I have heard such a story. A girl about to enter the marriage hall asked her mother, "How can we make love last forever?" How to keep your lover's heart? "Mother was speechless. She bent down silently and picked up a handful of sand from the sand. Her hands were evenly spread, and the sand stood firmly in her palm, without leaking a grain. Suddenly, my mother clenched her hands and held the sand in her palm. Many grains of sand slipped from her fingers. When she opened her palm to her daughter again, there was not much sand in her palm. She looked at her surprised daughter and said, "Give the person you love and the person who loves you a free space. Too much love and pressure will kill love. ".

After listening to this story, I pondered for a long time. There is nothing wrong with love, but the way of love is different. There is no denying that some ways of love can only bring imprisonment and harm to the people you love.

The newspaper has reported the story of "Giant Baby" many times. A couple was very excited about having a child in middle age. I spoil my child and always let him sleep in the cradle. No matter how old he is, I care for him like a baby. Unexpectedly, a sudden car accident took the lives of the couple. When the police walked into their house, they were stunned by a "giant baby" lying in a giant cradle, and they didn't know what to do with this "giant baby" that was already a young man. He can neither walk nor eat by himself, and his self-care ability is zero. He doesn't know how to spend the rest of his life. It is understandable that the couple love their child, but they spoil him so much that they ruin his brilliant and beautiful life. Children, like beautiful flowers, are cultivated in a greenhouse. Although sheltered from the wind and rain, it has become more delicate. If they are accidentally hurt, they will be grateful. However, wild roses that have really experienced wind and rain can stand firm in harsh environment, often unbeaten and colorful. Then, parents who love their children deeply, why don't they give their children a space and an opportunity to fly freely through the storm for nine days?

It is said that eagles nest on cliffs. First, they spread some thorns in the nest, and then they spread a lot of soft hay to avoid hurting the young eagle. When the baby eagle grows up, it gradually eats hay. The baby eagle naturally can't stand the sting and retreats to the nest. That's why Kitty Hawk pushed her children off the cliff and forced them to fly by themselves. The desire to survive made the eagle flap its wings and take off, thus learning to fly. Can we say that mother eagle doesn't love baby eagle? Don't! She likes children. It is because of love that they have to stand on their own feet as soon as possible in a cruel living environment and fly far away.

Someone once said: "Freedom is the air of love, imprisonment will suffocate love, giving is the rain of love, and flooding will drown love." Don't burn a flower with a warm heart, because it will wither. Don't put an unbearable force on the string, because it will break. Give love some space, moderate love.