Tolerance is the best medicine to relieve a knot in one's heart, broadmindedness is the best way to make friends, and tolerance can win you friends.

Be good at finding reasons from yourself.

A helpful young man met with difficulties, remembering that he had helped many friends at ordinary times, he went to ask them for help. However, all his friends turned a blind eye and turned a deaf ear to his difficulties. What a bunch of ungrateful guys! He was so angry that he couldn't get rid of it, so he went to the wise man.

The wise man said, "It is a good thing to help others, but you have turned a good thing into a bad thing."

"Why do you say that?" He's confused.

The wise man said, "first of all, you lacked human knowledge from the beginning." Ungrateful people don't deserve help, but you help them. These are your eyes. " Secondly, your hands are muddy. If you help them at the same time, you also cultivate their gratitude, so that they will not feel that your help to them is taken for granted, and things may not have come to this, but you have not done so; Third, when helping others, we should have a normal heart. Don't always feel that you are doing good, and you are superior to others materially and spiritually. You should only think that you are doing a small thing within your power. Compared with richer people, you are poor; Compared with the better, you are mortal. Don't think you helped others, think like this: God helped others through your hands, and everything belongs to God, not to yourself.

Himself "

It is human nature to be willing to help others and hope to get help from others when necessary. A truly open-minded and wise person is good at finding reasons from himself and will not complain about others blindly.

Fishing Tips Two fishing experts go fishing in a fish pond together. Both of them showed their talents, and the time was not long, and they all gained a lot. Suddenly, a dozen tourists came near the fish pond. Seeing that the two masters caught fish easily, they couldn't help feeling envious, so they both bought some fishing rods nearby to try their luck. Unexpectedly, these tourists who are not good at this way have no results in fishing. The two fishing masters have completely different personalities. One of them is withdrawn, doesn't like talking to people, and enjoys fishing alone; The other host is a warm-hearted, bold person who likes to make friends. The expert who loves to make friends, seeing that tourists can't catch fish, said, "That's it! I will teach you how to fish. If you learn the tricks I taught you and catch a lot of fish, give me one for every ten tails. If you are not satisfied with the ten tails, you don't have to give it to me. " The two sides hit it off and soon reached an agreement.

After teaching this group of people, he went to teach another group of people, also taught fishing skills, and asked to give him a reward every time he caught ten tail. At the end of the day, the helpful fisherman spent all his time guiding fishermen. He got a big basket of fish and made a large group of new friends. At the same time, he is surrounded by people with "teachers" on the left and "teachers" on the right, and he is highly respected.

Another master fisherman who came with me didn't enjoy serving others. When everyone learns to fish around their peers, that person is even more lonely. After fishing all day, I checked the fish in the bamboo basket, and the harvest was far less than that of my companions.

Enthusiasm for helping others often leads to mutual benefit. People who don't want to provide services to others don't want to provide convenience to you.