When the poor mother left the only meal for her child and concealed the fact that the child was still starving, do you still accuse the kind and noble maternal love of being "dishonest"? In fact, we can see the shadow of white lies everywhere in our lives, from the comfort in tears before our sickbed to the politeness when we politely refuse, from the dried-up sea of love to the beautiful exaggeration written by poets, which are actually not so terrible.
White lies are not contradictory to honesty. Lies should have the function of cheating. Only malicious lies are cheating, and white lies are not "lies". Because of the existence of white lies, the world will become better, warmer and more harmonious, the world will be full of love and sunshine, children will grow up healthily, the elderly will enjoy their old age and patients will be full of hope.
A white lie is a lie out of good wishes, the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart, and also makes people firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world! White lies can make people find more reasons to laugh at life.
Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you? On the contrary, it is malicious and true. A prisoner was lured by the enemy to tell about his troop deployment. Does anyone think he is honest? Being honest with the enemy is a betrayal of the country! The director of the judicial expertise department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said: "Lying is a human instinct. As for honesty, the key is what kind of lies to use. "
It is right to tell the truth, but many times we need white lies more. A white lie will not hinder honesty.
White lies put aside ugliness and come to a beautiful world!
White lies abandon selfishness and come to an honest world!
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White lies are beautiful. This kind of lie is either cheating or ulterior motives. When we tell some little lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and even give each other great changes! It has a magical power, without any impurities. A white lie is a lie out of good wishes, the nourishment of life and the driving force of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart, and also makes people firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world! ! ! White lies can make people find reasons to face life with a smile. White lies endow human beings with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive.
A white lie can save a terminally ill patient and give others a glimmer of hope. White lies can restore confidence and sometimes save a person who is about to have a nervous breakdown.
Note that white lies only represent gentle little lies with ulterior motives. For example, hiding a happy event makes the other party suddenly feel happy. Of course, hiding bad things is not a white lie.
White lies are based on good motives and take safeguarding the interests of others as their purpose and starting point. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in particularity and different from universality. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on inner sincerity and kindness, and a white lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar. By taking others as a means, there is only a strong desire for profit and a weak rationality, and it does not hesitate to hurt others. The lies that people who are kind in themselves are "forced" to tell in a certain state are well-intentioned and a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to rhetoric, how to rack their brains to crown their malicious lies with malicious purposes. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty.
In a word, white lies can ignite people's hope and confidence. Who can say it is not white?