2. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.
Anger is to punish yourself with other people's faults. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.
4. It is not necessarily fun to have more money, but trouble to have more money. Being poor and happy is really comfortable, and you can be happy without attachments.
Remote.
5. Sit still and always think about yourself. Don't talk about people's mistakes. Those who can bear hardships are those who have lofty ideals. He who is willing to endure hardship is not an idiot.
A gentleman shows virtue, lest a villain be incompetent. He wants to retreat to the highland, let the three points be calm, and want to move forward.
Step by step, you need to think backwards. If you start, you should consider putting it down first. You shouldn't go back if you are complacent. Everything should have more steps. Hold gold
For precious, knowing that happiness is worth a thousand dollars, it is better to think twice at the first moment and endure anger the highest. Don't be greedy for accidents
Wealth makes the contented happy. If you can do things like this, you will be happy all your life.
6. You don't have to work hard. Nothing is a job. You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.
7. Peace is luck, contentment is happiness, purity of mind is wealth, and no desire is just longevity.
8. The more desires a person has, the narrower his mind becomes; The less desire he has, the wider his mind becomes.
9. I would rather be poor than rich or sad.
10. When you are deeply worried, you should retreat first, and when you are proud, you can rest.
1 1. endless potential, endless happiness, endless cheapness, endless cleverness.
12. Dripping water wears away the stone, not strength, but kung fu.
13. If you don't frown all your life, there should be no gnashing people in the world.
14. You must make friends with the right people, but don't make friends with the wrong people. Drink quiet tea, not greedy for fancy wine. Open it conveniently.
Door, idle mouth right or wrong.
15. Many rooms make wind, but many words make trouble.
16. Busy as water, don't care about fame and fortune. Poor food and simple meals led to the prosperity of Moqiang.
Beg.
17. "My desire" is a sign of poverty. Satisfaction with things is always satisfactory, and people are rigid without desire.
18. The worst thing in life is to talk about others; The stupidest thing in life is to hear about yourself.
19. Don't do all kinds of evil, all kinds of good will pursue. Don't do small good, don't do small evil.
20. Don't envy him for being long, but if you envy him for being long, you will be short. Don't protect yourself from being short. Protect yourself from being short and you will never grow up.
2 1. You don't have to be the same as the custom, and you shouldn't be different from it. You don't have to be flattering or disgusting to do things.
22. There are two things in the world that cannot wait: First, filial piety. Second, do good.
23. If you are equal and do something convenient, there will be nothing in the world. If you are compassionate and do compassionate things, so will your heart.
Ping.
24. Small-minded, troubled, big-minded and rich in wisdom.
25. There is nothing to hide from others in life, which is great.
26. "Evil", afraid of being known, is a great evil; "Good" is not really good, if people want to know it.
27. Helping the poor is a good thing. Not boasting is a virtue!
28. In prosperity, take it lightly, and in adversity, take it calmly.
29. Right and wrong happen every day. If you don't listen to nature, there will be nothing.
30. The stimulation of five senses is not real enjoyment. Inner peace is the place to start.
3 1. People are kind, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away; Man-made disaster, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away.
32. If you don't ask for it, you will feel at ease. If you don't do it, you will be safe.
33. Those who don't respect themselves are humiliated; Not from the elders, asking for trouble; Those who are not complacent benefit; An insatiable person, Bo
Smell.
34. The provident fund is reserved for future generations, and future generations may not be able to keep it; The accumulated books are left to future generations, and future generations may not understand them. Not as good as the product
Yin de is in the dark, which is also a family heirloom.
35. Accumulated virtue is an industry, which is better than beautiful houses and fertile land.
36. Being able to give love is bliss, and being able to eliminate troubles is wisdom.
37. Peace of mind is better than peace of mind, and breadth of house is better than breadth of mind.
Julius Caesar, a Roman, was a great shock to Europe, Asia and Africa. Before he died, he told the waiter, "Please give me a pair."
Put your hands outside the coffin and let the world see that a great Caesar like me will die empty-handed.
39. There is fun in dreams and nothing after sleep.
40. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't worry about it.
4 1. A gentleman's trip is to cultivate one's morality by being quiet, to cultivate one's morality by being frugal, to be indifferent to one's ambition, and to be peaceful and inaction.
42. Conquering the world is not great. A man who can conquer himself is the greatest man in the world.
43. It is a saint to reduce desire to the lowest point and sublimate reason to the highest point.
44. To be jealous and hate others is to give your life to others.
45. If a person is not infected by bad habits, happiness is around.
46. Defaming others is like spraying blood on others, polluting your mouth first.
47. If you hate others, you will suffer.
48. People are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves.
49. A big belly can accommodate you, but many troubles are broken, and you can smile and form an infinite joy. A little neglect may breed great mischief.
Great plan.
