Why is my family so poor and others so rich and everything?
Why am I nothing, and everyone else is rich second generation and official second generation?
Why are my parents so poorly educated, while others' parents are all senior teachers and professors?
As one writer said-life is like a lottery game, and others are often the lucky ones.
What about us? We are in contact with poverty, starting from scratch and having nothing!
These questions seem to be directed at family, oneself and parents. In fact, these people lock the source of the problem on their parents and point all the finger at their parents arbitrarily and unreasonably!
Because they think their parents are qualified to create innate conditions for them, only parents can decide whether their initial platform is high or low, whether they are in line with others or lag behind others from the beginning. People, just born in this world, are given by their parents!
In this case, it is not God's partiality. So it seems natural for these people to blame their parents for this?
Of course not.
What reason do they have to blame their parents?
If it's the three sentences and three questions I said before, then they can only come up with reasons that can prove that they are fools!
Not only can these words not be used as a reason for them to accuse their parents, they are not even qualified to make any comments!
In this respect, only actors can evaluate what an actor has done, because they themselves are involved. As a bystander, as a enjoyer, no one is qualified to be cynical!
Where were they when their parents built all this for them? They didn't even have a chance to evaluate. He and his parents enjoy the fruits of their labor as easy as blowing off dust, which is ready-made, and he is not qualified to do anything negative! Why do you blame others for what you may not be able to do? Don't you think this is a kind of self-mockery?
As for the most important reason why they have no right to blame all this-
No matter what kind of ready-made products their parents gave them when they came into this world, there is one thing that every parent has-giving their children the right to live!
This is happiness! It is the happiness of the world and the happiness of life!
With the right to life, we can talk about others, build others and have hope!
The right to life, on the one hand, is to enjoy, enjoy the feelings, warmth and joy of the world; On the one hand, it is suffering, but suffering will bring opportunities for success! Only suffering is the cornerstone of success! Living is a kind of happiness! Pain is also for success!
So, everyone is happy!
On the second day of junior high school: Happiness 2 Happiness varies with everyone's life coordinates.
Yan Hui's drinking in the mean lane is the happiness of the poor. It is the happiness of politicians to rise to the top; "Business is booming, and financial resources are flourishing up to three rivers", which is the happiness of businessmen; "Planting a millet in spring and harvesting 10,000 seeds in autumn" is the happiness of farmers; "When you are the number one scholar" and "before you beat the horse to Yujie" are the happiness of scholars.
There is a story about happiness in the west: a sad king went to find the happiest person in the world and searched all over the city and countryside. Nobody said he was happy. Finally, he found a man who thought he was happy. Can you guess who he is? Is a beggar in rags, sitting on the wall, basking in the sun, catching lice and humming a ditty.
Happiness is inversely proportional to desire. The less you want, the greater your happiness. Desire is the enemy of happiness, because desire always makes people in an impetuous state. Only by staying away from the entanglement of desire can we realize the true meaning of happiness.
In the sunset, a silver-haired couple strolled on the road covered with yellow leaves, enjoying themselves; Next to the street lamp, reluctant lovers are speechless and happy; On New Year's Eve, it pushes a cup for a change at home, smiles happily and is very happy. Happiness is a simple life, pay attention to it, in fact, happiness is around you.
Happiness, like clothes, varies from person to person. There are high-grade and low-grade clothes, and there are also high-grade and low-grade happiness. Who is better, sitting in Fangcheng all night playing mahjong or reading by candlelight in the book city at night? Abuse of power, drunkenness is not about wine, life is honest, which is commendable?
Happiness is like the metaphor of a bird in a cage and a bird outside a cage-living at the height of a temple and having enough food and clothing, but sighing in the leisure of "there are books that are really rich, and there are no immortals"; Far away from the rivers and lakes, I wrote an elegy of "A cloud rose between the light of heaven and me, hiding his city in my melancholy heart".
Happiness is like the water in your hand, just like the hurried steps of the sun. You have done everything you can, but it is still irreparable, leaving only the infinite nostalgia and aftertaste of "always remembering the sunset in Xiting, intoxicated and not knowing the way home" and "At that time, the clouds returned early on a moonlit night".
Happiness is a pleasant feeling for the individual and the real environment.
Happiness is easy to grasp but not easy to grasp, depending on how you understand and feel.
In today's society, human science and technology have made too much progress compared with the past, but they are all advantages, which makes people's feelings more and more weak. This is a shortcoming in the promotion of science and technology.
China is a country with a large population and a lot of democracy, but now the feelings between ethnic groups are not as friendly as before, and sometimes there are many disharmonies between ethnic groups. The origin of these phenomena should start with mobile phones.
