First, the divorce rate is different for children with different genders.
As it turns out, the chances of divorce vary with the gender of the children at home. Just like Xinxin's baby boy is almost 5 years old this year, Xinxin and her husband have long lost their feelings, but they have been insisting for the sake of their children. She always said, it's not that I prefer boys to girls. You said that if I gave birth to my daughter here, I would take her away and I could raise her. This is a son. You said you would buy a house, get married and have children in the future. How can I support him after divorce? I have to drag on like this, hoping that he will remember me as a mother when he grows up. In fact, many women will have this idea, which is one of the reasons why the divorce rate of boys' families is much less than that of girls' families.
Second, why is the divorce rate of boys' families low?
1, the atmosphere in boys' home is relatively relaxed.
Although many old people don't say anything, they still like boys in their hearts. If a daughter-in-law gives birth to a boy, her parents-in-law will be nicer to her and more tolerant to her, and will not be too eager to raise a second child. If the girl is different, she will not only dislike her daughter-in-law, but also whisper in her son's ear that the young couple should have a second child. Over time, family conflicts have arisen, and the relationship between natural young couples will also be affected, and there are not a few people who eventually divorce.
2. The cost of divorce in boys' families is high.
After all, boys are born with their father's surname. You will also find that the parents of a boy's family divorce, the children divorce with their father and the parents of a girl's family, and the daughters are usually taken away by their mothers. On the one hand, it is because boys and in-laws will not let go easily. As daughters-in-law, they can't win custody of their children. On the other hand, the cost of raising a son is high, and the burden on the mother after taking it away is heavy and unbearable. Therefore, both husband and wife can have a complete family for their children, and most mothers will divorce patiently in order not to leave their sons, and the possibility of divorce will be greatly reduced.
In fact, no matter whether the child is male or female, parents should give full consideration to the child when they want to divorce. This is not to say that children are the burden of our pursuit of freedom, but our responsibility as parents. After all, husband and wife must be together because of affection. If there is a problem, communicate well first. If it is just a sentence without feelings, it is unfair to the child regardless of his future.
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