Tolerance is the catalyst of feelings. This can be said from Qi Henggong in the Spring and Autumn Period. After winning the position of Chu Jun in those years, Qi Henggong let bygones be bygones, and appointed Guan Zhong, who had been hostile to him before, as a phase, to be unmoved and burst into tears. After that, Guan Zhong fully assisted Qi Henggong, making the State of Qi supreme. Based on historical data, why did Qi become the overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period? That's because Qi Henggong was tolerant, which influenced Guan Zhong, and then treated him with sincerity and repaid him with kindness!
Tolerance is the coagulant of feelings. I once read a report that an old couple who had been married for 65 years was interviewed by a reporter. Incredibly, after 65 years of marriage, they quarrel almost every three weeks. When the reporter asked them in surprise, why did their relationship last until now? The old man was full of joy and slowly told the truth with trembling lips and teeth: because we always forgive each other's mistakes after quarreling. Obviously, the high marriage age of 65 is maintained by the tolerance of both husband and wife. Shouldn't this cause people to think deeply? Once a good friend, because of a temporary impulse and premature tolerance, only regret for a lifetime; The opportunity that was once placed in front of me was just because I couldn't tolerate it, and I regretted it!
Tolerance is also an incubator of feelings, just like a flower in the wild. Every setback can always make it stronger, and every tolerance can also make the feelings of two people go further. Someone once said: Every time you forgive, you can double your feelings. When you are faced with emotional problems, you might as well try to be tolerant, which may have unexpected results!
Zi Gong asked, "Is there anything anyone can do?" Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." In fact, tolerance is that simple. As long as you feel each other's feelings, tolerance is already on your lips.