There are many things in the world that make people want to cry, such as parting from life and death, being misunderstood, breaking up friendship … If you want to cry, you should cry well. So you can't shut out the sunshine and joy after that? People have misunderstood you. Do you still believe in yourself? Do you want to give up on yourself when your friend leaves you?

That's not true. You have experienced a lot of hardships in the world, and you will see many pleasant scenery in the society.

Even if the relatives around her are gone, her hope is still there. She wants you to not only miss death, but also smile at it.

No matter what others think of you, just go your own way. As for the understanding or misunderstanding of others, it doesn't matter.

Friends, the longer you get along, the less you will be separated. However, they all need to go to their respective futures, and they can't let friendship tie their feet. Because tomorrow will continue, and you will enter a new world of friendship. To this end, in the face of friends who are about to leave, you should try to smile happily and cherish your words.

Yes, life sometimes plays tricks on people, just like adults play tricks on children. Snatching candy from the child, the child cried, and the adults thought it was ridiculous because you played a trick on the innocent child.

In fact, God is fair to everyone. He took away your relatives and left behind memories and treasures. Taking away your friends will give you a chance to meet again. God brings you ups and downs, but he also teaches you how to be strong. ...

These many frustrated things have just tempered people's strong will and created an indomitable character. Even if you want to cry in the face of suffering, you should quietly leave your tears to yourself. Have a good cry where no one is around. After crying, you will feel much more relaxed. Then bravely dry your tears and face life with a smile.

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Laugh at failure

In the heart of every entrepreneur, there are role models like Gates and Dell. Entrepreneurs have different mentality and conditions, but the expectation of success is one of their common points.

In the real world, after all, there are very few lucky people like Gates and Dell. According to relevant data, about 68% of small and medium-sized enterprises in the United States closed down in the first five years, 19% of enterprises can survive for 6 ~ 10 years, and only 13% of enterprises can survive for more than 10 years. The research data of small and medium-sized enterprises in China may not be so cruel, but it is undeniable that many entrepreneurs have encountered failures and setbacks on the road of starting a business.

Partners broke up in discord, products lacked market sales, financial crisis, etc. Are all things that entrepreneurs may face. Faced with failures and setbacks, entrepreneurs can't lose confidence in the future. It is more important to learn to laugh at failure.

Napoleon Hill, the greatest inspirational success master in the 20th century, summed up seventeen principles of success, one of which was "laughing at failure". Napoleon Hill is convinced that "failure" is a severe test of human nature, which burns the residue in people's hearts and makes human "metal" more pure. He suggested: "The wheel of destiny keeps spinning. If it brings us sorrow today, it will bring us joy tomorrow. "

In the face of failure, there are at least three kinds of people:

A person, hit by failure, never recovered, once became a coward defeated by failure. This is reckless and unwise.

A person, hit by failure, does not know how to reflect on himself and sum up experience, but moves forward with enthusiasm. Such people often get twice the result with half the effort. Even if it succeeds, it is often like a flash in the pan. This is brave but unwise.

Another kind of people, after being hit by failure, can assess the situation, adjust themselves, strike again and make a comeback, which has both opportunities and strength. Such people are smart and brave, and success often comes to them.

There is also a proverb in the Bible: "If you are timid in the day of trouble, your strength will become insignificant." There is no eternal winter and no eternal failure in the world; Keep fighting spirit, confidence and patience in difficult and unfortunate days. Successful people are arrogant. 3. What's the matter with you? The tree?

There is no secret of turning defeat into victory in the world. As long as entrepreneurs have the confidence and courage to be fearless in the face of crisis and regain their glory, they will have an invincible weapon, and they will be able to overcome all difficulties on their way forward and reach a successful destination.

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Laugh at failure

In English dictionaries all over the world, failure comes before success, and so does life. Everyone will experience failure, and no one can fail forever. Since failure is inevitable, it depends on how you treat it.

Scientific research is a process of continuous exploration and development in unknown areas. At the beginning of the research, no one will know the specific direction of success, so it is bound to fail. However, researchers are often not discouraged by this. On the contrary, they always actively learn from failures, find the key to mistakes and constantly make adjustments to find the right path. There are also students who regard failure as a compass. A set of "wrong questions" is your indispensable treasure, recording mistakes again and again, making your understanding of your abilities clearer. Find out the shortcomings, so as to constantly improve their ability. Edison invented the electric light and tried thousands of filaments. Every time he fails, he happily thinks he is one step closer to success. Because a failure means that a wrong test material is excluded, we can learn more about which materials are suitable for filament.

