Is sincerity absolute? Being sincere means being sincere, not lying, and being what you look like. Everyone likes sincere people, but hates hypocritical people, and I am no exception. However, some people think that sincerity is absolute, no matter to whom or under what circumstances, it must be 100% sincere. This view, at first glance, makes sense, but on reflection, there is a problem.
Think about it. When the Japanese invaded our country on a large scale, if all China people adhered to the principle of treating others sincerely and the old saying "I can't be unfair to others", would we still have a happy life today? So sincerity is not absolute, and its code cannot be sincere to the enemy. It should be tit for tat, blood out.
Some people may say that you can be insincere to your enemies, but you should always be absolutely sincere to your friends! In my opinion, not really. It depends. What if your friend has an incurable disease and you tell him the truth sincerely? Maybe this will accelerate his death. Is this the ending you want to see? Some people may say that you can't be 100% sincere to your friends, so you should be 100% sincere to your loved ones! In my opinion, not really. Please think about it. When Zhuge Liang's brother Zhu Gejin asked Liu Bei for Jingzhou on behalf of Soochow, what did Zhuge Liang do? He asked Liu Beixian to refuse, and then cried for his brother. Liu Beicai pretended to promise to return Wu Dongsan County first, and asked Zhu Gejin to take a letter to see Guan Yu. Guan Yu understood the intention of Liu Bei and his military adviser and said that he would not grant military orders abroad, but simply refused. Zhu Gejin returned empty-handed. Zhuge Liang is sincere to Liu Bei, but not sincere enough to his own brother. There is nothing wrong with this, everyone has his own interests! Therefore, sincerity is not absolute, but relative, which conforms to the interests of relatives and the collective? When national interests conflict, we should choose to be sincere to the collective and the country. Besides, don't you have any privacy? You want him or her to know you 100%? Being invisible in front of everyone? Are you willing to spread all kinds of stupid things you have done before? Therefore, there is no absolute sincerity, and if there is, you will not exist.
In a word, sincerity is relative. Treat people sincerely, depending on the object and the situation.
The flower of sincerity is a flower, a heart and a feeling; An experience, a story, a real city.
Red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple constitute a seven-color flower, a flower full of sincerity and justice.
Relying on mother's careful feeding, after countless long days and nights, we were born on a sunny day. After the baptism of God and the sublimation of the spirit of all things, everything is so white and flawless. We have a pure heart, so we get a red petal.
Orange, a bright color, is our childhood! Full of laughter and energy. We looked at the colorful world with curious eyes. Everything is so strange and mysterious that it attracts us to explore tirelessly? To think? To create. We simply believe in the future and believe that it will lead us to run. The world in our hearts, like oranges, is so lively and full of vitality. Is pure sincerity!
The yellow color of sunflower expresses the boldness and hope of life. Does it belong only to hope? No, this is naive, isn't it? A symbol of romance. We think this is a world without tears, because there are only imagination and dreams. We will regard the green jeep as a croaking frog; We think the slide is a toy for our whole life. Without it, there is no fun, because we can no longer feel the feeling of birds flying. We look at everything with a naive heart, which is sincerity! Because sincerity is based on innocence? Face it with a bright heart!
I used to think that junior high school was the beginning of life hell. Because all the efforts are only for the senior high school entrance examination, everything else is just a funerary object for the senior high school entrance examination. Think that friends are ordinary friends for fighting, that teachers are tools to solve problems, that schools are prisons in hell, and that on that day, everything was completely denied! On the day we left our alma mater, we all took cameras and recorded the happiest time in our lives. When we step out of our alma mater, we can't help but look back at our alma mater and teachers, and there is only infinite nostalgia in our hearts, because we know that we will never have a chance to take classes here again; At the crossroads, we parted from our best friends for four years, and the pain of sadness forced us to tears. We know that we won't be together in the future, because everything we once had will only become the most beautiful memories in our hearts. Because, once, each of us, all sincerely paid, will be so reluctant to go. Parting? Sad? Heartache, are these the price of sincerity? Is that really the case? No, the price is parting, but God gave each of us a green petal, because green symbolizes cherish? Pay.
High school life is just the beginning for me, but if I use one word to describe it, it may be green! I treat people sincerely, but I often get unexpected returns. In addition to occasional laughter, there are sadness, loss, dissatisfaction, tears and despair. All this can only be self-comfort with ulterior motives. I want to give up, but have I really done it? No, because I'm still me! No one can change it! I still treat everyone with my heart, no matter what the result is, I believe that as long as I really pay, there will be miracles!
Maybe we will understand our parents' feelings when we work. They have always hoped that I will succeed in my studies and lay the foundation for improving my quality of life in the future. However, are these really that easy to get? How can you get a reward if you don't pay? I remember asking my father, "Are you tired from work?" Dad always shakes his head. I don't know if dad is really not tired, or has unspeakable suffering? Now I vaguely know that society is complex, like a swamp, taking part in accidental amusement? Intrigue often makes people unable to extricate themselves. Perhaps only by returning to nature and the pure world like blue can we have warm sincerity!
Purple, including all colors, gives people a deep feeling! When your life is described in purple, I think you should be a sophisticated and tolerant person, and your heart may become richer with deep experience. ……
A seven-color flower, seven colors, accompanied me through every course of my life. Along the way, I sincerely collected colorful petals and put them in my warm memories. Whether I am happy or sad, I always see sincere flowers blooming in my life!
