Our emotions always want something, thinking that the more things we have, the happier we will be. Therefore, this kind of humanity forces us to go along the road of pursuing acquisition. However, one day, we suddenly realized that our depression, boredom, confusion, helplessness and unhappiness are all related to our requirements. We are unhappy because we are eager to have too many things, or because we are too persistent and unconsciously persistent in something. For example, if you fall in love with someone, but he (she) doesn't love you, your world will become his (her) feelings. His (her) every movement and gesture can attract your attention and become the source of your happiness and pain. Sometimes, when you know it's not yours, you have to force it, perhaps out of blind self-confidence, or too much faith in what you are sincere. As a result, you keep trying, but you are constantly frustrated. Some rely on fate, some rely on opportunities, and some need people to appreciate with beautiful eyes, rather than giving up without persistence. Only by knowing how to give up can you be happy, and it is always hard to walk with a burden on your back. In life, we always choose between taking and giving up, always eager to take and possess, and often ignore the opposite of giving up and possessing-giving up. Knowing the true meaning of giving up, you will understand the wonderful truth of "losing the east corner and harvesting the mulberry" Knowing the true meaning of giving up, observing everything, and experiencing a realm as broad as the world, we will naturally know how to give up at the right time. This is a good way for us to gain inner balance and get happiness. Life sometimes forces you to give up your power, your chance and even your love. You can't have everything. You should learn to give up life. Giving up will make you look generous. Giving up will make you calm and positive, and giving up will make you smarter and stronger. What should I give up? Give up the pain caused by lovelorn, give up the hatred left by humiliation, and give up all the unspeakable loads in your heart; Give up quarrels and endless explanations that waste energy; Give up the struggle for power, the greed for money, the struggle for fame and fortune ... all selfish desires, all malice, all stubbornness should be given up. However, giving up is not easy, and it takes a lot of courage. Faced with many impossible things, it is a wise choice to give up bravely. Only by giving up without hesitation can we easily re-enter a new life and have new discoveries and opportunities. Giving up is indispensable to life. In the world, getting rid of it goes hand in hand, and getting rid of it is the only way to get it. A person's life is a contradictory unity of giving up and fighting for, giving up unnecessary fame and fortune smartly and persistently pursuing his own life goals. Learning to give up is a kind of elimination, a choice, eliminating one's weaknesses and choosing one's strengths. Giving up is not giving up without progress, but giving up appropriately, just for better progress. As the saying goes, take a step back and broaden the horizon. Life is short. Compared with the vast history, all the grievances, fame and fortune in the world are just a short moment, and the blessing lies in misfortune and the disaster is at stake. Pride and frustration are only a short moment in a person's life. Go to water poverty, and then sit and watch Yun Qi. How many things in ancient and modern times, pay for it. An old man accidentally dropped a new shoe he just bought on the train, and everyone around him felt sorry for him. Unexpectedly, the old man immediately threw the second shoe out of the window, which made people stunned. The old man explained, "No matter how expensive this shoe is, it's useless to me. Anyone who finds a pair of shoes may still be able to wear them! " "Obviously, the behavior of the elderly has been judged by value: instead of clinging to the residue, it is better to give up completely. We have all lost important things, and most of them cast a shadow on our minds. The reason is that we don't adjust our mentality to face the loss, we don't admit the loss psychologically, and we are always addicted to things that no longer exist. In fact, instead of being upset about what you have lost, it is better to face up to reality and think from another angle: maybe what you have lost is exactly what others deserve. Pushkin wrote in a poem: "everything is temporary and everything will disappear;" "Let the lost become lovely." Sometimes, loss is not necessarily sadness, but will become a kind of beauty; Losing is not necessarily a loss, but a dedication. As long as we have a positive and optimistic attitude, loss will become lovely. Proverbs of life: giving up is a kind of wisdom, which can set your mind free, restore your nature and let you really enjoy life; Giving up is a choice. Without wise giving up, there is no wise choice. Advance and retreat calmly, be positive and optimistic, and will inevitably usher in a brilliant future. Giving up is by no means indecisive, drifting with the tide, and it is not a retreat, but a positive attitude towards life. I hope it helps you ~

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