There are two kinds of mistakes: one is your own mistake, and the other is the mistake of others. Ordinary people, who make mistakes themselves, try their best to cover up their mistakes, deny their achievements and refuse to correct them in order to save face or avoid responsibility, so they always wrestle again and again in the same mistakes; I am obsessed with other people's mistakes, and I want to kill others. Such people are strict with self-discipline, lenient with self-discipline, regardless of right and wrong, and ultimately harm others and themselves.
How to treat your mistakes? It is human nature to make mistakes, it is human nature to make mistakes, and it is human nature to make mistakes. Many mistakes, if admitted early and corrected in time, will not be too harmful and will not be too responsible for themselves; If you cover up procrastination, the mistakes will not stop, and the damage will only get bigger and bigger, which will eventually make it difficult for you to take responsibility, so you have to accept punishment, which is harmful to others and yourself. For example, the Three Gorges Project, from "once in ten thousand years" to "once in a thousand years", to "once in a hundred years" and then to "don't expect too much", is a mistake. Admitting the facts is the premise to solve the problem. If you admit this wrong fact, you can stop work first, then consider remedial measures such as reconstruction or bombing, and reflect on the reasons for this mistake when making decisions at the beginning to avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future; If you don't admit this mistake, you will make mistakes again and again and continue to build. Geological disasters and ecological disasters occur frequently, or one day, when the flood is terrible and the people turn into fish and shrimp, you can just send out the People's Liberation Army and add more fish and shrimp. The power of nature is by no means irresistible to ignorance or lies. For your own mistakes, putting down face, admitting them as soon as possible, correcting them in time and actively remedying them can minimize the losses caused by mistakes; If you want to save face, deny, or try to avoid responsibility and cover up your mistakes, you will only make mistakes again and again, harming others and yourself, and even the country and the people.
How to treat other people's mistakes? If someone is willing to admit it, there is no need to cling to it. If they are willing to remedy it, they can also consider helping. After all, no one can guarantee that he won't make mistakes. To be kind to others is to be kind to himself. However, for those who are proud of their death and refuse to admit their mistakes, if they only harm themselves, they will be fine; If it still brings disaster to others, even to the country and the people, it is necessary to severely repair it, or even strike hard and punish it with an iron fist; If a few people make a big mistake, they would rather die than admit it and refuse to correct it, they should be let die. Can't innocent people be poisoned by these people for nothing?
Whether others point out our mistakes or we take the initiative to reflect on our own mistakes, admit and correct them, it is not to explain to others, but to improve ourselves. If a person never doubts that he may be wrong, then he usually makes a big mistake, a special mistake, or even an irreparable mistake; Only by accepting criticism, constantly reflecting and achieving "three rescues a day" can we learn and grow from our mistakes.
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A promising soldier killed his comrade-in-arms by mistake in an exercise. He was filled with remorse, applied for retirement and gave up his bright future. However, leaving the military camp failed to alleviate the burden on his conscience, and the scene of the tragic death of his comrades often appeared in his mind. Since then, he has been devastated and has been living in regret and pain. Because a momentary negligence caused irreparable harm, repentance is a matter of course. However, the soldier's behavior makes people wonder: if he gives up his career and then his life, can he bring his comrades back to life? This will make up for the great damage caused to the relatives of the deceased? Presumably, what people want to see is that he will cheer up from his regrets, face life bravely, and try his best to make up for the damage caused to his comrades' families with practical actions.
There are always some mistakes in life. In the face of inevitable mistakes, some people face them calmly and correct them actively, making mistakes a stepping stone to success. Learn from mistakes and keep learning. They can laugh at them and make their mistakes more valuable. Others, however, can't face up to their mistakes, or try their best to defend themselves, ignore their own existence and live in a daze; Or fall into a mistake, doubt yourself because of a mistake, lose confidence in yourself, or even exile yourself. If the former people build a bridge between themselves and happiness, then the latter people cut off their road to happiness-even if they can get happiness by taking a small step, they would rather let sadness surround them.
