The Analects of Confucius? Xue Ji: "Confucius said:' Disciples are filial when they enter, and filial when they leave. They are sincere and believe that they love the public and are kind. If you have spare capacity, you should study literature. " "

Confucius talked about filial piety and taught his disciples: be filial when you enter your parents, and love your brothers when you leave your parents; A cautious and trustworthy person, who loves people and is close to benevolence. If there is still excess capacity after this implementation, then study the literature again.

There are several important things to do in life: (1) filial piety to parents and love to brothers at home; (2) expand this filial piety in society, love the public and be close to benevolence; (3) Learn to be a man first, and then learn professional skills.

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The Analects of Confucius? Xue Ji: "Confucius said:' Father is here, watch his ambition; Father didn't, observe his actions; If you don't change your father's ways for three years, it is filial piety. " "

Confucius said: the father is alive and watches his son's ambition; Observe what a son does when his father dies; It can be said that three years is filial piety if the father's reasonable place does not change.

The concept here is the "two views" on filial sons: (1) filial piety and unworthiness of children, that is, good and evil. When my father was alive, he mainly observed his ambition; (2) After father's death, we mainly observe his behavior. If the rationality of inheriting his father for three years remains unchanged, he is a dutiful son. Of course, people will re-examine it today, because the times are changing, and the things of parents are not necessarily the same, but those who inherit and those who deny.

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The Analects of Confucius? "Meng Weizheng chapter, asked about filial piety. Confucius said,' There is no violation.' Fan Chi told him,' Sun Meng asked me about filial piety, and I answered it without violating it.' Fan Chi said, "What is it?" Confucius said:' Life is a matter of courtesy; When you die, you should be buried with courtesy and offered with courtesy. " "

Meng, doctor of Lu, surname, name Wuji; Yi is its posthumous title. Because it is one of the three schools of Lu (Sun Meng, Shu Sun, Ji Sun), it is also called. Fan Chi, a disciple of Confucius. When Meng asked about filial piety, Confucius said, "Don't violate it." Fan Chi drove for Confucius, and Confucius told him, "Sun Meng asked me about filial piety, and I replied,' No violation.' "Fan Chi asked," what do you mean? "Confucius said:" Live and dress your parents; "When they die, they are buried with gifts and sacrificed with gifts."

The enlightenment of this passage is that filial piety should be "not against", not against etiquette, not against etiquette, not against etiquette, and the ceremony mentioned here is the most sacred "Zhou Li" in Confucius' mind. Of course, Confucius' words were also targeted, because at that time, the three families of Lu were all doctors and could only use the gifts of doctors, but they often exceeded their authority, not only using the gifts of princes, but even using the gifts of the emperor. This is "violation", so Confucius explained that "filial piety" means "no violation" In fact, as far as the general situation is concerned, filial piety to parents should also follow certain rituals and cannot be violated. For example, for parents' funerals, ordinary people should not violate the prescribed etiquette.