How to establish a good interpersonal relationship can be started from the following aspects. (1) Improving the ability to communicate with others Some people say: "A person's life, his quality of life depends on his communication ability and his influence." This is not unreasonable. Communication ability, like any other ability, can be acquired and improved through learning and shaping the day after tomorrow. First of all, colleges and universities can offer courses such as management communication, interpersonal communication and etiquette, and public relations to help students understand the theoretical knowledge about communication. Secondly, college students should broaden their reading range, establish their own language vocabulary, learn to fully express their views at the right time and place in the right way, and effectively handle interpersonal relationships; Third, learn to use body language, such as gentle and elegant manners, gestures, sincere and cordial smiles, to strengthen communication. It is worth mentioning that interpersonal skills are very important and can effectively avoid some possible unpleasantness.