Mistakes in youth are a gift.

When people are teenagers, they are prone to make many mistakes, just like babies who just learn to walk. If they can't grasp their shaky strength and the center of gravity of their bodies, they will inevitably stumble and twist. In the rebellious period of their courage and curiosity about the outside world, they are ready to give themselves to the real world at any time. Immersed in the pain of these years, they have a thorough understanding and experience of life, and they have really grown up.

You can skip class, fight with your parents and teachers, smoke and drink, indulge in the internet and do nothing, even make friends with hooligans and local ruffians, break off relations with your family, and run away from home for love ... Some people will say that you squander your youth and ruin your future, but I don't know, others may not understand that lively life. This is a kind of youth hesitation, and you must make it bloody in order to have a penetrating understanding of life.

Only when you see your father's white head for you will you reflect on whether what you have done is right or wrong; Only when you see your mother's tears can you try to understand the feelings of your loved ones; Only when you cry in the middle of the night when you regret, will you understand that everything in the world is always calm in the face of human mistakes. Wall or silent wall, night or silent night. The wall won't collapse because of sighing, and the night won't let the sun shine on you early because of sadness ... When you experienced all this with your youth, you really came to this world. And you were born more than ten years ago, just let your parents complete their lives. For you, there is nothing.

Those who have experienced the tempering of youth cherish the opportunity to live. Suffering makes people show tenacity, which is enough to support their later life. Just as a butterfly can only fly to the blue sky that it has been longing for for for the first half of its life if it breaks its pupa, those who spend their dull time perfunctory their youth will be unable to control their balance in the cracks once they experience major setbacks in their later years, so they are vulnerable.

Mistakes in youth are a gift.

Laws of state-owned countries

The rules of having a family

The company also has a company system.

The country's ruthless laws

Restrict generations of ignorant people

Educate a group of people who have reformed.

Be kind, upright, patient, modest and reconciled.

Otherwise, this country is not a country.

The system is like a ruthless fire.

He won't touch you unless you touch it.

If you want to have a try.

Its rational temper will cost you.

Page by page rule

Various systems

Let those who are attentive work harder.

Let those who are not attentive become attentive.

Ruthless system

Human nature management

Expansion of enterprises

There is no sound system.

Management without humanity.

Otherwise, a mess will devour the whole enterprise.

Remind again and again

Warn again and again

Suggest corrective measures again and again

People who are attentive are more attentive.

People who are not attentive are still not attentive.

Look at the public error list.

Watching the hard-earned money slip away like this

Who doesn't feel bad?

You, me or him

why

Why do you take orders again and again?

Take orders again and again?

Because people who are attentive are attentive.

People who don't care still don't care

Life makes mistakes.

But do you want to make the same mistake over and over again on the same question?

It is not allowed to make a second mistake if you disagree with the same question.

Is this job really that difficult?

It's easy not to work.

Because we do the same work every day.

Day after day

year after year

why

Why do trouble tickets fall on me again and again?

Why is my name written on almost all the lists?

Then ask that.

Asking about the land of civilization

Ask about the thawed river.

Ask the devoted person.

Small fine ticket

what is the purpose?

Tomorrow will be better.

It is the formation of that bad habit.

Is to train a batch of outstanding talents.

Is that it has created a batch of first-class talents.

Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

Many times, some things, some people, only care about themselves, others have long forgotten! Many times, we have a tendency to abuse ourselves and often like to be angry. What is anger? Anger is punishing yourself with other people's mistakes; Other people's mistakes are used to punish themselves. This is not self-abuse. What is this?

One thing, originally it was someone else's fault, I couldn't sleep at night, and the person who rolled back and forth in bed was just myself; One thing was originally someone else's fault, and the person who didn't think clearly was only himself; One thing, it was originally the fault of others, it was originally the fault of others, and the only person who was upset was himself; However, the culprit who did something wrong lived happily and didn't take it seriously; Eat, drink and be merry as usual, and his life is still beautiful! But your life now is full of that little thing, and you are constantly entangled in it, and you are furious with it. People who watch afterwards will be confused. Who did something wrong?

Many times, we always like to measure others by our own standards. If others don't meet their own standards, they will be unhappy. It is inhuman to think that others have done something wrong that they shouldn't have done. Once he needs himself so much, he doesn't hesitate. Now when I need him, he not only doesn't help, but also stands aside and stirs up the flames. He's angry. He's very angry. I don't think he should do this to himself. He was so loyal to him, but he betrayed himself. Unhappy.

However, we seem to have forgotten to think deeply. During this period, we only have to think for ourselves; I feel that if I am kind to others, others will have the same reaction. But I forgot that in this world, there will be rewards if you don't work hard. If you don't like something, you can get it. You have your choices, and others have their choices. You can choose to be good to others, but others can also choose the power that is not good for you. Don't be conceited, reciprocity is the right thing. Sometimes, there is no absolute scale in the world, and there is no absolute right or wrong!

A thousand readers will have a thousand Hamlets. That is to say, everyone has his own ideas, his own considerations, and his own perspective on things. You think he did something wrong, but he doesn't think so. Finally, the only person who doesn't understand why this matter has developed so much and why it has such an ending is himself.

The question has been raised, and my own thoughts also show that others have not accepted it, which is no longer within my jurisdiction; After all, what you can do has been done. The most important thing is to remember: don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes! Every time you meet someone who makes you angry, remember to use this sentence to tell yourself why he did something wrong and he was punished.

On "mistakes"

What is a "mistake"

What is a mistake? In Chinese dictionaries, there are two explanations for "error": ① incorrect; Not in line with objective reality; Incorrect things, behaviors, etc.

