Learn to appreciate others, try to find a ray of light hidden in the depths, learn to praise others, and let each ray of light radiate the most dazzling light, so that even at the dawn after the stars shine, the morning star will be more dazzling!
The so-called appreciation means that people carefully watch and appreciate the object scenery by using aesthetic psychology and aesthetic vision. Appreciation can make people feel relaxed, happy and satisfied, and people's hearts will be purified and adjusted unconsciously. At the same time, appreciation can broaden people's horizons, enrich life and add interest to life. From the perspective of modern medicine, people's mental state is closely related to physical health. As an aesthetic activity, appreciation can often promote people to enter a positive and optimistic state of mind. This is naturally beneficial to physical and mental health.
Appreciation is not magical, and learning to appreciate does not require a deep artistic level. As long as you pay a little attention, you will find that objects that can be appreciated in daily life are everywhere. For example, flowers and plants planted on our balcony, calligraphy and painting posted on the wall, handicrafts displayed on the desk, goldfish fed in fish tanks and so on. Show your beauty to your master all the time. If you look at them quietly and intently for a few minutes after a meal, you will have an unspeakable pleasure. Another example is what people usually call "self-appreciation", that is, tasting the fruits of their own labor in life, which is also an elegant way of keeping in good health. For example, if you look at an article or a calligraphy and painting that you have carefully created, you will often get a great spiritual satisfaction and a high-level spiritual enjoyment. Reading good books is appreciation, listening to music is appreciation, watching excellent TV programs is appreciation, and going out to appreciate the beautiful colors of nature is also appreciation. There are objects of appreciation everywhere in life. Learn to appreciate, it will make your life more poetic, let you get spiritual enjoyment, and then get physical and mental health.
Learn to appreciate and praise. Do you appreciate it? Would you like it? Just as ancient poets gave the moon, which was originally lifeless, the tender feelings of "the flowers are like cymbals", under the full moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival, aren't you also intoxicated by the beautiful scenery of "the stars are falling from the empty land, the clouds are surging and the rivers are surging"? If you just use moonlight as a decorative background and indulge in funny jokes and sweet moon cakes, why meet the moon? In the communication with friends, if you only regard what happened as passing clouds and ignore a ray of light in the ordinary, why meet each other?
Try to observe everyone with the vision of the mind. Every bright spot you find will become a little star in the night. Only when the stars are not satisfied with the sky, not only yourself, but also others will share this passion and joy with you.
Everyone is the same, I hope people around me like me, I hope my views are adopted by others, I hope others attach importance to me, and I hope to hear sincere compliments. So, why not let these difficult wishes come true? Respect others and satisfy their sense of self-accomplishment. This is not a new mystery of human behavior that philosophers have realized. Ancient sages have long taught me: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you; Do what you want to do to others.
Learn to appreciate others, try to find a ray of light hidden in the depths, learn to praise others, and let each ray of light radiate the most dazzling light, so that even at the dawn after the stars shine, the morning star will be more dazzling!