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Scores are not a measure of children.
I saw such a thought-provoking cartoon: in the first picture, a smiling child is holding a 100 paper with lip prints encouraged by his parents on his cheek, which is in stark contrast to another child holding a 55-point paper, and his sad face is shocking; In the second picture, the child who scored 100 only got 98 points, and a slap was added to his face, while another child got a kiss from his parents because he scored 6 1 point this time.

This cartoon reflects the present situation that parents pay too much attention to their children's grades. "If a child's grades are good, he will be praised if his grades improve. It seems that the bright red numbers on white paper are the standard for measuring him, as if the cold grades are everything to the child. I understand that parents want their children to succeed, but I think their "achievement-only theory" of paying too much attention to their children's achievements is not conducive to their healthy development.

In private, children nowadays are not as happy as before, but are getting bigger and bigger. Academic pressure is an extremely important reason. Parents have placed too much expectation on their children, and the strict requirements for their children have become cruel shackles, firmly binding their children outside the gorgeous dreams of childhood. I know that many children are afraid when they fail the exam, and they are afraid of being baptized by their parents' "crazy storm" when they go home. They shudder at the thought of the exam. Their happy childhood has been fragmented and never existed in a distant corner of their memory. Indeed, they are all children in comics. Whether it is 55 or 98, as long as it is not up to standard, it will be scolded by parents. The author once heard such a sentence: "You broke my wings, but you blame me for not flying." The parents in the cartoon broke their children's wings with strict requirements for "points" When "fen" really becomes their "life root", children have already lost the ability to fly freely.

However, it turns out that scores are not the standard for evaluating children. Kindness, courage, responsibility, etc. Probably smarter and more valuable than intelligence. Similarly, scores do not necessarily represent children's future achievements. Ma Yun, whose middle school grades are average, has become today's Internet tycoon; Liu Yong, who repeatedly failed in the imperial examination, left touching words for later generations in Shallow Singing.

Therefore, I urge parents not to let their children become children in cartoons or lose themselves in grades. I hope that parents should pay attention to other aspects while paying attention to their children's grades, so that their children can grow up in a balanced, comprehensive and happy way.

You know, whether a child gets 55 points, 6 1 point, 98 points or 100 points, he deserves a loving kiss from his parents. I hope that the children's misfortunes in cartoons will be less copied on the children around me!