Since the invention of mobile phones, a new national "low-headed family" has been established, and the number of "low-headed family" personnel is increasing day by day. They are busy with their mobile phones all day, and their demands on others are always perfunctory, which makes others lose confidence and their feelings become weaker and weaker. What is terrible is that those "low-headed people" don't realize the harm of doing so.
Once upon a time, I was also a member of the "low-headed family". Like them, I am busy with myself and ignore others. But now I am a real "high-headed family", and I have changed back to my original self. Now, the friendship between my relatives and classmates is much better. Why did I quit the "low-headed family" Because I know that if you want to be a man, you must first learn to face others squarely and be polite to them. If you look up for too long, you can bow your head and rest properly. Don't be stubborn.
When I am no longer a "low-headed family", I will think that it would be great if everyone looked at each other less and looked at each other more. Then we would respect each other and feel much better, and the contradictions between us would be gradually reduced and the quality of people would be improved. With the improvement of science and technology, we should make good use of its good aspects.
In this increasingly indifferent world, should we continue like this? Shouldn't this situation be changed? Shouldn't we start from ourselves?
In fact, the distance between people is not far away, but they just lack communication with each other. We really shouldn't do this. We should start from ourselves and say hello when we meet, even if it's just to let the other person know that you have met him. When we have a friction with each other, we should take the initiative to say sorry, even if it is just to let the other party know that you have found something wrong, and say goodbye when you leave, even if it is only to make the other party less worried.
A sentence and an action will have different endings. How wonderful is a person's life? Pay attention to what you do
The famous poet Owen once said that the purpose of all human efforts is happiness. So, what is happiness? Some people say: happiness is a safe and healthy life; Some people say: happiness is having a happy family; Some people say that happiness means having a bed to rest when you are tired, and having food when you are hungry. As the saying goes, a thousand people have a thousand Hamlets in their eyes. Different people have different interpretations of the word "happiness". However, in the final analysis, happiness is the basic value that people pursue and the common goal of human development.
Sometimes, happiness can't be written in empty words, but it is really beyond words. The deeper the experience, the more difficult it is to express it in words, because true happiness is not a collection of facts, but a continuation of a state. Happiness is not for others to see. Whether you are happy or not has nothing to do with others, because happiness is in your own hands, and you are the subject.
Happiness should be a subtle but true feeling in the depths of the soul and a pleasant and comfortable emotional experience. This kind of experience must be based on a relatively rich material foundation, which requires us to "develop" and vigorously develop the economy. Of course, economic development needs a stable and peaceful society. Adam Smith, a famous British political economist, said: If most members of a society are poor and miserable, it is impossible for this society to be prosperous and happy. For example, during the period from the First World War to the founding of New China, there were constant disputes and wars, and those in power abused their powers, while those who had no power let others fish. Some of them just struggled to breathe twice more before they died. Those who live in the lower classes are in dire straits. It can be said that "the wine in Zhumen stinks and the road freezes the bones." Can such a life be labeled as "happiness"? It was not until the founding of New China that the country began to have new policies and systems. When the society is relatively stable, people will have the spare capacity to develop the economy and gradually embark on a well-off road, and then dare to think about "happiness".
Of course, the growth of simple material wealth does not necessarily lead to the improvement of happiness. I often hear the saying: I am really poor, and I have only money left. Although this is only a joke, it can also reflect a certain state of life. Some people have been running for money all their lives, and in the end they have accumulated a lot of money, but health, affection and love no longer exist because of neglect of watering. Can such people be called "happy people"? Of course not. Because, what we call happiness, to a great extent, refers to the joy and comfort of the spiritual world. For example, from the environment in which we live-from a stable society, a United nation and a harmonious country to convenient transportation, a leisurely life and a harmonious neighborhood, we feel relaxed and happy both physically and mentally, thus giving birth to a sense of happiness. There is a song that sings well, "Home is the smallest country, and there are thousands of countries. With a strong country, there will be a rich home. The home of a country lives in its heart, and the country stands in harmony. The country is the perseverance of honor, and the home is full of happiness. Every inch of the country, every footprint of the home. The country and the family are connected together, creating a miracle of the earth. " These words vividly describe the relationship between the state and the family. If you want to be happy, you must be happy. How can a country be "happy"? Relying on "the happiness of thousands of families." To sum up, a happy China is to make thousands of families in Qian Qian, China happy.
Now, as middle school students, what we can do for "Happy China" is to make our small family happy. Maybe we just pat dad on the shoulder when he is tired and bring her a glass of water when mom is thirsty. Although things are small, your family will be "happy" So, let's start today and do what we can: be kind to others and be kind to ourselves!