In recent years, the word family background is very popular.
Behind everyone's actions, people will unconsciously think of his family background.
Being born in a family affects all aspects of people, even their fate.
In When You Fly to Your Mountain Like a Bird, Tara as a child was influenced by her manic father and spent her whole life healing the wounds brought by her childhood family.
When his brother Sean put her head into the toilet several times and his brother cut off his hand from behind and pressed it on the bathroom floor, Tara once lost the motivation to live.
Although Tara was admitted to Brigham Young University on her own, she went to Cambridge, England for further study. During this period, the negative influence of her parents has not diminished at all. Even for a while, the influence of her parents made her want to give up her studies.
A person's most important self-confidence comes from his childhood family, from the unconditional love and meticulous care of his caregivers.
Tara was not so lucky in her childhood. When she tried to summon up the courage to tell her mom and dad that she was bullied by her brother, but she didn't get any positive response, she chose to put it in a corner of her heart in a way that she could understand.
When I think about Tara's experience, I put myself in her shoes. If I were her, I wouldn't have her perseverance and courage to reshuffle the cards that life gave her.
It is unlucky to meet such parents, and there are a group of brothers and sisters who don't save trouble. Tara, it's really hard.
Tara wrote a paper on the influence of parents with bipolar disorder on their children. Among them, she wrote, "Children with bipolar parents will be hit by double risk factors. First of all, they are genetically more prone to emotional disorders; Secondly, it is because of the tense living environment and the poor parenting style of sick parents. "
In class, when Tara heard the teacher talk about neurotransmitters and their effects on brain chemistry, she understood that disease was not an option. But this knowledge did not make her feel sympathy for her father. She's just angry.
Because of her, her mother and Luke Shawn are the ones who pay the price.
Tara has been living in a state of vigilance and constant fear, because dad always puts faith before safety. Because he believes he is right, he still insists that he is right after the first car accident, the second car accident, the garbage can healing, the fire and the tray incident. The price paid is Tara and other family members.
When Tara sent the paper to Professor Steinberg, she thought her paper was rejected.
When the professor positively affirmed her article, she said, "I am ready to be insulted, but I am not ready to accept this answer."
She can accept any form of cruelty more than kindness. Praise is a poison to her, and Tara choked on it. She expected the professor to yell at her, but he didn't, which made Tara dizzy.
I finished reading this book in one breath, and found that the author was healing himself by writing this book.
Each of us has more or less childhood memories, both beautiful and ugly ... but now that we have grown up, no matter what happens, we should treat ourselves well after experiencing something.
Tell yourself that everything will pass and that you deserve to be loved.
Live hard for yourself who has never been treated well, and grow towards the sun!
The world and we love you.
I'm Qi Xi Qiao Yue, sharing my life with you. Good night