What you need to ask yourself is: Are the worries of your family your worries? If you don't think too much because you are young and feel reasonable after listening to the old man's words, it depends on whether your boyfriend can meet your new needs on the basis of "tolerance, optimism and practicality". See if your boyfriend is capable or willing to meet your new needs.

If so, let's see how long it will take to reach your satisfaction. On the other hand, if your boyfriend feels uncomfortable, turn around and leave, that's normal! Because he is not a part-time job and you are not the boss.

If you really want to continue dating your boyfriend, you may need to put down some sense of superiority after meeting his family. Moreover, it is normal for you to choose a man who has no background and needs to start from scratch. This is a chance to exercise you out of the greenhouse. Because most women will come out of the greenhouse sooner or later, it is better to go first than to be passive!