Selected essays after reading Fu Lei's letter 1 My wife bought Fu Lei's letter for more than a year, and I haven't read it yet. I think a father writing to his son is nothing more than preaching, and there should be nothing to see. In the last two weeks, because there is no new book to read, I took this book out of the shelf and opened it in the middle. I was attracted by the content of the letter, so I started from scratch and began to read it word for word. These letters from home can be described as brilliant and extraordinary in writing.
Here I record some important impressions after reading this book for the first time, as well as the important ideas expressed by the author I understand. First of all, in terms of form, Letter from Home has taught me what is meticulous, meticulous and serious ... I believe all readers who have read Letter from Home are deeply touched by these characteristics. According to my own experience, I think this is largely due to the way of expression, communication or writing. Only in this way can we have such a wide range of works, which is naturally comfortable. He not only talks about art study, but also about life, love, being a man and self-cultivation. Even if the son writes a typo, the father will "seriously" point it out and patiently analyze and correct it. It is in this way rather than in other ways (such as thesis and translation) that we can directly and clearly feel the meticulous and rigorous attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a famous literary critic and literary translator. This is the attitude and style. In addition, Mr. Fu Lei, because of his knowledge and thoughts, can explain profound but never difficult truths about any major and minor issues, thus giving people inspiration.
The book shines with wisdom everywhere, giving people profound enlightenment from time to time. Throughout it, I think the most important point is that the relationship among life, practice and study is actually an integrated thought. In my opinion, this is the importance of attaching importance to and emphasizing "universal support". In other letters, this idea appeared, such as suggestions about going to museums and forests, hoping to improve general cultivation through these methods, rather than blindly practicing the piano and engaging in music. What inspires me is that reading is just one of the ways to cultivate one's self-cultivation, and there should be others. Even if you study, don't limit yourself to a certain subject. The establishment and improvement of general education requires reading literature, art, science, philosophy, sociology, economics and history.
In addition, others, such as the relationship between emotion (passion) and reason, should control emotions with reason; I often look at everything in life from the perspective of stars or the universe, so I understand the limitations of people, and so on. These are all insightful and shine with rational light! These are some thoughts after reading Fu Lei's letter. As the saying goes, "the book is not full of words, and the words are not full of meaning." After reading, I can only record part of my gains, but I can't write more. I have to integrate into my body.
This is the best reading for art apprentices and a textbook full of fatherly love. Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are models of China's parents. Their two children, Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher, are the successful embodiment of their educational philosophy of being a man first, then getting married, thinking independently and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. Fu Lei said in his letter to Fu Cong: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not only your writing that exercises you through communication, but also your thoughts. Fourth, I will always be your warning and be a' faithful mirror' everywhere, no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and excellent personality." Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and deep affection between the lines have touched parents and children all over the world. Teachers and parents are advised to read carefully.
There is a book in Reading Selected Letters of Fu Lei 2 that impressed me deeply, and that is Fu Lei Letters!
There is a very good sentence in the book, that is, writing to you repeatedly is not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not only your writing that exercises you through communication, but also your thoughts. Fourth, I will always remind you to be a' faithful mirror', no matter in life, in details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude and be an "artist with excellent personality". This passage is well written, and there is a lot of truth in it!
This book can teach us how much a father expects of his son and the truth of being a man. I hope everyone will finish reading it!
After three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold. Since ancient times, letters from home have been the only way for wanderers to communicate with their families far away from home. Growing up, I have never experienced the faint sadness and sweetness brought by distance. The feeling I yearn for is given to me by Fu Lei's letter. ...
In Fu Lei's letter, 185 letters from home contain the father's guidance on children's career and the mother's advice on children's life ... Those ordinary and simple words moved me to tears again and again, and I can't forget the scenes that appeared in front of me at that time: my parents stayed up all night after leaving, full of thoughts, and when they came home from Fu Cong, they were full of tears, worried about depression because they hadn't received a letter from their son for a long time.
The love in Fu Leixin may be the unusual love produced by distance. Unusual is not because its love transcends the world, but because of the distance, people know how to cherish this love! If you don't know how to cherish, cherish the love around you from now on!
