(1) Guide students to handle the relationship between love and study. During college, college students should focus on their studies and uphold the attitude that love is subordinate to their studies; Secondly, enhance college students' sense of moral responsibility, treat love with a serious and responsible attitude, respect and love each other, respect and love themselves, and assume their respective responsibilities and obligations; Finally, guide students to strengthen self-control. Act rationally, avoid excessive emotions and behaviors, and be civilized in love.
(2) Through the analysis of the current phenomenon of college students' love, guiding and educating college students' positive and healthy view of love has become the "soft rib" in current college education. To solve this problem, we must establish a trinity education management system of "school-family-society". These three aspects must be closely coordinated to educate and guide college students in a way close to their ideological reality. Help them establish a correct concept of love, handle the relationship between love and school, and shape a sound personality.
2. Strengthen campus cultural activities and cultivate a healthy sense of love behavior.
Healthy and beneficial campus cultural life can meet the emotional requirements of college students, and it is a good way to eliminate their loneliness, cultivate their healthy sentiment, enhance their moral strength and cherish a happy life. Civilized love and rational behavior are healthy manifestations of contemporary college students' love. Schools can use blackboard newspapers, cartoons, various cultural and sports activities, special lectures, symposiums and so on to enrich college students' spare time. This can activate students' body and mind, and at the same time strengthen students' cognition and cultivation of love consciousness of healthy sunshine.
3. Cultivate the ability of love and improve the endurance of love frustration.
Love is an art and an ability, which requires knowledge and hard work. Only by mastering the art of love and having the ability to love can we face and deal with love correctly. The ability of love includes the ability to express love, accept love, identify with love, solve love conflicts, refuse love and develop love. Only by cultivating the ability and responsibility of love, being responsible for themselves, their lovers and the society can college students maintain their love for a long time and create a happy marriage.