literature and technology. Look high. Tsinghua Electronic Department is engaged in music. Doctor of Chemistry who plays rock, code farmer who is proficient in abstract oil painting ... Stop it, Bian Xiao's heart is already pounding.
3. Get in touch with different circles and enrich your spare time.
Many science and engineering boys don't want to touch things that they are not interested in, thinking that it is a waste of time and life. They all know that girls like to watch dramas, entertain gossip and go shopping, but they just don't want to know, so that a girl who has a good impression on him finally asks out, but because of the embarrassment of nothing to say, the girl's determination to summon up courage to try is frustrated.
What most girls like may be too childish and boring for science and engineering boys, but you don't need to watch Korean dramas, study entertainment gossip and write papers. All you need is to take a look at the Korean drama that the girl next to you is watching when you take the subway. It was originally performed by this Oba. At lunch time, female colleagues listen to gossip. What happened to those stars today? You don't have to be proficient, just raise your posture.
The beauty of life lies in richness. Doing a good job in one field is awesome, but many people who are really awesome are knowledgeable in many fields. Look at all kinds of problems with an open mind and try to get in touch with others' circles. You gain not only knowledge, but also network resources and sisters.
4, talk to people more, practice makes perfect.
Most science and engineering men are actually excellent themselves, but just like a product is not well publicized, no one pays attention to it, and no one knows that your things are good, so they can't be sold. To sell a product, we should introduce it to the audience, so science and engineering men should put themselves in an environment with girls.
But it's not that my classmate said at the beginning of the article that it is irrational to go to a normal school to find a girl who doesn't study science and engineering. What we need to do is to get in touch with women more after work. There are too few resources for science and engineering boys. They are used to not talking to girls for a week, half a month and a month and a half. Suddenly I saw my roommate's body is so sexy. When did you get a pair of thin eyes? So what we need to do is to know more about other circles, participate in various activities and parties, meet new girls through friends, chat with strangers and keep practicing. The so-called practice makes perfect, and the skills of communicating with women will naturally light up. There is no shortcut to this understanding. What others have summed up requires you to practice and practice, and finally it will become your own ability.
High-quality science and engineering men are the backbone of society, and I believe they are also the best husband candidates for girls to get married. Work hard, science and engineering men! You don't have to be gay to get love.
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