The so-called divorce means that people who are related by blood or in-laws gradually fade away until they break off contacts for various reasons. Especially after 90, this phenomenon is accelerating, and more and more post-90 s people have no contact with their relatives! So, why is the phenomenon of "breaking off relatives" becoming more and more common?
1, the popularity of the Internet and mobile phones has alienated the feelings between relatives. There is no doubt that no matter where we go now, we can't do without mobile phones. Everyone spends much more time on his mobile phone every day than on people around him. Today, with the popularization of the Internet in rural areas, most people like to communicate with others in the online world. Usually, I just want to talk to my mobile phone, but I don't want to talk to my neighbors and relatives. So, can this relationship not become indifferent?
2. In the past, it was a family-style agricultural production relationship, which lived by blood relationship. Now it is to develop industry and rely more on commodity trade to survive. Then productivity determines the relations of production, and it is bound to break the blood relationship. Nowadays, there is no simple relationship between people, and many relationships are based on interests and relationships.
The one-child policy leads to no brothers and sisters, only cousins. When I grow up, I go my separate ways. When the old man who supported their cousins died, they didn't know each other until they returned to their hometown. The relationship between relatives slowly broke down. There is not much contact and communication with each other, so there is no topic and memory.
In a word, there are not many ways to sever kinship. After all, a barely maintained relationship can't last long and it's very tiring. Like-minded friends must be long-term friends, but sometimes relatives are not necessarily true relatives!