Many people think that the iron rice bowl of state-owned enterprises is so reliable, but the reality is that there are only porridge and a pack of Fuling mustard tuber in the iron rice bowl.

You may end up with a plastic bowl, but the bowl contains bird's nest and shark's fin, and the side dish is steamed bear's paw.

If it were you, what would you choose? Ten years ago, Gong Beibei married Liu. By the time she was about to have a second child, the couple bought a suite with five people living in one room and one living room. Gong Beibei can only sit on the toilet with a computer, just like the golden brothers and sisters in Parasite stealing WiFi in the toilet.

In a word, miserable.

Gong Beibei's own ability is very strong, and she is also a backbone level in obstetrics and gynecology in public hospitals. She has to give birth to others with a big belly and send papers to students from morning till night, which is equivalent to a business backbone and a mentor.

People who have this ability, as well as doctoral degrees, can only live in one room and one living room for more than ten years, and because they don't have much savings at all, they can only add a little money to change rooms.

But unlike Gong Beibei, her husband Liu and her parents-in-law are very satisfied with the status quo. The home is busy and crowded, and the old people don't need computers. Liu is a middle-aged Buddhist. He is not as comfortable as lying down. Eat delicious food, and then you don't have to bring your own children. This is the winner in life.

Gong Beibei can only worry about these things. Not only does it take a lot of effort, but her husband also loses his temper with her and thinks she is too picky.

Finally, Fang transformed the runway room with one room and one living room into a three-room and one living room with an attic, followed by poems and chicken soup in the distance. The frightened Gong Beibei placed an order on the spot. A family of six lives in poetry and a distant house.

But in fact, what Gong Beibei saw after calming down was a deformed house built with scraps, which was useless except barely solving her immediate difficulties.

The root of all this is money, and I have earned far less than expected income from my own labor.

So when a private hospital dug her up, she jumped decisively. In just one year, she has the savings of another big house (her husband is still in his previous job).

Not only did my income go up, but I also had more rest time, so I could spend more time with my family. But this is a contradictory starting point. As soon as Gong Beibei has more time to devote to her family, it means that she has more time to experience the problems existing in her family life, such as eldest education and getting along with her in-laws. These things were covered up by her high-intensity work before, and she had no time to take care of them. But once the job changed and she had time to face everything, she found that the nose of this family was neither nose nor eyes, which was too difficult to look straight at.

So the conflict with in-laws broke out, the economic ability improved, and there was a retreat, and I separated from them with my eldest brother and my second child.

Therefore, this is also a negative effect of good economic conditions in private hospitals, and families are prone to wrangling.