"Education is the social transformation of human beings" is the most fundamental definition of education. This is an important duty of education and an important task of ideological and moral education for middle school students. In the middle school stage, only mastering knowledge and skills such as mathematics, Chinese and foreign languages is far from meeting the needs of the future society and students' lifelong learning and development. What qualities do middle school students need besides book knowledge to create their own wonderful future life? I think we should also strengthen ideological and moral education and pay attention to the following five points. First of all, we should have a confident life. If we don't have self-confidence, we will only accomplish nothing. Self-confidence is the core of personality. As a person's development, confidence is the key to success. Because people's behavior is restricted by ideas, what kind of behavior and results will be produced. A person's success often depends on self-confidence. First, we should accept ourselves, that is, we should clearly know who I am and find out our outstanding advantages. If we can tell our strengths quickly enough, we can prove that we are confident and can accept ourselves. As a middle school student, we should learn to analyze ourselves objectively. No matter what unfavorable circumstances, we should see our own advantages, be confident and enterprising. Second, believe in yourself. One needs to grow up. Self-confidence overcomes difficulties in adversity. The newspaper reported that a child aged 12 was shipwrecked and drifted in the cold sea for dozens of hours. He miraculously survived, that is, he firmly remembered what his father said to him, "I believe I can do it ..." He believed that someone would come to save him and he would go home. He believed that he had overcome the harsh reality and became the final winner. Everyone faces life. Success doesn't mean that I have surpassed someone. The real success is to overcome yourself and change your past shortcomings. You can't beat yourself at once. We need to start from a small place, overcome our weaknesses bit by bit and form good habits. Secondly, we should persist in self-reflection from an early age and constantly promote our own change and development. We should always ask ourselves if we have any shortcomings and think about how to solve these problems. For example, in study, I try to finish my homework every afternoon when I study by myself. In the evening, reflect on what you have learned in one day, sum up what you have learned, find out what you don't understand and what you need to discuss with your classmates and teachers, and solve it in time the next day. Not only learning, but also constantly reflecting on being a person. Good behaviors and habits need to be adjusted and improved through reflection. Only in this way can we make continuous progress and achieve continuous success. Thereby accumulating self-confidence. Second, to be an honest person, you must first do what you promise, otherwise you should not promise. As a middle school student, you should promise something to your parents, teachers, classmates and the collective in your study and life. Once you have promised something, you should learn the spirit of "learning from the west", try your best to complete it, and win the trust of others. Secondly, you must stick to what you have decided to do. As a middle school student, you often make some rules for yourself, for example, when to go to school for morning reading, watch TV regularly at night, and arrange study time on weekends. As long as you have made up your mind, you should stick to it, don't relax yourself, and try your best to do it under any circumstances. Sometimes it can be done without supervision, which is a kind of self-discipline and integrity. In addition, we should pay more attention to honesty when studying. Especially in the exam, it doesn't mean it won't. There should be no fluky psychology, cheating in exams or dishonest behavior. It takes hard work to acquire knowledge. To tell the truth, it takes effort to defeat yourself. Third, there must be rules to do everything, and nothing can be done without rules. When the 9 1 1 incident occurred in the United States, everyone in the World Trade Center had to take the fire stairs to escape because the elevator was paralyzed. At such a critical moment, no one is crowded, but they queue up on the right and go downstairs in order, leaving the space on the left for fire and rescue workers. This subtle sense of rules has reduced the loss of the 9 1 1 incident to some extent. As a middle school student, you should have a sense of rules and learn to act according to them. You should abide by the convention on civic morality, traffic rules and middle school students. Small enough to obey the class rules and the rules set by a few friends. After integration into society, it will not affect others and society, but also bring convenience to its own development. Obeying the rules might as well start with small things. For example, every time you cross the road, you have to wait for the green light before you can cross the crosswalk. Even if you don't have a car, remind yourself to obey the rules. Even if others pass by in a hurry, I will remind myself that I want to be a well-behaved person. Starting from small things will form a sense of consciously obeying the rules. Fourth, I will learn to be responsible for a person's social responsibility from the beginning of school. At present, middle school students are given the responsibility of learning. I will go to work and take charge of social development in the future. Therefore, I should learn to be responsible from my school days. Do what you can. As a student, you should know your main responsibility at this stage-learning. Only by learning and mastering knowledge and skills can students repay and contribute to society in the future. Studying hard today is responsible for yourself. Second, we should be responsible for our parents. You must know your parents' birthdays and give them a blessing and greeting. A warm message is a reward for parents' kindness. Usually parents go home, pack things for them, take slippers and pour a cup of tea. These are all the responsibilities that children should do to their parents. People who don't know how to be responsible for their parents can't be responsible for society. Small but significant. To form good habits, a philosopher once said that after a person enters the society, all the knowledge he learned in college is forgotten. Finally, the most useful thing is habit. As a middle school student, we should first develop good study habits, including the habit of listening carefully and thinking positively, taking notes while listening, and reviewing and sorting in time. It can also be summarized as the habit of collecting information, sorting out information and using information. This will be necessary for lifelong learning and beneficial for life. Second, good behavior habits, such as taking the elevator, please ask the lady to go first. Good habits, such as holding down the door button when getting off the elevator to let others get off first and not talking loudly in public, need to be developed in middle school. Many habits will affect people's life. Then there are good living habits, such as going to bed on time, washing hands before and after meals, and putting things back after use. Many habits are small but important. A Nobel Prize winner once said that what influenced him the most was his good habit of "putting it back after use" in kindergarten. He studied all his life and put all the materials in the original position, which saved him a lot of time looking for materials in the research process. As the most important place for students to receive education, schools should not only teach students all kinds of knowledge and skills, but more importantly, let them gain enough self-confidence and cultivate their integrity. Help students understand and abide by various rules and regulations, learn to be responsible for themselves, others and society, and guide students to develop various good behavior habits. Only in this way can the education of middle school students lay a solid foundation for students' lifelong development and truly implement the party's educational policy and implement quality education. On the other hand, what middle school students lack now is "the noble sentiment of indifference and inaction". Don't be decadent because of the embarrassment of life, don't give up because of setbacks, have some self-confidence, be stronger and more resilient in the face of difficulties, don't be afraid of the pressure of difficulties, and don't be afraid of setbacks, so as to achieve ultimate success and become a real strong person!