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How to cultivate children's patience
How to cultivate children's patience
How to cultivate children's patience, baby
Our endurance is inversely proportional to our age, so parents should cultivate their baby's endurance from an early age and promote their good behavior habits. Next, I will show you how to cultivate children's patience.
Training suggestion 1: Parents must be patient.
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Patience Parents cannot cultivate their children with patience. Children spend the longest time with their parents and have the most opportunities for contact. When parents show impatience and don't want to do anything, children will feel trouble everywhere. In such an emotion, everyone gets angry easily. In this way, it is not only bad for children's growth, but also bad for family harmony.
What's more, educating children requires great patience, and patient parents can easily establish a good parent-child relationship with their children.
Because patient parents are willing to tell the truth to their children slowly, while impatient parents are not in the mood to tell the truth to their children sentence by sentence, but are responsible.
Forget it. Over time, children will naturally stay away from others.
Father is not very patient. When the child was young, he called "Dad". If he is unhappy, he will say impatiently, "Go!
"When children go to school, sometimes they encounter unfamiliar words in their homework, and their mothers are not at home.
The child went to ask his father, "Dad, what is this word?" The reply to the child is: "Go ahead, can't you see that I am busy?" Look it up in the dictionary yourself!
"Over time, children and fathers are alienated.
Later, the child went to college and got good grades. Once, several students came to ask him questions, and he was happy to explain them, but the more he said, the more embarrassed the atmosphere became, especially when students repeatedly asked a question, he would frown and say, "No, that's not what I meant!" " Oh, dear!
After his classmates left, a friend reminded him, "Be patient next time!" He began to realize that he had no patience to help his classmates solve such a small problem. What can he do in the future?
How to educate children to be patient: some suggestions (1)
Fortunately, the child reflected on himself in time, and he was gradually discovering his own problems.
I saw my father's shadow. Although the forms of expression are different, the basis is the same.
He has tried to overcome his bad habit of impatience. When he understands that patience can resist inner irritability, he hopes that someone will teach him how to be patient from an early age.
Therefore, parents should know that when a person always feels bored and doesn't want to do something, his heart is very bitter. Parents should not wait for their children to grow up and suffer before telling them to be patient.
Then, on weekdays, parents should do everything step by step, including cutting vegetables, washing clothes, cleaning ... communicate with children, please answer their questions patiently, listen to their voices patiently, and guide their children to do their homework patiently ... Parents' patience is to lay the foundation for their patience.
Training suggestion 2: Teach children to read China's traditional classics.
It is a good way to cultivate children's endurance and read China's traditional classics for a long time. In China's traditional classics,
From history to philosophy, from the way of being human to the way of thinking, from astronomy to geography, from painting to music, it is all-encompassing. When the child sits next to him and reads aloud for dozens of minutes, it shows that the child's heart can settle down. Children reading aloud not only increases their endurance, but also absorbs the profound wisdom of traditional culture.
A primary school teacher was exposed to the classic education of China traditional culture when his son was in primary school.
At that time, his son's study was not very outstanding, so he began to recite classic life with his son, from San Zi Jing, Hundred Family Names, Gan Zi Wen and Di Zi Gui to University, The Doctrine of the Mean and The Analects of Confucius. After reading it, he can recite it naturally, and his son can always recite it faster than him and remember it better.
When my son went to middle school, his grades began to stand out. Because his son has a lot of foundations for reciting and reciting classics, he can easily remember that he has a long time of concentration and high efficiency when studying. Finally, I was admitted to a key high school with the first grade in the whole school.
Not only that,
Under the influence of classics, children know how to be filial to their parents and respect their teachers, and they are welcomed everywhere they go.
Reading classics is a more "popular" education now. In fact, it is not popular but necessary. It can not only cultivate children's endurance, but also guide children to do things.
Parents don't have to force their children to recite any classics, as long as they insist on reading at a fixed time every day, even for half an hour or ten minutes; There is no need for children to understand the meaning between the lines. Children will follow their own experiences.