Keywords: educating children, teachers, Jewish students, parents, schools, Einstein
Once, I was walking in the corridor in front of the second grade school gate and saw many children frolicking on the floor. I wanted to tell them not to make trouble, but I didn't stop them because they were innocent and lovely. I thought, this child is so cute and natural, why doesn't he grow without personality? Then I remembered the family education theory of American scholar David Lewis. He said that China and the West have different ideas about family education. In China, family education should make children obedient, while in the west, it is necessary to cultivate children's personality and not emphasize obedience. I have a strong ability to live independently since I was a child. American scholar David. Lewis summarized 32 articles on educating children and recommended them to parents: 1, patiently answering children's questions. 2. Take seriously the serious questions and methods raised by children. Do you remember when children were young, they would ask, "Mom, how did I get here?" It is often said that it was found on the road. Or avoid answering, you know, this will make the child feel that he has won, and no one will love him. For example, what should you do if your child falls in love during adolescence? Experts suggest that you take back the photo of her beloved friend, put it on the table and visit her every day. When you grow up, you will remember that your mother did the right thing. 3. Set up a display platform so that children can fully display their works on it. Don't scold your child just because his room is messy, as long as it is related to his creation. 5, give the child a room, mainly for him to play. 6. Prove to your child that you are cute and don't need to reproduce yourself. Our children in China are often very uncivilized. 7. Let children do what they can. A few years ago, Raymond, the son of Stuart Powell, was admitted to Harvard University. Raymond won a full scholarship because of his excellent grades and excellent social service record. This is a very lucky and happy thing for their whole family. As a colleague of Stu, we are also very happy for him. For a period of time, congratulations came from the office. One day, Stu told everyone that the children would go to school soon. He has just discussed with the supervisor and plans to invite everyone to the company for lunch next Wednesday, and then invite his son to celebrate. He said: "This will not affect the work, and everyone will be very relaxed and kind. Moreover, such a simple celebration ceremony will not leave a bad influence on children! " Everyone agrees that I am worried about how to hold a banquet in the company. How to eat? Doing things in America is really new! I went to work on Wednesday and saw Stu as soon as I entered the office. He smiled and said to me, "Don't forget to have dinner together at noon." I asked him where his son was, and he said that his son was preparing lunch in the back kitchen. In the United States, many companies work near the workshop, and there is a small kitchen in the office, which is convenient for employees to heat lunch. Lunch in America is very casual. A sandwich, a hot dog, hot food, a cup of coffee, and some girls can do it with an ice cream cone. So I understand why some Chinese newspapers translate English lunches into Chinese as "wave eating". Maybe they think it's a waste to have a big lunch. Busy at work for a while, dizzy, look at my watch, it's already half past ten, I'm going to stay outside for ten minutes. Suddenly, I remembered that Ramon was preparing lunch in the small kitchen. So, curiosity drove me to see what Ramon was doing. In the small kitchen, I saw Raymond preparing lunch carefully. He is busy in an orderly way with a smile on his face. Raymond came to see me and greeted me warmly. Of course, I warmly congratulate him on being admitted to Harvard. Raymond asked me how long I could stay in the kitchen. I said, five minutes. Raymond said shyly, "Time is enough. Let me introduce you to the dishes for lunch! " "Then, Raymond told me that for the sake of health, the salad was mixed vegetable salad and the soup was beef thick soup, which was stewed for nearly an hour. As soon as my eyes searched, I saw there was no soup pot on the stove. Raymond may have seen my doubts. He pointed to something as big as a rice cooker and said, "It's in this soup pot. "I looked pleasing to the eye and saw the big rice cooker steaming. Raymond said, "Open the lid and smell it. It smells good. This big soup pot is rented for two yuan. "Then I saw a big pot of gravy steak, a bread stove and a lot of freshly baked Italian bread on the table next to the stove, which really opened my eyes. I sent a child to Harvard, but let him cook and be a cook. This is only in the United States; If a child is admitted to a famous university in China, parents will definitely hold a banquet in the hotel. Apart from admiring and praising Ramon from the bottom of my heart, I still don't understand why Ramon will continue his way after leaving school for more than a month. So I asked Raymond this question, and Raymond replied, "I'm going to borrow 500 yuan from my father. I hitchhiked along the way and made a social survey of some communities along the way, mainly working part-time in restaurants, and made a large-scale survey of the dining expenses of different groups of people. "At the same time, I also have some income, so it is very likely that I will go to school without spending a penny." Around twelve o'clock, everyone came to have lunch together, warmly congratulating Raymond, and at the same time, everyone praised him for his good workmanship.