I think it is very important to set strict standards for children from an early age, standardize their behavior, truly distinguish right from wrong and understand the truth. This will enable children to develop a good habit of being strict, hardworking, optimistic, confident, standardizing their behavior and distinguishing right from wrong. Specific practices are as follows: 1. Let the children know that the school regulations are reasonable, and even if there are defects, they are constantly improving. Therefore, as students, we should strictly implement the school rules and be a model for observing discipline. Students' main task is to study, and it is a dereliction of duty to finish their homework, so parents can force them not to watch TV or surf the Internet until they finish their homework. In fact, children will get used to it after a long time. 3. Educate children to be grateful, so that children can be grateful to society, teachers, parents and classmates from an early age. 4. When we set standards and regulate children's behavior, we must work with children and let them participate, which will increase their consciousness of voluntary compliance, and equality with children will enhance their conscious implementation.

Two: the relationship between parents and children

We know that children are the ideal carriers of parents to a certain extent, and parents are intertwined with all the joys and pains of children's growth; Children are the hope of parents, and parents expect their children to have a bright future. Parents can be happy for their children or miserable for them. Children may be degraded or sublimated by their parents all their lives. So, what kind of relationship should parents and children establish? I think there are several relationships. 1. The same is true for leaders: we know that children's conduct and future are greatly influenced by the outside world, so parents have an unshirkable responsibility in the process of children's growth. Because parents are the leaders of their children, they have the obligation to grasp the direction of their children. 2. The same teacher-student relationship: Parents are the best teachers for their children, which I think every parent should understand. He was also the first teacher to teach children about the outside world. Strict father's loving mother, this is the simplest and simplest view of parent-child relationship expressed by our ancestors. Hating iron and not turning into steel is the soul portrayal of parents in poor countries, but we should not advocate the way of pulling out seedlings to encourage children, which will do more harm to children. We should change our hatred that iron will not turn into steel by making iron. Parents, as teachers of children, should educate their children in a timely, appropriate and accurate way. I think if we master these, the teacher-student relationship between parents and children will be guaranteed. Friend-like relationship: since parents are children's teachers, they should also be children's good friends. The relationship between friends is equal, friendly and respectful. This is the most basic condition for dealing with all other relations. The harbor of children's hearts needs this kind of friend relationship between parents and children to maintain.

The relationship between parents and children should be interdependent and mutually reinforcing, and should not exist independently. Maintaining and perfecting these relationships will safeguard the dignity of parents and the rights and educational obligations of children. When you feel that you have a relationship with your child as a leader, a kind teacher and a friend, you will become the most qualified parent.

Three: Be the real guardian of children's growth.

I think educating children requires care, skill and willingness to pay. In fact, as long as you put your heart into it, there is nothing difficult. Let your children develop good study habits in grade 1-3, master good study methods in grade 4-6, follow the right path in junior high school for three years, and do psychological care and life guarantee in senior high school. Specific experience: 1. Grasp the direction: Our children have to go through three rebellious periods in their lives, namely, adolescence, so parents must pay more attention to their children, communicate with them calmly, be calm, be of one mind, understand and guide them. 2. Help children grow up: we should deliberately cultivate children's ability to complete various tasks independently, and change what we usually do for you and what we do for you; Gradually transition to teach you to do, watch you do, and rest assured that you do. Discover children's specialties, improve interest points, increase knowledge, pay attention to praise and improve interest. 3. Self-sacrifice: We should be role models for children. The power of example is infinite, so we should keep learning, pay attention to the update of our own knowledge, learn from others' experience with an open mind, play less mahjong and drink less, and communicate more with children. A good atmosphere can promote children's growth.

Four. Several methods to guide children's learning:

1. Interest is the best teacher, efficiency is the most important process, and grades are the final result. For example, by watching the TV series Romance of the Three Kingdoms with children, guide children to watch the original Romance of the Three Kingdoms; Guiding children to read books with the essence of China traditional culture, such as Historical Records and Zhuangzi, naturally promotes the study of classical Chinese and the thirst for historical knowledge; 2. Read widely and keep improving: knowledge is interactive and by-pass. In particular, English, Chinese and history are a long-term accumulation and improvement process, so that children can read more books to increase the width and depth of knowledge, so as to accumulate and improve, and learn first and then be refined. 3. Solve problems calmly: children will definitely encounter such problems when they grow up. Go on the rampage, even hitting the child can't solve the problem. After an exam, it's not just about how many points your child scored. It is important to recall the process and ideas of doing the problem with the children and find out the reasons for the mistakes. 4. Give play to children's specialties: Our children are all good children and will be good students, but we should pay attention to discovering children's specialties at ordinary times. As long as we pay attention to give full play to our own advantages and focus on solving our own weaknesses, I believe that children will definitely raise the sails of learning and master more knowledge.

In short, educating children is a systematic project, which requires us to start with reasoning and teaching methods, improve our cognition, understand children, teach them in accordance with their aptitude, and give play to their own learning initiative; Create a good learning atmosphere for children; Work with teachers to help children grow up and move towards the same beautiful goal; Close to experts, close to the hands of the front line; Constantly improve in communication, summary and exploration, and realize the same ideal for our children to become talents!