Failure is also beneficial to others. "Don't forget the past, the teacher of the future". With the lessons of others, you can take fewer detours and be more clear about your own direction. Dr. Sun Yat-sen is a great pioneer of China's new-democratic revolution. Although the Revolution of 1911 led by him finally failed, we have summed up an important historical experience from his failure: the bourgeoisie, because of its weakness and compromise, is not enough to lead the China Revolution and change the nature of China's semi-colonial and semi-feudal society. Therefore, the proletariat stood up and eventually led us to success.

My friend, when you face failure, don't be pessimistic and depressed, please be optimistic! You will find that repeated failures are like bright lights in the dark, guiding you to the other side of success. Let's laugh at failure together.

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Failure doesn't mean that you are a failure-failure only means that you haven't succeeded yet.

Failure doesn't mean that you have accomplished nothing-failure means that you have gained experience.

Failure doesn't mean that you are an inflexible person-failure shows that you have a very firm belief.

Failure doesn't mean you have to be depressed all the time-failure means you may need to change your approach.

Failure does not mean that you are inferior to others-failure only means that you still have shortcomings.

Failure doesn't mean that you have wasted your time and life-failure means that you have a reason to start over.

Failure doesn't mean you have to give up-failure means you have to keep trying.

Failure doesn't mean that you will never succeed-failure means that you need some time.

Failure doesn't mean that fate is unfair to you-failure means that fate has a better proposal.

There is only a wall between success and failure, and it will not cost anything in vain. "

"Sweet and sour are nutritious, and success and failure are all gains."

"The fruit of success honed by failure is never as sweet as the fruit of success after setbacks."

"Laugh at success, but also laugh at failure."

"Those who can't learn from failure have a long way to success."

Muller Leonard: "laziness will be punished not only by your own failure, but also by the success of others."

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There are many ways to portray characters, among which the preference for action description can be said to be that any writer is no exception. Gorky believes that writing characters should do more and talk less. Lao She once said that only by describing actions can characters stand up. Contemporary psychologists believe that the human heart is invisible and intangible, and only action is true and reliable. Action is really a prism to see through the character's psychology. Character action types: individual action (a person's routine and personalized action), humorous action, exaggerated action and unexpected action.

Action description types: single action description and action group description.

Single action, heavy pen close-up highlights the personality of the characters. Action details, especially the subtle actions that condense the character's personality, are often the unique signs of personalized characters. Close-ups highlight the characters' personalities and remind them of their complex and profound inner world. When Grandet, the upstart bourgeois hook-up in Miser, was dying, when "the priest put the gold-plated cross to his lips", he made a terrible gesture and grasped it in his hand. "This" catch "not only killed the miser, but also fully reflected the greedy nature of the miser to death. Yan Jiansheng in The Scholars stretched out two fingers before he died, signaling his family to change the wick of the oil lamp from two to one, which finally made him another typical miser in the classic gallery of world literature. On the nine-foot counter of Xianheng Hotel, Kong Yiji, down and out, gloated for an instant, "discharged" nine pence and wrote down his absurdity. The most striking thing about Ah Q's action is that he made a bet on his death sentence. Ah Q couldn't write, so he replaced it with a circle: "Ah Q fell down and tried his best to draw a circle all his life. Afraid of being laughed at, he decided to draw a circle, but the damn pen was not only heavy, but also disobedient. It just shook and almost closed, but shrugged its shoulders and painted it like a melon seed. " Ah Q ended his life in this "circle". When the aquatic sister-in-law of Lotus Lake learned that Shuishui was going to be a soldier tomorrow, her fingers trembled-Mei Wei cut her finger, which was also the trembling of her inner thoughts, and wrote Shuishui's delicate mentality that Shuishui was unprepared and reluctant to leave her husband. Obviously, depicting highly personalized movements can make a character's character shine in the gesture.

2. Action group: heavy ink and colorful, splashing ink, reflecting the character.

Action is a silent language and a symbol of personality. A series of actions of the characters are splashed with ink, which can make the characters stand up in the description of action groups. After Grandet robbed his daughter's dresser in Miser, "The old guy wanted to take out a knife and pry a gold plate down, and put the box on the chair first. Eugénie rushed to get it back, but the stinger's eyes were fixed on his daughter and cosmetic box. When his arm swings and pushes hard, Eugénie falls down on his mother's bed. The action group composed of verbs such as Tao, Fang, stare, swing and push profoundly reveals the internal motivation of Grandet's actions-the strong possessiveness of money, thus making the image of a greedy miser come to the fore. Lu Xun is also a master who makes good use of action groups to create characters. The description of the executioner, Uncle Kang, in the novel Medicine is as follows: "Old Shuan is still hesitating; The black man grabbed the lantern, tore off the paper cover, wrapped the steamed bread and stuffed the old bolt; Grab the foreign currency in one hand, pinch it and turn around. Mouth humming,' this old thing ...' "Through this passage, the reader seems to appreciate the greed and cruelty of the executioner whose hands are covered with revolutionary blood when grabbing the foreign money accumulated by Hua Laoshuan through hard work. It can be seen that the character action group written in bold black can gradually enrich the character image in the description of the action group.