In philosophy, error refers to cognition that is inconsistent with objective reality. It is synonymous with fallacy. There are subjective and objective reasons for errors. Error and truth constitute a pair of contradictions in the process of cognition. Their opposition is both absolute and relative, and it is transformed under certain conditions. The task of man's cognition is to grasp the truth, but man's grasp of the truth is sometimes realized in a series of relative mistakes. As long as we sum up the experience and lessons correctly, mistakes are often the forerunner of truth.

However, in civil law, the wrong expression of will refers to the inconsistency between the inner true meaning and the external expression because of incorrect or incomprehensible expression of will.

Next, let me talk about "mistakes".

correct an error

People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

People always have a view that "everything in the world is either right or wrong." In fact, wrong and right are relative. We often choose a correct thing as a reference to judge the mistake of another thing. Wrong and right are actually a thin line. The key is how you choose. There may be only two choices in the world, but when we unfortunately choose the wrong one, there is no need to worry. Because I believe that "mistakes are the mother of success." But if you make a mistake, even if your mistake is trivial, if you escape, it will always be a "mistake", and if you correct it, it will become a "right". Madame Curie, the mother of radium, how can we find precious radium without hundreds of wrong choices? Everyone makes mistakes.

Error tolerance

It is human nature to make mistakes.

Since there is a mistake, there will naturally be tolerance. We should be tolerant of anyone and anything that faces "mistakes". True tolerance doesn't care how big the mistake is, and it has nothing to do with all hypocrisy. It is from the heart, and it is understanding and respect for others. Even if the other party is insignificant, we should give each other sincere tolerance. Tolerance can not only make each other correct their mistakes, but also make them trust you.

Some things may be a mistake from the beginning, but this mistake has brought us a lot of unexpected beauty, so we call it a beautiful mistake. However, since it is a mistake, it can't last forever, so give a beautiful ending to the beautiful mistake smartly. Let's learn tolerance from our mistakes.

False beauty

An old man who learned that he was dying soon wrote, "If I can start my life from scratch, I will try more mistakes, and I will not pursue perfection in everything." Living is beautiful, working is beautiful, and making mistakes when necessary is also beautiful.

Mistakes should be treated dialectically. "If people want to pursue something, they must make mistakes." There is no royal road to life. Some mistakes in life are often the forerunner of success and the price that must be paid in the process of exploration. Of course, this does not mean that you should not try to prevent and reduce mistakes, or that you can be indifferent to mistakes, but that you should not be timid because you are afraid of mistakes. What "wrong" understandings have made you take a detour on the road of life and pay the price? Writing these personal experiences into narrative or argumentative essays can not only reflect on one's own life path and growth process, but also give some enlightenment to others.

Living is beautiful, working is beautiful, and making mistakes when necessary is also a kind of beauty. Just like staying on the ground all your life, you can naturally avoid the danger of drowning. But only through suffocation and fatigue can you experience the elegance and happiness of alternative life.

Keeping mistakes is also a kind of beauty.

In the long journey of life, many times, we grew up with mistakes, and we will make mistakes when we grow up. Mistakes, in a sense, are an inevitable factor in achieving life.

Since we "earth-shattering" came to this world, we began to make mistakes. In one mistake after another, we gradually regard this strange world as our familiar and warm home. In mistakes, we will babble; In mistakes, we write and draw with immature hands; In mistakes, we will win the praise of teachers and parents with our shallow wisdom; In mistakes, we will tap the keyboard with our fingers, and we can win bursts of applause with our legs and feet; In mistakes, we learn to step into the competition with our own knowledge.

We all grow, understand and mature in correcting our mistakes. But in life, keeping some mistakes can create a better life.

As the father of a migrant farmer, he boasted in front of his children that his English was excellent at school, but the children were not convinced. The children giggled when their father made those English letters meaningless. Father's mistakes became a way to amuse children. Isn't this another expression of love?

One day, the child prepared a red apple for himself, but when his father saw it, he said, "Is this apple for his father?" How sensible! "And the child said clearly with the child's most naive smile," OK, Dad. You eat! " "This is another mistake, but it is a beautiful mistake. This mistake has created a beautiful and sincere family relationship. Who can say that this mistake needs to be corrected? I believe that in the future, children will think more than themselves.

Not all mistakes should be corrected, or they are correct. Sometimes, mistakes are special signposts of happiness and beauty. Keeping some traces of mistakes is another kind of beauty!

It seems to be a common thing in education that a student is punished by the teacher for being called to the comprehensive office for being late, but in my opinion, this is not the best way to solve the problem. People who win people's hearts are educated, and children in adolescence are rebellious. As a teacher.

What is needed is to make the best use of the situation, follow the lead, and let students find their mistakes and then correct them. If we blindly emphasize the dignity of teachers, then I think what we get is not the students' conviction, but more students' empty promises.

In fact, mistakes are also a kind of beauty, and the key lies in what kind of mentality the parties face. The story of Edison's invention of electric light is familiar to everyone. While praising Edison's success, I also appreciate his repeated mistakes in the process of invention. Because of these countless mistakes, Edison finally brought more dazzling light to mankind. There are ebbs and flows in the sea, how can life not be ups and downs? I now feel that mistakes in life can be forgiven, and sometimes they are lovely. Because of them, this life will not become lifeless and completely "correct".

"People have joys and sorrows, the moon has ups and downs, and it is difficult to be complete in ancient times." Su Shi of the Northern Song Dynasty made such a discovery about life hundreds of years ago. Today, why should we pursue perfection like a dream? Give others more tolerance, and the world will be better; Appreciate mistakes more and the world will be more lovely. As mortals, please applaud those quiet students, and don't forget to give those "naughty" some gentle eyes, because as long as our hearts are big, the stage of education will be big.