First, there is a comparison mentality.
The reason why college students have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses is mainly reflected in the material. We can't live without material things in our daily life, which is one of the reasons why college students keep up with the joneses. Many college students turn their pursuit of material things into the driving force of their own lives, which is a sad thing for the future social development, because college students are the main force of future social development. If college students blindly pursue material satisfaction and ignore the promotion of spiritual field, they will eventually lead to the deviation of values and enter the misunderstanding of life.
Second, interpersonal problems.
Good interpersonal relationship is an important part of students' growth and socialization, and it is also a necessary condition to maintain a good psychological state. However, due to the complexity of interpersonal relationship, society and the singleness of students' psychology, college students are often frustrated in interpersonal communication. A considerable number of college students, from school gate to school gate, lack interpersonal experience and the ability and courage to express themselves and communicate with others in public. Faced with various activities, they are full of enthusiasm and worried about failure. Over time, they even avoid participation, which hinders the formation of a good interpersonal circle. It is not conducive to the healthy growth of students.
Third, the problem of emotional ups and downs.
College students are in the "storm period" of youth development, and their physical development is extremely rapid and has basically matured. However, due to their shallow experience and lack of social experience, they often have insufficient understanding of life and social issues.
In addition, teenagers' unique waywardness and ideal confusion are intertwined, which is prone to various psychological contradictions, interference and influence from various external factors, and their self-control and self-adjustment ability is low, leading to their psychological deviation and eccentric behavior.
Fourth, the problem of mobile phone dependence.
In high school, many students' parents may control the frequency of using mobile phones, but when they get to college, the sky is high and the emperor is far away, and students leave their parents' area, which is out of control. What I can do every day is to charge my mobile phone. The first thing to do when you wake up in the morning is to grope for your mobile phone. I can go to class without a pen and paper, but I must never bring my mobile phone ... If I lose my mobile phone, I lose my sense of security.
There are many reasons for these problems, and society, schools, families and college students themselves should attach great importance to them and cooperate closely to solve these problems with practical actions to promote the healthy growth of college students.