Bernard Shaw, the great writer, had a problem with his spine, so he cut a bone from his heel to make up for it. After the operation, the doctor wanted to kill him and said, "Mr. Bernard Shaw, this is a new operation that I have never done before!" " Bernard Shaw replied humorously, "Great, how much are you going to pay me for the experiment?" "So, Bernard Shaw broke the doctor's abacus with the magic of humor, turned to the customer, and saved the day.
Humor acts on people's psychology by means of language or action, changes the direction of contradiction, completes the role transformation of both sides of contradiction, and finally saves the day. This process is the mechanism of humorous magic.
Humor, which has magical driving force, is like a booster rocket, pushing the star of love straight into the sky; It is also like a high-powered engine, pushing the boat of love all the way forward.
By the same token, if both husband and wife know how to irrigate their marriage life with humor from time to time, I think the mantra that "marriage is the grave of love" has long gone to hell and should be replaced with "marriage is a new starting point of love".
On one occasion, the wife of neighbor Lao Zhang said to her husband, "Look at Lao Li, because she was lovelorn that year and later worked hard to be strong." How brilliant it is now! " If it is an unreasonable husband who lacks a sense of humor, he may go on to say, "Go with Lao Li!" " ""Lao Li is old! "Something like this. Come on, Lao Zhang, he is very humorous and says, "If you hated me, I would get ahead, dear lady!"! "Lao Zhang's wife gently punched Lao Zhang: this is actually similar to the touch of love!
Humor is the lubricant of marriage life, which can melt the bumps between husband and wife; Humor is the combustion-supporting device of marriage life, which can make the fire of love more prosperous.
Under the condition of market economy, humor has become an invisible competitive capital, showing its unique charm. This is first manifested in the talent competition.
In a job interview for a TV presenter, the examiner asked a female student, "What do you mean by' three cardinals'?" The female student replied: "I am a gentleman, my son is a father, and my wife is a husband." She just reversed the relationship between the three and caused a burst of laughter. But she was as cool as a cucumber and said humorously, "I mean the new' three cardinal guides and five permanent members'. Our people are masters of the country, and leaders are public servants of the people. Of course, it is' I am the monarch'; Family planning has produced a large number of "little emperors". Isn't this "son as father"? Nowadays, the rights of wives are gradually escalating, and "henpecked husband" and "model husband" are popular. Isn't it' the wife is the husband's program'? "
The female classmate's witty and humorous answer showed her eloquence and intelligence, and showed her competitive strength, which finally enabled her to pass the interview smoothly.
Humor not only provides strength for talent competition, but also makes great contributions to commodity competition and public relations advertising.
A young man in Britain wants to be the general distributor of "P K D" hair restorer in the United States. He hired 10 men, wrote the words "P K D" on their bald heads, and some even drew ridiculous pictures. This 10 man shuttled through the streets and lanes, which immediately attracted the strong attention of almost everyone, and the news media also carried out a lot of publicity. For a time, the "P K D" hair restorer spread like wildfire and became a household name.
The connection between humor and advertisement makes the advertisement show its unique charm, arouses the strong concern and long aftertaste of advertisers, and finally makes them take the purchase action, which really achieves the purpose of advertising promotion. This is unmatched by ordinary advertising forms. As the famous advertising designer john martin said, "Nowadays, ordinary advertisements can't attract most people. Our only choice is to work hard on the humorous taste of advertisements, to arouse people's interest and get full pleasure, so that advertisements can really affect the audience. "
Indeed, humor can provide competitive strength, create opportunities and gain wealth. Smart merchants pay more and more attention to this point and play "humor cards" one after another in order to win a great victory in the advertising promotion war.
How to get rid of depression, pessimism, worry and melancholy, and make your spiritual home sunny? Important psychotherapy is a kind of "rationalization" or "self-mockery" humor therapy. It requires people to have a humorous attitude towards life, downplay suffering, seek pleasure in suffering and see hope in disappointment; People are required to "be surprised without danger, add without anger for no reason" and maintain a peaceful attitude. If you do this, your spiritual tree will be evergreen, and the Great Wall of faith in your heart will not fall. It can be said that humor can give strong support to people's spiritual home, make people persevere on the tortuous road of life and enjoy the real value of life.