Everyone has his own limitations, and no one can guarantee that he knows the most; Everyone has his own mistakes, and no one can guarantee that he will always be a winner; Everyone has his own shortcomings, and no one can guarantee that he is the most perfect. Therefore, to know yourself, we should not only realize our own strengths and potentials, but also recognize our own shortcomings and mistakes, make good use of our own strengths to correct our own shortcomings, learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and ordinary ourselves can also create proud achievements.
As the saying goes, "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." It is difficult for people to see their "behind" and to observe the defective side of their personality. Learn to observe others, so that you can learn from their strengths and improve yourself. We have to look at ourselves through other people's eyes to know our own shortcomings. Confucius said, "In a threesome, there must be a teacher. Choose good and follow it, but change it if it is not good. " Observing others is a way to look at yourself and improve yourself.
Franklin said, "If a baby is misplaced, it is a waste." This means that something that is very useful in one respect, once used in the wrong place, will not play any role. Just like some people, who are obviously proficient in a certain technology, but choose a job that they are not good at, the result is often nothing. Now, we high school students obviously have excellent study time, but some students "don't cherish" and play blindly, regardless of their studies. In the end, they can only say that "young people don't work hard and are sad when they are old."
Managing your strengths is the experience of many successful people. Business strength, like a big company with excellent investment performance, is definitely profitable. However, no matter what we do, we should not only see our own advantages, but also find out our own shortcomings, and at the same time try our best to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses and improve ourselves.
It is an eternal truth that no one is perfect. Perhaps the advantages of others are your advantages, and the shortcomings of others are your shortcomings; Maybe the advantages of others can show your shortcomings, and the shortcomings of others can warn you to be vigilant. Look at others as you look at yourself, and make up for your shortcomings by taking advantage of others' strengths; Observing yourself and others, examining yourself, knowing your mistakes and knowing yourself are also a kind of promotion for yourself.
"Being short and long." Being good at discovering one's strengths and being brave in management will add value to one's life, so I said to myself, "I am not weak, I have hope of success, I want to see my position clearly and dare to make progress." If you can make a flower in front of people, you will never make a grass behind people. "
No gold is perfect, and no one is perfect. Nothing in the world is perfect. Face up to your own advantages and disadvantages, learn from others' advantages to make up for your own shortcomings, and bring your own advantages to the extreme, and you will have a wonderful life.