50. Changing yourself means saving yourself, influencing others and saving lives.
5 1. Lies are like blooming flowers, with beautiful appearance and short life.
52. Only those who respect themselves are more brave in shrinking themselves.
53. People don't seek happiness, there is no harm. People don't seek profit, but it's harmless.
54. Wise men search according to time, while fools move against time.
55. People who often blame themselves can often be forgiven by others.
56. Seeing yourself clearly is not the gateway to all good things. Seeing people is not the root of all evil.
57. Learn to give in and take advantage. Increase one point of enjoyment and decrease one point of blessing.
58. Good thoughts, good luck, bad thoughts and bad luck.
59. Good people do good deeds, from joy to joy, from Ming to Ming; The wicked do evil, from bitterness to bitterness, from ghost to ghost.
60. People with good heart will live long. Those who are engraved in their hearts will live longer.
6 1. Bones should be strong, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be weak, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, and happiness should be appropriate.
Cherish, trouble is not far away, trouble is near.
Bitterness is a good medicine, but advice is harsh. Change produces wisdom. It is immoral to defend one's mistakes.
63. What a person has now will become someone else with his death. Then why not give it now?
What about people who really need it?
64. People suffer from pursuing the wrong things.
65. Life Maximum 2 1
The greatest enemy in life is yourself. The biggest failure in life is arrogance.
The biggest stupidity in life is cheating. The most pitiful thing in life is jealousy.
The biggest mistake in life is inferiority complex. The greatest pain in life is obsession.
The greatest humiliation in life is flattery. The most dangerous situation in life is greed.
The most troublesome thing in life is to compete for fame and gain. The greatest sin in life is self-deception.
The most pitiful temperament in life is inferiority complex. The biggest bankruptcy in life is despair.
The biggest debt in life is a debt of gratitude. The greatest sin in life is killing.
The worst thing in life is chaos. The kindest behavior in life is dedication.
The greatest happiness in life is to let go. The greatest comfort in life is giving.
The greatest gift in life is forgiveness. The most admirable thing in life is diligence. Health is the greatest wealth in life.
66. If you have a good heart and a good life, you will have money to grow old. When life is not smooth, happiness becomes a disaster. A good heart and a bad life are a curse.
Into a blessing. If you have a bad heart and a bad life, you will suffer and be poor. The heart can keep life, and the most important thing is humanity. Life is made up of
Heart, misfortune and happiness are all human tricks. Believing in life does not cultivate the heart, and Yin and Yang are afraid of emptiness and righteousness. Self-cultivation also obeys orders, and heaven and earth protect themselves.
67. Being silent and nourishing, being widowed and nourishing, being widowed and nourishing nature.
68. It is better to change yourself than to change others.
69. Learn to be grateful for a lifetime. Be grateful to the person who hurts you, because he has honed your mind; Thank you for cheating you.
Man, because he has improved your knowledge; Be grateful to the person who whipped you, because he eliminated your karma;
Be grateful to the person who abandoned you, because he taught you to stand on your own feet; Be grateful to the person who tripped you, because he is strong.
Your ability; Be grateful to the person who scolded you, because he contributed your wisdom; Appreciate everything that makes you firm.
Just people.
70. Ordinary people are lost in the present and regret the past. Sages are conscious of the present, drifting away from the future.
7 1. Quitting Qi is a fitness method, which is quiet and convergent, managing the family, being spontaneous and natural, saving trouble, OK.
Being good at cultivating the mind is a method of life. Obey these four laws, and the outcome will be within reach.
72. Life is like a play, because we meet by destiny. It is not easy to grow old together. Should we go to Jane more often?
Cherish There's no need to turn back when you lose your temper over trifles. I'm not angry when others are angry. I was angry when I was sick.
Replace. I'm sad. Who will be satisfied? Besides, it's frustrating and laborious. Don't compare with your neighbors and relatives, let your children and grandchildren do their own housework.
Go, suffer and enjoy together, and the gods envy good companions.
73. People can't stand it, and pedestrians can't stand it. Buddha's name: "Daxiong". Hence the name: "Big Bear Bag"
Temple ". That is, Buddha also.
74. Patience is an asset. I can't bear to think about it once, and fighting for strength is a catastrophe. I can't hold my breath.
Sick classmates will haunt you all your life, so there is no harm in making people step by step, and it is no trouble to measure a lot of happiness.
75. Hanshan asked me: There are people in the world who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me and splash me. I should be like this.
Where is it? Pick it up and say, just bear with him, avoid him, leave him alone, tolerate him and ignore him. In a few years, you will.
Look at him.
76. Be patient for a while, calm down, take a step back and broaden your horizons.
77. Evil is a plow, good is mud, and good people are often bullied by wicked people. The iron plough is getting worse every year, and Tanaka has not changed.
Mud.
