Debate material on respect
Only when people respect each other can they live in harmony. If you want others to respect yourself, you have to respect yourself first. Respect can reduce the friction between people. Respect requires understanding and tolerance. Respect should also adhere to principles. Respect can promote communication among members of society. Respect for the fruits of others' labor can consolidate friendship. Respect can make cooperation more enjoyable. A harmonious society needs mutual respect, but don't let the other side feel benefited. Help others, but give them the highest respect. This is the art of helping others, and it is also a kind sentiment. -Liu Yong is not good at being humble to others, nor is it good at being humble to others. -Xu Teli It is impossible for a person who knows his own dignity to respect the dignity of others. -Schiller A truly great man is neither oppressed nor oppressed by others. -Ji Bolun vegetation grows on the rain and dew in the sky, but dares to look up at the sky. -Shakespeare respects others, so that people can be respected. -Descartes Whoever has self-esteem will be respected. Balzac should respect himself and consider himself worthy of the noblest things. Hegel's disrespect for people is first of all disrespect for himself. Whitman Whenever people don't respect us, we are always deeply angered. However, deep down, no one respects themselves very much. -Mark Twain People who drag out an ignoble existence with humiliation will never be respected. -Gao Naiyi respects the people, and the people will always respect them. -"Mencius" people must respect themselves, and then others respect them; People will insult themselves, and then people will insult themselves. -Yang Xiong didn't know that self-love is self-harm. -Zheng Yi A benevolent person must respect others. -"Xunzi" The gentleman is noble and humble, and the ancestors are before themselves. -"Book of Rites" Dignity is something that can't be wasted in a person's soul. -guzman It is difficult to respect a person to the extent he wants. -1 Yuan 200 yuan (respecting the fruits of labor) A Hong Kong tycoon accidentally dropped a dollar into his car when he got off the bus, and then bent down to pick it up. A waiter next to him saw it and went forward to help him pick up a dollar. After Li Ka-shing put away one yuan, he gave the waiter 200 yuan a reward. Actually contains values other than money. Although Li Ka-shing is rich, he lives frugally and never wastes money. He knows that billions of assets are earned by one yuan. Money has been abstracted as a kind of labor in his eyes, and labor has become his most important way of life. All his wealth is accumulated by working more than 20 hours a day. 200 yuan's remuneration is actually a respect and reward for labor, which cannot be measured by money. Franklin borrowed books to solve his grievances (respect others and win friends). When President Franklin was young, he once invested all his savings in a small printing factory, but the result was a big defeat. He really wants to get a job printing documents for parliament, but there is a disadvantage. There was a very rich and capable congressman, but he hated Franklin very much and even publicly scolded him. This situation is very unfavorable to Franklin. Therefore, Franklin decided to make the other person like himself. Franklin racked his brains for this. Borrow a few dollars from his enemy? It's no use. What he asked for should be something that makes the other party very happy-this request should just touch the vanity of the other party, make him feel respected, and skillfully show Franklin's admiration for the other party's knowledge and achievements. So he asked the congressman, "I heard that there is a very strange and special book hidden in your library." I am eager to see it. Please lend me that book for a few days so that I can read it carefully. " Sure enough, the man sent the book at once. About a week later, Franklin returned the book to him with a letter strongly expressing his gratitude. Therefore, the next time they meet in parliament, the members greet him first and are extremely polite. From then on, he was always ready to help Franklin, so they became good friends until his death. Look at the website completely. Famous saying: Only by respecting others can people be respected. -Descartes Whoever respects himself will be respected. Balzac should respect himself and consider himself worthy of the noblest things. Hegel's disrespect for people is first of all disrespect for himself. -Whitman A man who lives with shame will never be respected. -Gao Naiyi respects the people, and the people will always respect them. -"Mencius" people must respect themselves, and then others respect them; People will insult themselves, and then people will insult themselves. -Yang Xiong didn't know that self-love is self-harm. -Zheng Junzi is noble and