When interviewed by a reporter, a centenarian was asked about the reasons for his long life. The old man replied in a dialect that sounded unclear: "Learn to be happy. The secret of happiness is to pay less attention to other people's mistakes and think more about yourself. It's not hard for others, so don't be hard on yourself. "The old man's words are common, simple and thoughtful, but full of wisdom. Let's not talk about how to treat other people's mistakes for the time being. How to face your own mistakes is worth understanding. As I said before, it is inevitable that one will make mistakes. If he is too obsessed with past mistakes and stops moving forward, he will not only be unhappy in life, but may never succeed.
Scientists who have made outstanding achievements often have countless failures and countless mistakes behind them. One of the important reasons for their success is to face up to their mistakes, sum up lessons, learn wisdom and gain experience. Edison invented the electric light and experimented with thousands of materials. The curies discovered radium and experienced many failures. Didn't their success show us the correct attitude when facing our own mistakes? ,
Instead of choosing long-term pain and lifelong regret like that soldier, we should think more about the wise answers of centenarians, treat our mistakes correctly and believe that happiness and success are not far away.
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No one is perfect, and gold is not enough. It is impossible for a person not to make mistakes all his life. Personally, making mistakes is a process of accumulating experience.
Sometimes the future, direction and goal are not clear, and there is often no ready-made reference on how to go in the future. This may be crossing the river by feeling the stones, or it may be another way. Naturally, there is a risk of making mistakes, but we should not be timid and hesitant because we may make mistakes. We should explore while exploring and advance while advancing, otherwise we will miss all kinds of opportunities. Although making mistakes is inevitable, this is no reason for us to make new mistakes. Be careful with mistakes, because wrong behavior will bring losses and injuries to yourself and others. We should make as few or no mistakes as possible, at least we should not make the same mistake twice. Making mistakes can be forgiven, but making the same mistakes is unforgivable.
Making mistakes is not terrible. The key is to be able to recognize them, correct them, sum up experience and learn from them. I'm afraid I know I'm wrong, but I still refuse to admit my mistake, never repent, and continue on the wrong road. Some people make mistakes, but they are afraid of losing face, self-esteem, admitting mistakes and facing problems. This evasive attitude towards mistakes is actually a fear of the difficulty of correcting mistakes, which is a manifestation of the weak and very unwise. This is not conducive to the correction of mistakes and the healthy growth and rapid progress of individuals. That kind of courage to admit mistakes, dare to face reality, and be able to cut tumors and scrape bones is a wise move, which will make the sick body recover as soon as possible.
Mistakes in thought will inevitably lead to mistakes in action. To change the mistakes in action, we must first solve the mistakes in thought. Recognizing mistakes is the premise of correcting them. Some people do something wrong, but they don't think it's wrong because they don't know it in their heads. To understand and correct mistakes, we must have a scientific attitude and a spirit of seeking truth from facts. We should follow the law of the development of things, adopt the correct way of thinking, fully understand the situation, correctly evaluate the situation, carefully examine various factors affecting the development of things, and consider the purpose, motivation, behavior, result and influence in the overall situation and reality. Only in this way can we find the symptoms of the problem and make logical and regular judgments on the process and results of the development of things.
Be strict with your own mistakes, insist on self-awakening, self-warning, self-motivation and self-restraint, often reflect on your words and deeds, correct your mistakes as soon as possible, take remedial measures as soon as possible, avoid greater losses and minimize the negative impact of your mistakes. We should be good at listening to other people's criticisms and suggestions, and adopt the attitude of "being happy when you hear them, adopting good suggestions" and "changing when you have them, and encouraging when you don't have them". We should overcome face psychology, let go of unnecessary self-esteem, face problems bravely and correct mistakes.
For others' unprincipled mistakes, we should be tolerant and understanding, be emotional and reason-based, help others improve their ability and level of seeing and doing things, and avoid the recurrence of such problems. For other people's principled mistakes, we should also put a correct attitude, put facts and reason, pay attention to methods and strategies, try our best to let others see the nature and harm of mistakes, and enhance their confidence and determination to correct them. Those who stubbornly persist in their mistakes and obviously harm the interests of the state, the collective and others need to be given the necessary struggle.
It's hard to change after that. Correcting mistakes is to improve one's quality and self-cultivation, and correcting mistakes is to let go of the burden and make better and faster progress. Keep discovering and correcting mistakes, and you will step by step towards success and victory.