"Reading Fu Lei's Selected Letters" 4 After reading Fu Lei's letters, I deeply felt the writer Fu Lei's preciseness, seriousness and meticulousness, his selfless love for his relatives (mainly his son), and his conscience, integrity, generosity and fortitude.
Thanks to the writer Fu Lei for creating this letter from Fu Lei as our reading material. A letter from Fu Lei really deserves its reputation. Belief is an excellent reading material for teenagers' ideological cultivation, a classic model of quality education and a masterpiece for teaching children to be full of fatherly love. Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are worthy of being role models for China's parents.
Fu Lei said that his letter to his son has many functions: first, to discuss art; Second, stimulate the feelings of young people; Thirdly, cultivate Fu Cong's writing style and thoughts; Fourth, be a faithful "mirror". The contents of the letter are more about art and life than trivial matters, instilling the noble sentiments that an artist should have, letting his son know "the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art" and being an "artist with excellent personality".
It is human nature to love his son, but Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong and Fu Min has not turned into ordinary tenderness. Instead, he always puts morality and art first, and puts the feeling of the calf second. Just as his strict discipline of Fu Cong's childhood is not recognized by ordinary people, it really comes from his deeper love for his son.
Because this book is a family letter written by a father to his son, and it is a proverb written on paper. Therefore, it is as pure and simple as a clear spring in a mountain and white clouds in a blue sky.
Here are some of my wonderful excerpts:
First, Fu Lei loves his son deeply.
"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "
The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For my grown-up son, I hope he will thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let the child stay away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children will be useful in the future and will not sleep on the streets. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the hard work of our parents, let them see what they want to see-our happy life is also a reward for their painstaking upbringing.
Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.
"As far as play is concerned, I think the overall situation is not bad. I am full of energy in one breath. The delicate place is very delicate, and the timbre changes greatly. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "
This is Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes Fu Lei's recording of his son, careful analysis and objective appreciation. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.
Third, Fu Lei's charge.
"In the public * * * group, catching up on tasks will inevitably hinder normal study, which I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "
Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.
I hope more and more readers will come to see Fu Lei's letter, and I believe they will all gain something!
"Reading Fu Lei's Letters" 5 "After three months of war, a letter from home is worth a ton of gold" is a famous sentence in the Tang Dynasty poet Du Fu's Spring Hope. Fu Lei's letter made me feel the deep affection between the lines.
Fu Lei's Letters mainly records the spiritual contact and ideological exchange between Fu Lei and his son Fu Cong. The letter from home is not an earth-shattering event, but a record of Fu Cong's growing-up events, but it is through these events that the greatest and most sincere love between Fu Lei and Fu Cong can be displayed. Fu Cong went abroad for further study at the age of 20, and when Fu Cong returned to his hometown twenty years later, he saw not the smiling faces of his parents, but two new graves in the cemetery.
When you are at an altitude of10,000 feet, the power of love can feel your smile; When you are in the sea one hundred feet deep, the power of love can feel your heart beating regularly every time! When his son Fu Cong went abroad for further study, Fu Lei wrote one letter after another to his son. What is even more rare and precious is that these letters were well preserved by his son Fu Cong. Through reading, I learned that Fu Lei was unfortunately labeled as a rightist during the Cultural Revolution. Nevertheless, Fu Lei continued to write to his son, constantly encouraging him to become his spiritual pillar. Flowers are beautiful because of grass, trees are tall because of rain, and Fu Cong succeeded because of his parents' encouragement.
Parents' earnest teachings in their letters from home, sincere communication with their children, and family affection are beyond words. Fu Lei once said to Fu Cong: "Your childhood family background is unique not only in China, but also in the world." However, in children's minds, Fu Lei's harsh love is not recognized. What he likes is so-called "doting". In order to educate Fu Cong, Fu Lei devoted his efforts. Although this kind of love is not recognized, it cannot be denied.
Love is boundless, and love is not a bad check. Fu Lei put love into action, like spring rain, moistening things silently. And Fu Cong gradually became a talented person in this special love for his father. It is a perfect word to describe the affection between Fu Lei and his son Fu Cong.
I hope this kind of love can infect and touch more people.
