"Frustration is a compulsory course in life. It is beyond reproach that parents love their children and seek welfare and happiness for them.
To some extent, it can also be said that this is the responsibility of parents. . . . The above content is a brief explanation of the article "Frustration is a compulsory course in life". Next is the beginning of the text ""
Frustration is a compulsory course in life.
It is understandable that parents love their children and seek welfare and happiness for their children. To some extent, it can also be said that this is the responsibility of parents. However, what are children's interests and happiness now and their future interests and happiness? This is worth thinking about by many parents.
In real life, the present and future interests and happiness are harmful and painful in the long run, which is called "a friend in need is a friend indeed". At present, it seems that it is very demanding for children, but it is beneficial in the long run. The so-called "disaster comes from the mouth."
Some parents only care about their children's immediate interests and happiness, without considering the future. Arrange the children's material life to be very comfortable and superior, with food to eat, clothes to wear and hands to reach. Children crying together, even a little unhappy, will make the whole family fidgety.
) this surface is love, but it is actually harm. Our children are fundamentally disadvantaged, psychologically fragile, withdrawn and indifferent. Once he encounters setbacks, even a little criticism will make his mood abnormal. What will happen in the future?
In fact, every parent knows in his heart that everyone has a muddy road and a tortuous road. One's life can't be smooth sailing. Children also need to have the ability to withstand setbacks, so they can't suffer. In fact, everything you do is not tomorrow. Children are often prescribed some frustration drugs since childhood, and children will gradually develop drug resistance and drug resistance. When your child enters the society, his ability to live, work and socialize is very strong. At that time, you should be proud of it!
The seedlings that can't stand the wind and rain will wither and die gradually, but the seedlings that can bring farmers the joy of harvest are stretching their arms and smiling at the wind and rain. The seemingly fierce wind and rain is a ruthless screening of seedlings and injected growth promoters into excellent seedlings! Frustration can make the weak stronger. Parents should also let their children understand the truth. Let children know that frustration is a compulsory course in life.
Free children from narrow protection and love.