Why do you say that? Because A walked boldly and confidently on the bumpy road with crutches, and fell down and got hurt. When it rained, he went to shelter from the rain without an umbrella, so he didn't get wet. When it rained, because B took an umbrella, he strutted in the rain and got wet, but walking on a bumpy road, he chose a flat place because he didn't have a cane, so he didn't fall down. As for C, because I didn't bring anything, I walked carefully step by step, so that I was safe and sound later. These are three travelers, which not only told me, but also made me really realize that we often fall on our own advantages.
There was a lot of homework that day, and the hour hand pointed to ten o'clock when it was finished. There will be a Chinese exam tomorrow. I yawned and took out my Chinese book to review. But I'm too sleepy to watch it at all. I think: I have basically mastered it anyway. Besides, it's so late today, there's nothing wrong with not reviewing. In this way, I slept peacefully. As a result, during the exam, I got stuck in a series of questions that I thought I knew all about, and got the worst score ever.
Advantage is beneficial, because it makes us proud and is everyone's unique strength; Advantage is harmful, because it often makes people proud, get carried away and lose principle. With our advantages, we believe that with advantages, we will have less worries, and in the end, our advantages will become shortcomings and obstacles. Why don't we fall on our own defects many times? Because defects can remind us. Therefore, we should not only maintain our own advantages, but also take it seriously as an ordinary thing. This will be beneficial and will become your eternal advantage.
Some people say that advantages are advantages and disadvantages are disadvantages, and the two cannot be confused. However, I don't think the two should be confused, but it is best to confuse the two and have a A Zheng Banqiao style. "
"I believe there will be a lot of gains.
I believe the story of the race between the tortoise and the hare can.
Traditionally, the strength of the race between the tortoise and the hare is very different, and the advantages and disadvantages are obvious, but the result does not conform to the thinking logic of ordinary people. On the contrary, it is not difficult to see that mentality has played a key role in this process, and disadvantages have become advantages. The rabbit has the advantage and the victory is in hand. Turtles are inherently difficult.
However, in the process of the rabbit's narcissism relaxation, the tortoise clearly realized its obvious disadvantage and corrected its mentality.
. In the end, it was its disadvantage that won the game. If the tortoise is strong, has obvious advantages, or at least is equal to the rabbit, it may be self-righteous and give up the victory, so it seems that the disadvantage is the advantage, which is true.
No one will take the initiative to like shortcomings, because shortcomings mean that everything is not smooth. It takes hard work and a lot of hardships to achieve disadvantage. The attraction of the advantage is beyond doubt. It can make you more successful, but you can't feel the unforgettable scenery on the road to success. However, you can't always be smooth sailing and be in an advantage everywhere. Therefore, in the face of disadvantages, your mentality is an important chip for success. However, obvious advantages will blind your eyes, deceive your mind and create a sense of superiority. At this time, your advantage is the biggest obstacle to your success, and even the direct cause of failure.
On the contrary, disadvantages can make you more aware of your current position. "People are expensive.
",oneself is the biggest enemy, if we can eliminate the psychological enemy, adjust the mentality, disadvantage is actually just an imaginary disadvantage. The shortcomings are not terrible at all, but their own psychology. Have a normal heart and maintain a kind of
Mentality, disadvantage is advantage. "Heroes have suffered a lot since ancient times,
The shortcomings of "little man" can exercise people and temper their will. Suffering is a valuable asset. On the surface, it seems to be your disadvantage. You have experienced more pain than others. However, it is this experience that gives you the conditions for greater success, and this disadvantage is your own advantage. As long as you have a strong will, you can do it in good times or bad.
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I will only think about how to overcome these difficulties and how to turn temporary disadvantages into advantages.
However, it is not easy to accept psychologically that advantages are disadvantages, let alone keep a relaxed attitude in practice. Even when you are at a disadvantage and others continue to enjoy it, you will have jealousy and psychological imbalance. However, "
It is better to retreat and form a network. If you have been pessimistic and sigh, even the gods can't save you. So from this point of view, if you really want to turn disadvantages into advantages, you still need certain conditions. You are an enterprising person, otherwise everything will be impossible.
In fact, on the road to success, there are no so-called advantages and disadvantages. Grasp your own conditions and opportunities, and disadvantages are advantages. If you let the opportunity slip away in vain, the advantage will become a disadvantage, or even worse. Turn your own shortcomings into unique advantages that others can't break, and success is not far away. Some people fail because they are too obsessed with their own disadvantages, instead of trying to follow the trend, turning disadvantages into their own advantages, worrying about their own shortcomings all day and letting opportunities slip away. There can only be one result, and that is failure, and then failure. Follow the trend, follow the trend,
This is not easy to do. You should have agile thinking, turn disadvantages into advantages, turn passivity into initiative, let things develop in your ideal direction, and finally win. Therefore, having an advantage may not necessarily win. If you face disadvantages, you may not be doomed to failure. The key lies in your own mentality and attitude. Adjust the mentality, and the disadvantage will become an advantage, which is success.