Parents beat their children, and children are sometimes abused. There are also many adoptive parents who raise their children and educate adults.

I don't know whether you are the son or the mother in this question.

If you were that son, I would tell you to be kind to your adoptive father. Kindness is not as good as kindness, so you should first look at any of his actions without prejudice. Distorted thoughts will have a bad influence on your life. You should believe that he is kind to you and really treat him as family. Maybe he is more cautious about your relationship than you are, afraid that his improper behavior will make you feel wronged. Take ten thousand steps back. If you are really unlucky and meet an adoptive father who is not good to you, then suffering will bring you growth. When you can be independent, support yourself immediately. No one can stop you from becoming an adult. Keep a good attitude and you will be the best.

If you are the mother who asked this question, I want to say that judging people should be your own skill. If you have prejudice and doubt about your child's adoptive father, then you should give your child the most comprehensive protection, not gamble on luck. Of course, no one can stop you from pursuing happiness, but if your son is underage, you are all to him. The basic ability of an adult should be to weigh the pros and cons and do him the least harm.