Selected Essays after Reading Letters from Fu Lei 6 "Letters from Fu Lei" is a "painstaking teaching book full of father's love, and the best accomplishment reading for art apprentices". A book about how to educate children, A Letter from Fu Lei is a collection of letters written by Fu Lei, a famous literary translator, literary critic and art critic in China, to his son.
Fu Lei is a sincere person. I think it should be an honor to have such a father, because he treats his children as independent individuals, admits his mistakes and is sincere.
Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.
In fact, Fu Lei is just one of Qian Qian's parents, and he is also one of the representatives of Qian Qian's parents. He has the most common and common love in the world, and it is also the greatest and most sacred love in the world, but in fact, our parents also have such great parental love as Fu Lei.
After reading this book, I understand that it is natural for parents to love their children. Being a mother, I really realized the taste of the word "distressed", thinking that maternal love is hot, but I don't know enough about it. Like some "responsible" parents, I expect too much from my children, or I am eager to achieve success. I pay attention to adjust my mentality and have heart-to-heart communication with my children.
"Selected Letters of Fu Lei" 7 Du Zimei in the Tang Dynasty said that "after the war-fires of three months, a letter from home is worth a thousand pounds of gold". Fu Lei's letter is a kind of concern, but also a kind of conversation that can't be said face to face. Among the famous books I know, there is a letter to my son by Mai Jia, just like the bowl of Tang Fu I just ate in the New Year, which is hot and sticky; I also know that Zeng Guofan's letter is serious and realistic, just like a bitter medicine, which teaches a lot to future generations. On the other hand, Letters from Fu Lei is a natural picture of China, with an enlightened and open western style. It is calm and dignified, but it conveys warm affection.
Letters from Fu Lei recorded the correspondence between Fu Cong and his parents, the philosophy of life between father and son, and Julie's way of being a man. Mothers care about the details of life and exchange childhood experiences. In these letters, which contain profound feelings and rich educational wisdom, Mr. Fu Lei's principles and persistence in life, art and the motherland are gurgled. ...
Like a spiritual barge, it conveys the noble quality of the family, short stories and long feelings.
Mr. Fu Lei has a noble character, sets an example and pays more attention to the subtle way of educating children. He is the best role model around children. Mr. Fu Lei has made great achievements in translating English and French classics, and all these achievements are inseparable from his personal efforts and dedication. However, there is not a word in the family book that is not instilled in Fu Cong, who is full of vigor and vitality, that is, "dedication, modesty, loyalty and simplicity". It is precisely because Fu Lei set an example, forgot to eat and sleep, and pursued the mysterious literary power in his mind that Fu Cong also practiced the piano harder and pondered the romantic and philosophical Chopin.
The affection between Mr. Fu Lei and his eldest son, Fu Cong, is a way of sharing and suggesting education. They are also teachers and friends. They blend and promote each other, which is worth learning by modern families. In words, it is impossible to accurately summarize the love of parents for the younger generation. Just like green tea and tea leaves, they are neither heavy nor floating, and live together, contributing their meager strength to the promotion of national culture, burning their short life for the progress of social fashion, and diluting personal interests for the achievement of greater self. Even in the most difficult times, they encouraged each other. Devitski, Fu Cong's tutor, praised Fu Cong as "... deeply in love with his motherland, with excellent musical skills and genius-like mind, destined to win glory for his beloved motherland ..."
Mr. Fu Lei infiltrated his father's unique love in his strict music training for Fu Cong, and the carrier of this love is his patriotic, dedicated, modest and rigorous words and deeds. Zhu Neo-Confucianism's philosophy of being a man first, then an artist, then a musician and then a pianist is attached to this thin and beautiful "double carp".
Mr. Fu Lei's love for life, family, career, loyalty to the country, concern for society, exploration of the great Chinese civilization, and endless regrets in his life are ardent hopes for future generations. I hope that today's teenagers can fill themselves in a better environment, break through the barriers and look forward with the momentum of "a single spark can start a prairie fire"!
The world will not stop because of your stillness, so, inherit Mr. Wang's dream, hold the torch of hope, carry the spiritual strength of this barge, and continue sailing. The dawn of a new life is waiting for you!
"A lonely child will create a world."
Smile and face failure
Failure is always unpleasant. People often avoid failure, but even enviable successful people have the means to experience it. I