modest, putting others before himself. -The Book of Rites is for people, but don't let the other person feel that it was given. Help others, but give them the highest respect. This is the art of helping others, and it is also a kind sentiment. -Liu Yong is not good at being humble to others, nor is it good at being humble to others. -Xu Teli A person who knows his own dignity can never respect the dignity of others. -Schiller A truly great man is neither oppressed nor oppressed by others. -Ji Bolun vegetation grows on the rain and dew in the sky, but dares to look up at the sky. -Shakespeare respects others, so that people can be respected. -Descartes Whoever has self-esteem will be respected. Balzac should respect himself and consider himself worthy of the noblest things. Hegel's disrespect for people is first of all disrespect for himself. Whitman Whenever people don't respect us, we are always deeply angered. However, deep down, no one respects themselves very much. Mark? Twain respected people, and people always respected people. -"Mencius" people must respect themselves, and then others respect them; People will insult themselves, and then people will insult themselves. -Yang Xiong didn't know that self-love is self-harm. -Zheng Yi A benevolent person must respect others. -"Xunzi" The gentleman is noble and humble, and the ancestors are before themselves. -"Book of Rites" Dignity is something that can't be wasted in a person's soul. -guzman It is difficult to respect a person to the extent he wants. -Wolfner Material Story: Respect for others has different attitudes. Ji Xianlin, a great master of "national treasure", never ranked according to seniority. Every time a guest visits, he sits neatly in front of the book case, with his head held high and his chin slightly closed, sitting upright and square. In his view, sitting up is a kind of respect for guests. When the guest leaves, he must go out to say goodbye. /kloc-one day in 0/995, Bai made a "Scholars" for Ji Xianlin. At that time, Ji Xianlin was sitting, and Bai Yi reached for his business card to hand it to him. He stood up and bent down to wait, which moved someone at the place. After the interview, the reporter will stand at his door and politely watch everyone leave. Many people once praised that a master is a master. How many people can always make simple gestures? The famous Franklin also had an anecdote. One day after work, he and a colleague walked down the stairs and came to the exit of the hall. At this moment, a lady walking in front suddenly fell on the smooth floor. Franklin's colleague saw this and was about to go up to help. Franklin grabbed him and hid behind a pillar together. The fallen lady has quickly got up, looked around, adjusted her clothes and hair and walked to her car. Only then did Franklin pull his colleague out from behind the pillar. This scene puzzled my colleagues. Why does a person who is usually full of sympathy for others not lend a helping hand when others fall, but hide? Franklin said seriously, "Who wants to be seen embarrassed and embarrassed?" We hid behind the pillar and convinced the lady that no one saw her embarrassing side. Otherwise, she will be ashamed to see us in the future. "Franklin's stopping and hiding is his great understanding and respect for the psychology of others. Avoiding watching is also a kind of respect. Especially when others are embarrassed or embarrassed, such as quarreling in the office and bickering between husband and wife. For example, it is the best respect to treat a person with physical defects without paying too much attention. People with physical defects are the most sensitive and vulnerable psychologically. They are most afraid that others will stare at them with strange eyes, otherwise they will feel inferior. So respecting their posture is "not looking". Once, Chaplin, an outstanding American humorist, was about to perform on stage when an enthusiastic audience suddenly reminded him, "Master, you forgot to button your coat." Chaplin zheng, hurriedly thank you, and quickly fasten the button. When the audience went away, he quietly unbuttoned the button again. This scene happened to be seen by the reporter who came to interview and asked Chaplin, "Why did you do this?" Chaplin replied: "I want to play a long-distance traveler, and loosening the button can better reflect his hard work and leave a vivid image for the audience." "However, to remind others of goodwill, we must be grateful for the return and respect them!" Sometimes we will explain the misunderstanding in time, and sometimes we will dismiss it. Chaplin accepted it with gratitude. Isn't it a kind of respect to keep a low profile, not distinguish, not fight back, and even thank them for their concern? There may be different ways and postures to respect others. Whether you are sitting or standing, avoiding or lowering yourself, you can show your shining personality.