I have read such a sentence: "If you don't know how to be a man and do things, you will eventually become a loser."

Indeed, there are only two things in a person's life: being a man and knowing how to do things.

No matter how smart, talented and background a person is, if he can't do the above two points, he will accomplish nothing.

Being a man and doing things is a kind of ability, but also a kind of knowledge, which can best test people's pattern and wisdom.

To sum up, there are nothing more than three points: being able to move things, causing less trouble and not being afraid of things.

Some time ago, a thank-you letter for the doctoral thesis of the Chinese Academy of Sciences screened the circle of friends.

The author of the paper is Huang, who was born in a poor ravine in Sichuan.

His mother ran away from home when he 12 years old, and his father disappeared all day.

In order to earn tuition, he had to catch Monopterus albus in the middle of the night, go fishing on weekends, and often fell into the water and was chased by dogs.

But even so, he was secretly sold by his father for wine and meat.

In 17, he experienced "where are you going" in his life. His father died in a car accident and his mother-in-law left him.

In this world, the little love left will disappear, and there will be no relatives around him. He will eventually become a helpless duckweed.

Because of the arrears of tuition fees, I am often interviewed by teachers. I went barefoot in summer, thin in winter, shivering with cold, and walked through the long corridor to the podium to get my homework. ...

For many people, this series of blows may have been unbearable, but Huang persisted in the whirlpool of fate.

Finally, with the support of good people, he walked out of the mountains and was admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

Although there are only a few thousand words, people are moved by the ups and downs of their lives and their unyielding attitude towards fate.

Writer Yu Hua once said: "There are many excellent people in the younger generation in China, but few people can resist things."

We have met many people who want to give up when they encounter a little setback, are afraid to face failure and dare not bear the consequences, and can only circle at the bottom of life all their lives.

But in fact, life is a process of constant maturity, which is bound to be accompanied by bumps and difficulties.

Those who finally get out of the low tide of life and succeed, without exception, are carrying hardships and still working hard.

As Tagore said:

Life is not smooth sailing, and everyone should learn to get along with difficulties and pressures.

So, when you encounter suffering, you might as well think about it:

Can your life get any worse? How far are your efforts from others? Did you try your best?

When people are alive, they always need a goal to work hard. You can finish as much as you can.

No matter how hard life is, get through it and you win.

A few days ago, there was such a news.

When Ms. Xiao from Chengdu and her friends went to a hot pot restaurant for dinner, a man at the next table was smoking.

Because there was something wrong with my lungs some time ago and I was worried about inhaling second-hand smoke, I asked the man at the next table if he could not smoke.

At first, the man was very cooperative in putting out the cigarette, but he couldn't help but start smoking after eating it.

Ms. Xiao had no choice but to communicate again, but this time it was not so smooth. The man disagreed and even began to verbally attack:

"How much did you spend? What does it matter to you that we have a cigarette after dinner? "

Then there was a quarrel between the two sides, and the man even poured a cup of liquid with hot pot oil on Ms. Xiao.

In life, we will inevitably meet some people who make much ado about nothing or deliberately play tricks on you.

Many people feel that they are on the right side, so it is human nature to fight for "justice" for themselves.

But everyone ignored it. When you meet a villain, you will not only have no result, but you may also hurt the enemy by one thousand and yourself by eight hundred.

This is not only a waste of your time and energy, but sometimes it may cost you a heavy price.

Read such a story.

The young monk went out for alms and was chased and bitten by a dog on his way back.

The young monk was very angry. He found a long bamboo pole and prepared to beat the dog.

The master asked him, "Does your wound still hurt?"

The little monk said, "It doesn't hurt anymore."

"Since it doesn't hurt, why do you want to hit the dog?"

"Because it bit me, I will give it some color to see see!"

The master went on to say, "Do you know why lions never fight with dogs?

Because not everyone deserves to be a lion's opponent, it is not glorious to beat a dog, but it is very unlucky to be bitten by a dog. "

In fact, the stupidest behavior in the world is to haunt rotten people all the time.

Whether it is someone else's fault or your own fault, timely stop loss is the best self-protection.

For people, don't be too hasty, let the villain have a chance.

It is wise for yourself to always remember to be cautious and stay away from right and wrong.

Stay out of it, seemingly letting go of others, in fact, the last one to let go is yourself.

But in the final analysis, if a person wants to cross the better, he must also do:

Nothing bothers me, but I'm not afraid of anything when I come.

Some time ago, a group of large films of Rachel Momo were brushed on the hot search, and many netizens lamented that "after so many days of suffering, she finally came out."

Three years ago, Rachel Momo came home from filming in the middle of the night, only to meet her naked boyfriend and his best friend in a room.

She broke up immediately and moved out of their house overnight. She has never spoken ill of them for so many years, and is generous and kind.

But not all kindness can bring good results, and not everyone knows how to be grateful.

Three years later, the unwilling boyfriend jumped out and sold it, saying that he was maliciously smeared and accused himself of cyber violence.

In the face of the sudden dirty water, this time Rachel Momo was no longer patient, and directly blasted the telephone recording after the incident.

Her tone on the phone is always calm and restrained, and her logical thinking is clear, which makes love rat run away.

Netizens have praised: "Leiyi Bodhisattva has a heart, it is her!"

Her heart is as good as hers and she never talks about it afterwards. This recording was originally just to protect herself.

But when you touch your bottom line, you don't have to swallow it. It's really beautiful and quiet to defeat the enemy directly.

But in my opinion, her determination is not only not afraid of things, but also never flinches after encountering problems and keeps going bravely.

In "Die at Thirty with Nothing", Zhong's role shows everyone her full acting skills;

Participate in the "Dance Forest Conference" and amaze four people with Latin dance. ...

Fate rewarded her pain, but she was always born in the sun and became the mistress of her life.

In this journey of life, we will always encounter one thing or another.

But as Wang Xiaobo said:

"People alive, will meet some good things, will also meet some bad things. Good things can be tolerated, and bad things can be tolerated. It's not bad to be an ordinary person. "

Some things, always have to be carried by yourself, go through all kinds of hardships in life to accept the gift of fate;

Stop loss in time when you encounter rotten people, so as to protect yourself and not consume yourself;

No matter what the current situation is, don't shrink back or be timid, accept it calmly and move forward bravely, so that you can sail and reach the other side of your dreams.

May you and I both become people who can carry things, avoid trouble and live the best life in live high.

Author | Xiao Sa

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