78. Without an open flame, forbearance is the nemesis of the enemy, but you can go backwards.
79. As much as you can bear, you will achieve much in your future career.
80. If you give in to yourself, you can get along with others. If you win well, you will meet the enemy.
8 1. If you don't think twice, you will always lose, and people can bear it without worrying.
82. Right and wrong are liberated because they don't argue, troubles are wise because they endure humiliation, and things are meritorious because they try their best.
83. Everything is tolerable. It is better to be patient than to argue.
84. Hurtful words, like water, are irreparable.
85. Always being kind is always a beautiful day.
86. Words are inferior to words, and words are inferior to words.
87. Be reasonable and forgive others, and make peace directly.
88. I'm not afraid of much, but I'm afraid of much.
89. The true compassion of Buddhism is to let go of troubles, troubles, separation, persistence and everything. An idea and release
Next, everything is easy.
90. The heavy snow makes the pine and cypress stand tall and straight. You know, pine trees are noble and clean until the snow melts. Insist on Qingshan
Pine trees, rooted in broken rocks, are still strong after many trials and hardships, and let the wind blow to the southeast and northwest.
9 1. Learning is learning to be a person. Practice is to correct one's behavior, thoughts and opinions.
92. The sage seeks the heart but not the Buddha; Fools have no intention of seeking Buddha. Ordinary people don't turn around; The saint changed his mind.
Conditions.
93. Success = effort+scientific method+less empty talk.
94. A rolling stone gathers no moss.
95. If you pay with money, you have to pay the price; Color giver, China falls, loves Chongqing; Heart to heart, live and die together?
Give up.
96. Those who gain will prosper, and those who lose will die.
97. Life doesn't sell round-trip tickets. Once you leave, you will never come back. Recalling the past and having fun from it is equivalent to living.
Two lives.
98. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. Giving people words is more important than pearls and jade, and hurting people with words.
Heavier than swords and halberds.
99. Looking back on the countries and families of sages in the past, frugality was defeated by extravagance. Diligence is priceless, prudence is protection. diligent
Children will not go bad, hard-working old people will not be demented, and hard-working teenagers will not lose.
100. Don't hesitate to regret after the time has passed. Gambling on alcohol, sex and pleasure will lead to misfortune and regret, and it will be unsafe if you are ill.
Regret official bribery leads to sin and regret, and the rich regret when they are not diligent and poor. Unfilial parents regret when they are old, and they will not help if they are killed.
Regret If you don't think twice, you will regret it. 1, architect
A lady called the architect and said that her bed would shake whenever the train passed by.
"This is nonsense!" The architect replied, "Let me see."
After the architect arrived, his wife suggested that he lie on the bed and experience the feeling when the train passed by.
Hardly had the architect gone to bed when his wife's husband came back. Seeing this, he snapped, "You lie on me.
What is the wife doing in bed? "
The architect replied trembling, "I said I was waiting for the train." Would you believe it? "
Suddenly realized
Some words are true, but they sound false; Some words are false, but there is no doubt.
Step 2 seduce
An English gentleman and a French lady share a box. This woman tried to seduce the Englishman. She took off her clothes and lay down to hug him.
Complain about the cold. Mr. Wang gave her his quilt, but she kept saying it was cold.
"How else can I help you?" Mr. Wang asked in dismay.
"When I was a child, my mother always used her body to keep me warm."
"Young lady, I can't help you. I can't jump off the train to find your mother, can I? "
Suddenly realized
A man who knows amorous feelings is a good man, and a man who doesn't know amorous feelings is a good man.
ladle
Mike went into the restaurant and ordered a soup. The waiter brought it to him right away.
As soon as the waiter walked away, Mike shouted, "Sorry, I can't drink this soup."
The waiter brought him another soup, but he still said, "Sorry, I can't drink this soup."
The waiter had to call the manager.
The manager nodded respectfully to Mike and said, "Sir, this dish is our best and very popular with customers."
Welcome, isn't it ... "
"I mean, where is the spoon?"
Suddenly realized
Correcting mistakes is of course a good thing. But we often remove the right and leave the wrong, and the result is wrong.
Add it wrong.
Step 4 wear it wrong
In the restaurant, an extremely humble person timidly touched another customer wearing a coat.
"Excuse me, are you Mr. Pierre?"
"No, I'm not." The man replied.
"Ah," he breathed a sigh of relief, "then I'm not mistaken. I am him. You are wearing his coat. "
Suddenly realized
It proved not easy. People who are straightforward tend to feel inferior; And unreasonable.
However, people are as strong as cattle.
Step 5 take it back
A Scotsman went to London and wanted to visit an old friend, but he forgot his address, so he gave it to my father.
A telegram was sent: "Do you know Thomas' address? Tell me quickly! "
On the same day, he received an urgent reply: "Yes."
