In real life, the ratio is the most indispensable part, such as the competition between enterprises and the contest between scholars, which has brought certain benefits to the development of the country, but is the ratio necessarily good?

In fact, Bibi's original intention is not bad. It is only because some people's judgments are wrong that they have a wrong understanding.

Among some students, it often happens that A's father bought him a pen. A shows off in class with a new pen, and B doesn't like it: "What is this? It's only tens of dollars. I have a Parker pen, more than one hundred! " A envied B very much, so he asked his father to buy him one and took it to school to show off the next day, which made his classmates' eyes red and green. Later, whenever there was something new, A would pester his father to buy it. When he got it in class, he compared it with others, spent all his thoughts on comparison, and his academic performance plummeted ... There were countless examples, but vanity was at work. Everyone doesn't want to give up, and it is this psychology that leads to the final result.

There is also a comparison, that is, competition in learning. I have had such an experience and know its benefits best.

At that time, I was just in the fifth grade, and a classmate named Chen Yu has always been my learning opponent. After each exam, we will have a written test, and the winners will find successful experiences from it and show their talents next time. Losers learn their own advantages from winners, and absorb their advantages to replace their own shortcomings, learn from failures and make progress in the next exam. In this way, our academic performance has been rising all the way, neck and neck.

It is also a comparison. Why is the difference so big? They used it in the wrong place. They fight for money, and we fight for study.

Actually, everything has its advantages. What matters is how you treat her correctly.