The proportion of audience who support telling and not telling is 27: 73, and more than one-third people think that parents should not tell their children that fairy tales are false.
0 1 the explosion in Seoul directly hit the hearts of more than one third of people. In A Wonderful Story, there are several core arguments to support telling children that fairy tales are false:
It is better to create reality than to believe in fairy tales.
Parents should tell their children that fairy tales are false, so that they can feel smart.
Fairy tales give people a beautiful illusion, which is contrary to reality.
In this regard, Fu Hancheng refuted these three arguments one by one:
No imagination, no creation. Fairy tales are an important source of children's creativity, and denying fairy tales means denying imagination.
I want to ask you, are parents telling you that fairy tales are false, and children are smarter, or will children feel smarter if they find out?
Fairy tales give people an illusion. I think this is a question of interpretation. If you actively interpret them, this "illusion" is hope.
When the pros and cons of "The Story of Chipa" finished, the proportion of the audience who supported telling and not telling became 20: 80, and seven people defected.
In this "seven tyrants" debate, Fu Seoul's state broke out, and her outbreak masked the voices of more than one-third of the victims.
That is: parents should not tell their children that fairy tales are false.
The most attractive part of fairy tales lies in their interest and drama. I have read a sentence: "The fairy tale world is full of the boldest, freest and most wonderful imaginations, and these wild fantasies are the most attractive places of fairy tales."
The story of Ugly Duckling, which we are familiar with, is that a swan egg was despised by its peers because of its strange appearance after it broke its shell in a duck, and then it went through hardships and eventually grew into a white swan.
The moral of the ugly duckling is to tell us that as long as we have an ideal, pursue it and work hard for this goal, it doesn't matter even if we are in adversity, because gold will always shine.
However, in the recent hit drama "The Second Time is Beautiful" co-operated by Edward Zhang and Olivia, when Olivia tells this story to the children in kindergarten, she says, "This story wants to tell us that the ugly duckling is no longer lonely, and finally finds her own partner. The key lies in the magic of time. "
She said that the ugly duckling can become a white swan, not because of anything else, but because it is a swan.
Many parents are very unhappy after hearing this, thinking that her way of telling is wrong and have told their children to forget what she said.
Why?
Zaler Xu, played by Edward Zhang, tells the truth. He said, "The most attractive thing about fairy tales is not the truth."
Children like reading fairy tales because they are interesting and dramatic. If fairy tales are told in the form of ordinary books, children may not like them.
There is a saying in The Analects: "The knower is not as good as the doer, and the doer is not as good as the musician."
That means: people who know how to learn are not as good as those who love to learn; And those who love learning are not as good as those who like learning.
In so many literary works, children like fairy tales because they are interesting, they like watching them, and adults are willing to show them, because they can learn from this fairy tale full of childlike interest and dreams, which is far more useful than learning boring and realistic truth.
I believe that children watch fairy tales just like adults watch variety shows. Why are variety shows so popular? Just because it's fun.
But now more and more variety shows are flooded with Taiwanese books, which makes more and more people disgusted and loses the fun of watching it again.
Therefore, it is the same for children. Knowing that fairy tales are false may lose interest and expectation in reading fairy tales.
No matter how cruel the reality is, we should keep the truth of fairy tales for our children. What is a fairy tale?
Fairy tale is a kind of children's literature, which shapes images, reflects life and educates children ideologically through rich imagination, fantasy and exaggeration.
No matter who you are, in your childhood, you can't leave the company of fairy tales, and so many fairy tales, such as Cinderella, Huluwa, dairy queen and two little lions, have a positive and courageous educational spirit for children.
Although fairy tales are relatively beautified compared with reality, it does not prevent them from retaining their authenticity.
At every stage of life, the beauty of that stage should be preserved.
I once read a sentence: "childhood has fairy tales, teenagers have dreams, young people have dreams, middle-aged people have reality, and old people have memories." This is naturally known step by step with the growth of age. Don't tell in advance across ages. "
Perhaps, a person will meet many people and experience many things in his life, but no one or one thing can replace the faith and beauty brought by fairy tales.
Therefore, even if the reality after growing up is cruel, it should not deprive a person of a beautiful era of believing in fairy tales.
As Zhao Yingnan said: "For children, fairy tales are their access to the adult world, but they are made into a lovely slide show. If you think the exit of the slide today is too cruel, it is the exit of the slide. Why destroy this slide? "
Every child will grow up and eventually find that fairy tales are just a story, but every time they think about it, they will still remember the fun and belief that fairy tales bring them.
Children believe in fairy tales, and they will always keep a love and beauty in their hearts. In fact, the short film starring Fan and Luo Zhenyu returned to the title. When their daughter heard her mother say the fairy tale was false, she cried sadly and disappointedly. It can be seen that children believe in fairy tales, which can bring faith and worship to children.
Fairy tales are beautiful, but once told that fairy tales are false, they will lose this beauty.
Just like before, a foreign father said that Santa Claus was fake in front of the whole class, which made the whole class cry.
Osamu Dazai told the story of his childhood disqualification on earth. When he was a child, every time he crossed the overpass, he felt that this design was to make crossing the road look like a playground, but his parents told him that this design was only for people to walk and facilitate traffic, and that was all.
From then on, his longing for a better world collapsed at this moment, followed by the beauty of his childhood full of imagination and curiosity.
Fairy tales are children's beliefs, and fairy tale characters are children's spiritual models. Once you tell your children that fairy tales are false and unreliable, maybe their beliefs will be broken and their role models will collapse.
Children who believe in fairy tales, beauty and love since childhood will always keep love and beauty in their hearts.
As Xingyue said: "Fairy tales will bring happiness to children, and this happiness will always stay in our hearts, bring us beauty and bring us a lot of positive energy."
I believe the children will thank you for letting them believe in fairy tales naturally and let them discover the truth and falsehood of fairy tales slowly.
As Fu Seoul said: "If you don't tell, you will accompany him to distinguish and think. This kind of growth surprise is the scenery of mother and child. "
I believe that the explosion in Seoul is not only because of her good condition, but also because she hit the hearts of more than one-third of adults!