Nowadays, most parents like their children very much. We can understand our son's love. However, overindulgence will make children's communication, conversation and psychological endurance decline. What will he do if one day his parents are away and he is alone? Told you to come from 108 thousand miles? If the child is smooth sailing and bumps into something, he will fall down at once or it will be difficult to get up again.
Sometimes, we are kind enough to help adults clean and do housework, but parents always answer him with the same words: "I know you are a good boy, but housework has always been done by adults." The most important thing for children is to study hard. You don't have to worry about these things! " So he gradually realized that he didn't do housework, and he lost his enthusiasm for housework. Relying more and more on parents, what I can do can only be done with the help of my parents.
When we encounter difficulties, maybe we want to get up by ourselves, maybe we can't get up, and our parents will help us stand up and help us again. Perhaps the child who wants to get up is very unhappy and says he can get up, but parents always say, "Why are you so young?" I don't trust! "Children who may not get up know that it doesn't matter if I can't get up. Someone always helps me. After that, they will become more and more dependent on their parents and lack independence. How can he find his own way in the end?
I hope our parents will cultivate their children to be independent and do their own things from an early age. Have a little confidence in your child. Don't always be afraid that your child can't do it. Don't jump to conclusions, give him a chance. Nothing can be done without giving him a chance!