Needless to say, Baoyu opposes feudal ethics and values women over men. Among men, they are also willing to get close to those "inferior people", such as players, players and men. Take the risk to help them. This is a very rare quality.
The same is true of Daiyu. Xiangyun compared Daiyu to a performer, which was a very, very serious insult at that time-common sense! Even now, people tend to look down on jinv. At that time, the status of actors and jinv was basically the same. Daiyu, on the other hand, was able to have an attack with Baoyu without complaining about Xiangyun-at this time, she felt that Baoyu looked down on her. This shows the elegance of Daiyu and the concept of equality in her heart.
Shi Xiangyun equated Daiyu with a performer, which was equivalent to scolding a dignified woman at that time. Daiyu forgave her easily, but Xiangyun felt no guilt at all. On the first floor, it is hard to agree that Daiyu is the culprit. Personally, what stands out here is Xiangyun's wayward self and Daiyu's generous side. )
Xiangling's study of poetry is also a typical example. Other ladies can only watch the excitement and say a few words. Only Daiyu can teach her enthusiastically. Even if Xiangling is just a humble room.
When joking (Baoyu's birthday), Daiyu and Baoyu can joke. If the words involve a servant girl and touch the sad place of the servant girl, Daiyu will feel sad and regret-who else but Er Yu can do this?
Therefore, on the point of "equality", Baoyu and Daiyu are interlinked.
Baoyu is obvious, but he has traces of a playboy that is hard to get rid of. So when he is in a hurry, he will kick others, attack others, and run away whenever something happens.
Daiyu is less obvious, but clearer.
Then, why did Daiyu have the word "self-restraint"? Very simple, Daiyu asked her heart. The judgment is "love", and she only looks at her own preferences and doesn't look at the class status of others. For those snobbish women, Daiyu won't treat them as human feelings to win over. As for the filial piety of those women, Daiyu will probably be dismissive-it can be seen from Baoqin that when Baoqin is liked by grandma, some powerful women who like to arrange people will honor her immediately-this is inevitable.
After Baochai and Daiyu made up, they gave her the bird's nest, and Daiyu immediately rewarded the woman. This shows that Daiyu is not ignorant of the world, but disdainful of it.
At the same time, Mrs. Wang also dared to give Daiyu an ugly face in front of outsiders like Grandmother Jia and Granny Liu-the younger generation served tea according to courtesy, but Mrs. Wang coldly refused to pick it up and said that she was not thirsty or drunk!
Only the Wangfu people are the real rulers of the Jia family, and their attitude is so obvious. The snobbish attitude of her servants is evident. Without the protection of relatives, Daiyu couldn't help moaning that "the wind and the sword are pressing each other". As a junior of Mrs. Wang, she can only put on airs in front of those maids. For Mrs. Wang, even now, respecting the elders is an inherent virtue, isn't it? But Daiyu knew this, but she still refused to flatter Mrs. Wang.
Finally, in addition to the concept of equality beyond the times but limited to the times, Eryu also showed a very distinctive literati temperament.
After Daiyu became a scholarly family, it is very important that she was raised by boys when she was a child!
Although she once denounced "smelly man's things" and never made suggestions for Baoyu's economic career, one thing is certain-she does not mean that she is biased against all officials. Her own father is also a big official!
Just as Baoyu was a "loser", he also respected Confucius and Mencius, but thought that "later generations misinterpreted Confucius and Mencius" and now he is "mostly a loser" in court. Childe habit, export mowgli, generalize.
This is probably observed from the people around them. After all, Jia Jiake is a fairy. ...
It can be said that it is bitter and sweet, for them who are in it.
Baoyu is like this, so is Daiyu.
So Baoyu is still a handsome aristocratic man outside. He hates economic career, but he can get along with a prince like Shuishui.
Scholars in China always have a complex-
If you are rich, you will help the world, and if you are poor, you will be immune.
One is a dirty Jia family, and the other is a weak woman in a boudoir, so we can only choose the latter. Baoyu vetoed Jinglun in one fell swoop, while Daiyu shouted, "Clean yourself up, clean yourself up." .
So Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are true spiritual friends, and there are so many * * * songs.
Their personality should be analyzed from the aspects of their society, family environment and life experience. They are beyond the times, and it is impossible to completely surpass the times. They are rebels, and at the same time they are noble sons, big ladies.
Baoyu is a rebel of Jiafu and a social fugitive. Jin Chuaner's death is the result of his escape, and Qingwen's death is also the reason for his weakness. This is the tragedy of the environment, but also its own tragedy.
Daiyu is a double tragedy created by times and environment. She is a girl who has no self-reliance in feudal society. Without the protection of her parents and relatives, she relies on others, but she has the pride of a scholar, sensitive temperament and keen eyes. Pursuing spiritual equality, she is doomed to be a tragedy of the times.
As far as personality is concerned, she is sentimental, and she has carefully tested Baoyu's sincerity many times emotionally-Baoyu's personality is also like this, too gentle, and it is easy to be misunderstood by every girl-so she often gives people the feeling of being short-tempered. But in fact, she is a very good family, warm and honest. Don't judge people by class concept, just look at others' sincerity. Xiang Yun or Miao Yu, although repeatedly stabbing her, openly said that she was like an actress, false lofty (Xue Lu's Allianz poem section, Xiang Yun ignored Dai Yu's body and couldn't eat those things, and was immediately stabbed by Dai Yu's joke, calling her false lofty), tacky ... She can laugh it off and stop pursuing them.
-All the above are personal opinions.