2. Compared with children, parents are in a dominant position in the family, both economically and spiritually. Therefore, parents are also in a dominant position in dealing with their children. There is a generation gap between them, and parents should also bear the main responsibility.
Compared with children, parents have rich life experience, so they should choose good ways to communicate with their children and try their best to bridge the generation gap with them. If they don't work hard to bridge this generation gap, they have an unshirkable responsibility.
Compared with children, parents have stronger thinking ability and wider knowledge, and should be more tolerant than children. Therefore, they should be mainly responsible for the generation gap.
Nowadays, children are very nervous about their studies, so they don't have much time to accept interpersonal skills. In contrast, their parents have more time to relax. They should use this relaxing time to learn some adolescent psychology, understand children's psychology, understand children's thoughts and needs, and don't create a generation gap.
6. Both parents are mature people, and their temperament should be milder than that of their children. Once children and parents get angry, parents should hold back the fire, adopt circuitous tactics or treat them coldly, instead of causing serious confrontation between the two sides, which will increase the psychological distance between the two generations and eventually lead to the failure of timely and calm communication between the two sides, thus creating a generation gap.
7. Children before junior high school graduation belong to minors, and parents have the obligation to support them. They should not only care about children's health, food and clothing, but also educate children to ensure that they have a healthy mind. If parents can't do this, there will be a generation gap between children and themselves, and the responsibility should of course be borne by parents.
1. Physically speaking, parents are older than us, so they are more mature than us both physically and psychologically. My parents' experience and experience are also richer than ours, more cautious and thorough than ours. So they have the ability to take appropriate measures to communicate with their children. If parents fail to do this, resulting in a "generation gap" between themselves and their children, then the main responsibility lies with parents.
Second, ideologically, parents don't understand their children, and they don't know what their children think and want. Parents just use their unique parental status to force their children to do things they don't want to do, thus suppressing all kinds of ideas in their children's minds. Think that what you say or do is reasonable and correct, which will create a "generation gap" between parents and children.
Thirdly, in terms of family status, parents are the head of the family and hold the economic power. As an example for children to learn, they can't let go of their airs and faces and can't communicate with children on an equal footing. In order to maintain their parents' prestige and dignity, they are unwilling to accept their children's various suggestions and always like their children's obedience. This "supreme" status of parents will create a "generation gap" between parents and children.
Fourth, from the perspective of modern education, children have to receive a lot of education, and family education is one of the most important educational contents for children. When it comes to family education, we should talk about the relationship between parents and children. We know that a good family environment will inevitably form a harmonious and warm family. If there is a gap between family members, it will inevitably have a certain impact on the growth of children. Parents' words and deeds and morality will have an impact on their children. Since the birth of a child, parents have become the child's first teacher. From then on, they have the responsibility and obligation to educate their children, which is also a social responsibility. Parents' dereliction of duty may cast a shadow over the family, resulting in family indifference and disharmony, as well as children's pessimism and negative thoughts.
In terms of the development of the times, parents' life experiences are mostly in the 1980s. The past experience gave them a taste of the hardships of life. They don't want their children to make the same mistakes, so they repeatedly ask them to accept their ideas. With the development of the times and the progress of society, children in the new century have formed different ways of thinking and principles from their parents, which will inevitably lead to a "generation gap" between parents and children, while parents do not actively communicate with their children. Comrade * * * once said: Our thoughts should keep pace with the times. But they just didn't do it. I'll give you some information for reference.