Abstract: Remember and forget, these two seemingly opposite words are actually unified in essence-both for the sake of finding happiness in life. It's just that one does addition and the other does subtraction, which finally makes life full of joy and emotion, and makes the mind more quiet and less impetuous. It is between remembering and forgetting that life can be sublimated!

Flowers bloom in our eyes, and we engrave them deeply in our hearts; When the flowers fade, we will inevitably have more sadness and melancholy. Life is alive, things are different, just like flowers bloom and fall. Why not think of it as an inevitable season? The past has faded, leaving only memories, unlike remembering its beauty and forgetting its loneliness when it is dying. In the taste of joy and sweetness, life is moving forward, looking for it, and inadvertently looking back, only to find that flowers are full of branches. ...

Xi Murong once said: "Memory is a rose without flowers, which will never wither." There are too many things in this world that deserve our nostalgia. Maybe we can't keep the fleeting time, nor can we let all the good things disappear, but we can freeze it in the eternal memory. The books you have read, the music you have listened to, the people you like and the stories you have been exposed to may be buried deep in your mind, but as long as you remember them, you will never forget them completely. Holding a normal heart in the impermanent life, watching the clouds roll and relax, let these ordinary and sincere feelings flow through our minds like years.

A smile, a compliment and a farewell are enough to soothe our tired hearts. Remember the touch of life and the kindness of others, and we will find that life is really beautiful. I still remember the simple and honest old woman in A Dream of Red Mansions, the joke king who made everyone make a fuss, and the kind-hearted person who came forward to save Jia's family when it fell. Just to repay Xifeng's unintentional liberation, she resolutely paid for the redemption of her daughter Qiaojie's "small stove", let her be her granddaughter, and let her spend her life safely. Imagine that if Granny Liu forgot all the kindness and virtue of that year, and there was another unfortunate woman in the Dream of Red Mansions, the Dream of Red Mansions itself would be less grateful.

Hugo once said: "If mankind can't forget hatred, there will be endless wars." There are too many dark sides in life, and hatred, pain, suffering and failure are also engraved on the footprints of life like nails. Maybe you can't change the past facts, maybe you can't hide the hidden pain inside, but you can try to forget it and face it with a smile. Wu Zixu, the man who killed his father. In order to get revenge, he left Chu, traveled to other countries, and finally begged in Wucheng. Finally, it was discovered by the king of Wu and helped Taitai ascend to the throne. This is He Lv, the king of Wu. He is also a very important person. He encouraged the King of Wu to attack Chu many times, and eventually the war broke out in Wu Chu. When Du Ying watched Wu Jun flood into Chu, the war filled his former homeland. I don't think even he can tell how he feels. Digging graves and whipping corpses, Wu Zixu vented his anger in the most extreme way. When iron whip whipped the bones of ignorance, he also whipped his heart burned by the fire of revenge. The following story is about wuyue War, Gou Jian, the King of Yue, and the treachery of Yue later. Wu Zixu was given a sword by Fu Cha, the king of Wu, to commit suicide. Wu Zixu's life began with hatred and died of it, and his life was scorched by hatred. If Wu Zixu had chosen to forget the pain in his heart and Chou He's dream of revenge, perhaps his pain and hatred would not have been put in the struggle again and again, so that he could not extricate himself. Choose to forget, forget the unbearable pain in life, and reduce the burden on your mind. The burden of life is already too heavy, why do you have to carry it? Maybe we can't decide whether we are injured or not, we can't make the road ahead smoother, and there are too many disappointments in life to be changed, so we choose to forget. Forgetting is not escape, forgetting is not carelessness, forgetting is just a way to eliminate pain, a calm state of mind, and a kind of wisdom to be a man.

Remember and forget, these two seemingly opposite words are actually unified in essence-both for the sake of finding happiness in life. It's just that one does addition and the other does subtraction, which finally makes life full of joy and emotion, and makes the mind more quiet and less impetuous. It is between remembering and forgetting that life can be sublimated!