Suddenly realized
When we finally found the most correct answer, we found it was the most useless.
6. Sad stories
Three people went to new york for a holiday. They booked a suite on the 45th floor of a high-rise hotel.
One night, the elevator in the building broke down and the waiter arranged for them to spend the night in the lobby.
After discussion, they decided to walk back to their rooms and agreed to tell jokes, sing songs and tell stories in turn to reduce the burden.
Fatigue of buildings.
After telling jokes and singing songs, we finally climbed to the 34th floor, and everyone felt exhausted.
"All right, Peter, tell a humorous story."
Peter said, "The story is not long, but it is extremely sad: I left my room key in the hall."
Suddenly realized
We are miserable, so we are humorous; We are humorous, so we are happy.
Step 7 sell books
A famous writer is coming to visit the bookstore. The bookstore owner was flattered and quickly withdrew all the books.
Put on the writer's book. When the writer came to the bookstore, he was very happy to ask, "Does your store only sell my books?"
"Of course not." The bookstore owner replied, "Other books are selling well, and they are all sold out."
Suddenly realized
"Flattery" is a strange word: you seem to flatter and insult him.
Step 8 help
In the lobby of the post office, an old lady walked up to a middle-aged man and said politely, "Sir, please help me in tomorrow.
Can you write down the address on the letter? "
"Of course." The middle-aged man did as the old man asked.
"Thank you!" The old lady said, "Write me another short paragraph, will you?"
"all right." According to the old lady's words, the middle-aged man smiled and asked, "Is there anything else I can do for you?"
"Well, there's one little thing." The old lady looked at the postcard and said, "Help me add another sentence below: the handwriting is scrawled."
Grass, please forgive me. "
Suddenly realized
If you refuse help, people will hate you for a week; If the help is not perfect, it is best to ... 1. Always remember: looks are not annoying, and only those who are stupid, hypocritical, impolite, arrogant, boastful and don't do practical things are the most disgusting.
2. temperament is the key. If you can't learn fashion, you'd rather be simple.
3. When shaking hands with people, you can shake hands for a while. He will appreciate your sincerity.
Smile is the most lethal secret weapon when talking with people. Your smile will make the other person relax their vigilance and soon become good friends with you.
Don't lose your temper, life is not a TV series.
6. Don't complain about "boredom" in front of others. The more boring you say, the more boring others think you are.
7. When taking a taxi with someone, please sit next to the driver first.
8. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
9. Drive your own car and don't stop to say hello to your colleagues who ride bicycles. People will think you are showing off.
10. Visit your colleague when he is ill. Sit naturally in his hospital bed and wash your hands carefully when you get home.
1 1. Don't let everyone know the past. It won't do you much good to look like a blank sheet of paper.
12. Respect people who don't like you.
13. When others criticize you, be sure to let him finish, even if you are right. If you choose to argue, you will be in big trouble.
14. Respect those who criticize you, because they can make you make real progress.
15. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
16. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.
17. Don't take others' kindness for granted, but be grateful. No one is born to wait on you, not even a nanny.
18. The "myna" on the banyan tree is talking, just talking but not listening, and the result is a mess. Learn to listen. Talk about it after you understand it, and get to the point, then you are a first-class negotiator.
19. Respect the host of the reception room and the cleaning aunt, throw the garbage into the trash can and give your seat to the old man on the bus, but these little things can greatly increase your charm.
Remember to start with "we" when you speak. Will bring us closer.
2 1. Give a hand to everyone who sings on stage, and he will be particularly touched by you.
22. Sometimes you should know perfectly well that your diamond ring is expensive! Sometimes, even if you want to ask, you can't ask, for example, what's your salary?
23. If you talk too much, you lose. There are many people, so you talk less.
24. Change the undeclared "No" into: "It takes time", "I'll try my best", "I'm not sure" and "I'll call you when I make up my mind". This is a sign of maturity. (It is also a skill commonly used by employers. When our graduates are employed, most of them encounter the time when the employer says to go back and wait for the phone call, so you can consider changing companies. )
25. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
26. Of course, you should like yourself.
27. If you are performing or giving a speech, if only one person is listening, you should continue with your heart, even if no one is cheering, because this is the road and cradle of your success. You should not let the audience succeed, but you should succeed by yourself.
28. Insist on saying nice things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that these nice things won't reach the ears of the parties. For example, if you get angry with your girlfriend and have a big fight, you may say that you can't go back for a thousand or ten thousand. At this time, the best way is to find a girlfriend's best friend. Do you believe what she said?
Let her pass on three sentences and promise to solve the problem:
(1), isn't your husband always good to you?
(2) He bought this for you and made that for you. How can he be separated because of a few words?
(3), well, can you really divide it?
Your girlfriend will definitely say, oh, yes, I have made up, but this boy is so angry, you can help me clean up this boy in the future.