The cicada who learned to give up struggled to get rid of its shell, thus gaining the freedom to sing at high altitude. The gecko bravely broke its tail, thus saving the weak life in danger. If the abacus fills its own space and becomes full, it loses its calculation function.
We should give up what we shouldn't.
Real life is complicated, and our tolerance is limited. If the brain is a warehouse, no matter how big it is, when one thing is full of it, another thing can't get in. For example, reading, when we are infatuated with the swords and shadows of Jin Yong, Gu Long and Liang Yusheng, how can we concentrate on the complex geometric phalanx and countless English words? You must choose between what you want to read and what you should read.
There are many things in one's life that need to make similar choices. Give up what you should give up, you are a wise man; Give up what you shouldn't give up, and you are a fool. Gorky, a world writer, saved several boxes of books from the raging fire regardless of furniture, property, clothes and even life when his room caught fire. Abandon the wealth in the eyes of ordinary people and keep the real wealth that enlightens and purifies the soul. And some people, holding the creed that "people die for money, birds die for food" all their lives, chase after glittering treasures. In pursuit of vulgarity, they abandoned their personality and morality, and abandoned the truth, goodness and beauty in human nature. The wrong abandonment makes their lives dirty and mean.
Giving up correctly often requires a noble style like Songqiuju. It is said that there is a "six-foot alley" in Tongcheng, Anhui Province, which used to be a place of dispute between Zhang and Ye. The master of the Zhang family is the prime minister of the dynasty, and Mrs. Zhang wrote to him. He wrote back and said, "a letter thousands of miles away, only separated by a wall, is three feet long, which is a nuisance to him." The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, and Qin Shihuang is not seen. " So the Zhang family gave up three feet. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed and gave up three feet, becoming a "six-foot lane". The prime minister gave up the dignity of his face, and with a generous mind and generosity, he turned the hatchet and stopped fighting. If there is no moral integrity beyond ordinary people, how can you give up like this?
Giving up correctly will not be as simple as throwing away the waste paper ball casually, it also needs courage, determination and courage. When King Wuling of Zhao abolished the old system and advocated Khufu's riding and shooting, many people opposed obstruction, but he was determined, brave and courageous, and finally achieved great achievements in history. The process of giving up is difficult, especially giving up what you love is painful. In front of Maweipo on Xishu Road, Emperor Tang Ming killed Yang Yuhuan. From a politician's point of view, it is worthwhile to exchange the death of a noble princess for temporary peace in half the country. However, it happened that "Later he turned around and saw the land of blood and tears" and "The emperor couldn't save her, so he had to cover his face" and died before Emei Ma turned around. In this case, why not make people feel deeply grieved and miserable?
Not every seedling can grow into a towering tree, not every flower can bear rich fruits, and life needs us to learn to give up. If the abacus wants to have calculation function, it must discard the extra beads. If you yearn for the tranquility of mountain residence, you must abandon the prosperity of the city; If you envy the success of the strugglers, you should abandon the comfortable and idle life; If you want to travel all over Qian Shan, you must abandon the gentleness of the local accent.
We should learn to give up.
Darren Hardy, the publisher of Success magazine, who learned to give up argumentative writing, once interviewed some famous successful people to discuss their ways to success. Finally, he concluded that their success lies in giving up some minor things and focusing on a few vital things. Indeed, sometimes to achieve great things, you have to give up something, and you can win thousands of miles by going into battle lightly.
In today's "fast food era", the accelerated pace of life has also forced many people to be eager for quick success and delusion. At the Cannes Film Festival, which opened in May, 20 13, Uncle Bird of Korea was sought after by many people. But at the same time, Uncle Bird appeared at a meeting in Singapore, which puzzled everyone. However, when the facts were revealed, everyone's doubts suddenly turned into abuse. Uncle Bird who appeared in Cannes Film Festival is just body double of Uncle Bird. He cheated on food and drink at Cannes Film Festival, which caused a sensation, but made uncle bird fever at the film festival a big laughing stock. I don't think he is keen on imitation, but is blinded by fame and fortune. In the new media environment, we should give up our dependence on imitation and bid farewell to simple takenism. And those who strive for fame and fortune in the cloak of idols should reflect on themselves. The real success is not to disguise themselves but to innovate themselves. Blind imitation, only its fur, will only ruin its future. It is true that success is not an illusion if we resolutely give up the so-called fame and fortune, give up unnecessary imitation and be a real brand-new self.