Is sincerity a bridge between people's hearts, or is it all washed away? Show the virtue of the soul, this flower may be a kind of life realm that the world really yearns for!
Feel sincere. Did you find it? In this vast world, any creature can make you feel its truth? Its kindness and beauty. In the morning, the breeze blows the little green on the branches with a faint smile. Together with the oleander on the wall, it seems to sing the most vivid movement in life-sincerity. Is this the true beauty of nature, or is it simple? The essence of truth. This "beauty" lies in "sincerity"
On a crowded bus, you can often hear such a conversation: "Oh, I'm so sorry! Step on you! " "Never mind, never mind!" Being trampled is a common thing, sometimes it hurts, but it doesn't matter, because there is a sweet "I'm sorry". Maybe it's a light sentence, but it's heavy. You will feel the sincere apology and sincere greetings from the other party, and the remaining resentment in your heart will disappear like clouds. Listen, "I'm sorry!" "It doesn't matter!" Just like the' confession' of the soul, it sweeps away the impure dust on the soul and makes people crystal clear? There is no time.
Some people say that sincerity between people is hard to find. In fact, the most common sincerity is in the days of getting along with friends. A look? A smile, even a small note, can make people extremely happy, because it contains too much frankness and hope.
That day in physical education class, when He Jiang helped me up and broke my hand, the blood gushed from my fingers dyed the ground red, which was really terrible. In the infirmary, I cried loudly in fear. He Jiang tried to wipe my blood with a towel and said something comforting. When taking medicine, she was afraid of my pain, so she held my hand tightly ... I didn't know that He Jiang's clothes had turned into red stripes until I walked out of the infirmary. The next morning, I put down a white card in front of He Jiang, which wrote in black ink: "In the most difficult time, you helped me desperately, and sincerity is all you have." He Jiang looked at it with a bright face. Her smile seemed to say, "Friendship? Joy is really you and me. " Friendship is like a delicate flower? Fragile flowers need to be cultivated with enthusiasm and watered with sincerity to last for a long time? Open it beautifully.
The flower of friendship is of course called sincerity. In daily study and life, only by truly facing others can we gain something. Just think, if you are afraid that the other person will surpass you in your study, then sincerity will cease to exist. He Jiang and I never hide anything, but we always think about what we can do for each other. To outdo each other, we stepped up our competition in study. We blush and argue about a problem, rejoice in each other's progress, and work hard for ourselves ... We are competitors in study, bosom friends in life, be honest with each other, and use our true selves. We can reflect on ourselves while feeling sincere.
Now many people are indifferent to each other because they don't really treat each other and life with their souls. What is sincerity? If the relationship between people is compared to a thick wall, then sincerity is the key to open the window, dazzling and precious. What is sincerity? It is beauty, joy and hope!
Come on, treat everyone and everything around you sincerely, open your heart and feel sincere!
Your sincerity reminds me that you can't remember other people's false praise, sweet words, but only your sincere words. Because of sincerity, our friendship is more perfect.
You are a man talking and laughing, but I am always silent. Our personalities are completely different. You like noisy, but I like quiet. And the world is really strange, and we can be good friends here. Maybe it was your sincerity that made me accept you, or maybe it was silence. I can be your best listener.
Lonely company
I often don't go home during holidays and often wander around the school. Watch the trees shake and the flowers wither. Listen to them whispering. Or enter a quiet library and find a hard-working heart. There will be some students who do their homework carefully. I always sneak by and don't want to disturb them. Seeing their efforts will also give me some ideas to leave quickly, and I will work hard myself. Or lying alone in the middle of the playground of Nuoda University, making me cry from a 90-degree perspective. When you see the sky at 40 degrees, you will feel very lonely and isolated. At this time, your company is always indispensable. You like to talk about your life ideal at this time, because at that time you feel very small and open-minded. I'll feel great, too. You and I will also talk about the gossip of students and teachers, and the laughter will be blown to pieces by the wind before it goes far. You will accompany me to stare at the sky quietly, or close your eyes and fall asleep unconsciously. I wasn't alone then.
Sad comfort
Nine times out of ten, the learning department is not satisfied. Every time I failed, I never gave up. Because of you, you always believed in me. When I failed, you said, I think you have a bright future. I looked into your eyes seriously, trying to find a trace of sympathy for me, but I only saw the word sincerity. Maybe I didn't have much confidence in myself before, but now I have really improved. Every time I fail, I don't want to hear that kind of long speech, just want to hear positive words of encouragement. Come on, work hard next time! Simply put, you said it. I just love to hear this kind of unadorned words, let it be. Hearing your comfort, I feel a little sad, grateful to you and full of fighting spirit.
Happy parting
We didn't cry because we were happy. It is fate to meet in the vast sea of people, so why be sad when you leave? Your sincere eyes make me sad at all. We lay in the middle of the playground together, and finally looked at the blue sky in a daze, which was particularly clear. You and I took a group photo as a souvenir, and we both laughed happily in the photo. Then you left.
I am lonely in a daze with you, I am sad to comfort you, and I am happy to share it with you. Your sincerity made me remember you. I believe we will meet again. Actually, you and I already know each other. You, my sincere friend.