1, learn to guide children correctly. Children are a blank sheet of paper, and parents need to guide them to draw beautiful pictures. I will never walk until I can. At that time, the road I took may be lovely, but it was also a big step in my life. We shouldn't be afraid of whether the child will fall or get hurt, because that is a process that must be experienced. Maybe our parents are afraid of this and that, and they have arranged many things, but they just missed the opportunity to cultivate their children's self-care ability. When we get up in the morning, we will let the children dress themselves. Never mind whether he is comfortable or not, and help him clean up after he is dressed. Let him eat by himself, even if the rice falls all over the floor, don't blame him. This is a process that must be experienced in the process of growing up.

2. Proceed from your own interests, don't force it. Children always find it fun to watch us mop the floor and use mops to mop it for us, but as a result, we still praise him. As a result, we work harder and do better every time. Children brush their teeth from the beginning of interest. At that time, he watched us brush our teeth very interesting, and he also clamored for a toothbrush to brush our teeth. In this way, he got into the habit of brushing his teeth every day. If we force him to mop the floor or brush his teeth, he may not want to do it yet.

3. Less blame, more affirmation and more help. The children washed their faces and feet and peed all over the floor. We won't blame him loudly, but teach him how to wash his face and feet. After dinner, he took the bowl to the kitchen and accidentally broke it. We just told him to be careful next time. The child is very clever and will try to get better every time. As long as our parents give more guidance and less intervention, and encourage their children to exert their wisdom and talents and do their best, I believe he will do better and better.