I think that if a person can let go of those flashy and rusty things, he will take a more brisk step towards success. Similarly, a society needs to give up. Even though some traditional etiquette and customs have been passed down for thousands of years and need to be continuously enriched, enough is enough to gain a foothold in society. Dragon Boat Festival is a traditional festival in China. Every family eats zongzi to commemorate the great patriotic poet Qu Yuan, but in recent years, zongzi has changed from a sacrifice to a gift. Writer Mo Huaiqi said angrily to this phenomenon: "Why do these miscellaneous zongzi use bamboo leaves? Why not use plastic bags? " Perhaps the sadness of material life is reflected behind this sentence. It is not so much about etiquette as over-packaging, which runs counter to etiquette. In my opinion, those empty appearances should be resolutely abandoned, and traditional virtues and social ethics should not stick to modern people's material outlook and possessiveness. If a society can abandon the so-called "golden jade" and clear its "setbacks" so that they are no longer fetters, it may be able to move forward indefinitely.
Whether people or society want to make progress, they must give up something decisively. No matter how far you go, you should remember why you started.
Darren Hardy, the publisher of Success magazine, who learned to give up argumentative writing, once interviewed some famous successful people to discuss their ways to success. Finally, he concluded that their success lies in giving up some minor things and focusing on a few vital things. Indeed, sometimes to achieve great things, you have to give up something, and you can win thousands of miles by going into battle lightly.
In today's "fast food era", the accelerated pace of life has also forced many people to be eager for quick success and delusion. At the Cannes Film Festival, which opened in May, XX, Korean Uncle Bird was sought after by many people. But at the same time, Uncle Bird appeared at a meeting in Singapore, which puzzled everyone. However, when the facts were revealed, everyone's doubts suddenly turned into abuse. Uncle Bird who appeared in Cannes Film Festival is just body double of Uncle Bird. He cheated on food and drink at Cannes Film Festival, which caused a sensation, but made uncle bird fever at the film festival a big laughing stock. I don't think he is keen on imitation, but is blinded by fame and fortune. In the new media environment, we should give up our dependence on imitation and bid farewell to simple takenism. And those who strive for fame and fortune in the cloak of idols should reflect on themselves. The real success is not to disguise themselves but to innovate themselves. Blind imitation, only its fur, will only ruin its future. It is true that success is not an illusion if we resolutely give up the so-called fame and fortune, give up unnecessary imitation and be a real brand-new self.
I think that if a person can let go of those flashy and rusty things, he will take a more brisk step towards success. Similarly, a society needs to give up. Even though some traditional etiquette and customs have been passed down for thousands of years and need to be continuously enriched, enough is enough to gain a foothold in society. Dragon Boat Festival is a traditional festival in China. Every family eats zongzi to commemorate the great patriotic poet Qu Yuan, but in recent years, zongzi has changed from a sacrifice to a gift. Writer Mo Huaiqi said angrily to this phenomenon: "Why do these miscellaneous zongzi use bamboo leaves? Why not use plastic bags? " Perhaps the sadness of material life is reflected behind this sentence. It is not so much about etiquette as over-packaging, which runs counter to etiquette. In my opinion, those empty appearances should be resolutely abandoned, and traditional virtues and social ethics should not stick to modern people's material outlook and possessiveness. If a society can abandon the so-called "golden jade" and remove its "setbacks" so that they are no longer shackles, maybe it can move forward indefinitely.
Whether people or society want to make progress, they must give up something decisively. No matter how far you go, you should remember why you started. Sometimes giving up is also a kind of gain.