We often hear stories about teenage girls falling in love with bad boys. This means that many young men are willing to play the role of bad boys. Obviously, this is because bad looks will be more interesting in front of girls and give them a sense of authority among their peers.

Some existing studies show that young couples are more and more violent. Unfortunately, this phenomenon is increasing year by year. This includes the stereotype of bad boys and the stereotype of girls falling in love with bad boys. Other studies have found that girls tend to incite physical and verbal violence, while boys tend to incite sexual violence and relationship violence.

In some people's minds, bad boys seem to be a model of male chauvinism, showing courage, boldness, confidence and no solution. People's stereotype of this temperament comes from the heroes in literary epics, who look invincible and lack some emotions. Nothing seems to shake them.

This image is actually a model of masculinity, which is full of lust in some cultures. And the bad boy looks strong and exudes youthful charm. However, many things in adolescence can make people feel very unstable.

Therefore, teenage girls like bad boys just because they represent a sense of security and a seemingly safe place, just because they are beginning to separate from their parents. In fact, this type of boy often has the image of a protective father.

Bad boys are often the perpetrators of sexual violence between young couples. As we mentioned earlier, the number of girls who commit violence in this relationship is also increasing, but we will focus on boys. The violence between these young couples is varied. It usually starts with possessiveness and sexual needs.

For example, it is common for young women who date such boys to take morning-after pills. This is because they may be unable to control the time of sexual contact, and boys refuse to take contraceptive measures. However, excessive use of these drugs will have a serious impact on women's health.

Young women who tend to be in this relationship also tend to depend on their partners. In fact, this situation is very common. Even if they are attacked or restricted from traveling, they will return to the boy and restore their relationship.

However, existing research shows that it is not a good idea for parents to ban this type of relationship, because parental intervention often has the opposite effect. A teenage girl usually interprets her parents' ban as an obstacle that she must overcome for love. In fact, these bans often only make this relationship more obsessed.

Educate girls to avoid gender violence. Most girls who end this relationship know what domestic violence is. However, they don't understand that they are victims of this relationship. If we ask them, many people will say that they are firmly opposed to violence against women and deeply cherish their rights. This shows that there are contradictions in their hearts, so that their words and deeds are inconsistent.

In fact, girls who fall in love with bad boys often need formal psychological intervention. Two hours of workshops or lectures by parents at school are far from enough. These girls often have deep insecurity, or may have unresolved trauma, or internalize inappropriate role models. Therefore, they need more than a short conversation.

In addition, these girls usually come from families with gender violence. Although they refuse this kind of violence, many cases show that their unconsciousness will eventually repeat the violence patterns they learned at home indefinitely.

This situation requires the intervention and treatment of psychological counselors. As mentioned above, parents' prohibition will be counterproductive. However, when the girl is facing serious harm and danger, parents should try their best to directly ban this relationship.