What should we pay attention to when describing the movements of characters?

First of all, be specific. The action of describing characters should not be empty, abstract and general. The lesson "Fanka" describes in detail his actions when he wrote a letter to his grandfather: "He thought about it, dipped it in ink and wrote the address:' grandpa in the country receives it'. Then I scratched my head, thought about it, and added a few words. " Konstantin Makalic ""A series of actions, such as thinking, dipping, writing, grabbing and adding, vividly depict Fanka's complex psychology of longing for grandpa to receive a letter and save him from the fire pit.

Second, we must grasp the characteristics. In a specific environment, the actions of characters have corresponding characteristics. We should carefully observe and master these characteristics. The lesson "Colorful Wings" wrote that when the soldiers guarding the island tasted the first watermelon on the island, they described their behavior like this:

"The soldiers all laughed, picked up a small piece with two fingers, studied it carefully, sniffed it gently, took a bite slowly, and couldn't help but exclaim."

This characteristic action description fully expresses the soldiers' feelings of joy, excitement, cherish and pride.

Third, choose accurate verbs and write the consistency of actions. "A Night's Work" describes Premier Zhou's review of documents in the middle of the night: "He reviews sentence by sentence, and after reading each sentence, he draws a small circle at the back with a pencil. Instead of browsing casually, he thinks while watching, sometimes stops to think, and sometimes asks me a word or two. " Although the verbs used in this action description are all ordinary words, they accurately show Premier Zhou's earnest, careful, valued and humble attitude.

Describing actions is to portray characters, and portraying characters is to express the center. Therefore, closely surrounding the center of the article, careful observation, careful selection and specific description have become the key to writing good characters' actions. We should write the way and process of the characters' actions, and reveal their inner activities and personality through this description, which is the direction of our efforts.

Fan Wen:

[Waving] The crowd stood quietly at the airport, with thousands of eyes moving with the tall figure of the chairman, watching the chairman step by step approach the plane and set foot on the gangway of the plane. The chairman walked to the door of the plane, stopped, turned around and walked to the crowd who saw him off. People once again swept the water like a gust of wind and rushed to the plane. The chairman took off his hat and looked at the people who saw him off, as if to comfort and encourage him. People don't know how to express their feelings, just wave desperately.

The chairman also raised his hand and raised his dark gray helmet. Lift it slowly, like lifting a heavy object, bit by bit, bit by bit, until it is raised above the head, and suddenly it stops in the air with a wave of its hand.

Ji Fang: Between the waves.

[Shake hands] Ding Jieqiong looked at Su Guanlan with a glassy stare, and her lips moved slightly, as if she wanted to say something, but she didn't say it.

Yeah, what's there to say? Don't hate these decades of parting, human feelings, can't words express it?

Professor Ding Jieqiong held out his hand slowly. She held out two hands and wore two diamond rings on her left finger, namely "Comet" and "Sun God", which shone brightly in the light.

Su Guanlan closed his eyes with excitement, stretched out a pair of thin, soft hands, and grasped Jiang, no, two white, tender and cold hands of Joan. ...

Shaking hands is something that happens 10,000 times in Qian Qian's life. However, only twice did Su Guanlan and her sister Joan shake hands together. The first time was in the season of their first love, in the summer of 1928, at the railway station in ancient Jinling. At that time, they were still attracting teenagers. Where did they think that life would have such twists and turns? At that time, how could they have expected that their second handshake would take 3 1 year? ...

Zhang Yang: The second handshake.

(brandishing a knife) Hearing this, Liang Wang raised his golden back knife, which was a knife on Uncle Chao's top beam. Uncle Yue pawned the Liquan gun, which made Liang's arms numb. Cry: "Not good!" I can't help but feel flustered. It's another knife cut. Uncle Yue is light with a gun, and it's a knife owl. Seeing that Yue Fei had no strength to fight back, Liang Wang only thought that he was afraid to fight back, so he became bold. When he opened the golden back knife, he went up and down three times, left five and right six, and Uncle Wang Yue just cut his neck. Uncle Yue asked him to cut it. Yeah, let him cut it. Uncle Yue was furious and shouted, "Chai Gui, you don't know the weight! Almost, you are all decent, go early, don't be unlucky! " When King Liang heard his name called, he flew into a rage and swore, "Yue Fei is a good dog! I flatter you and call you a compliment. Dare you offend my name? Don't go, eat me! " Raise the gold back knife, shine it on the top beam of Uncle Yue, and hit it with a shout. Uncle Yue took his time, raised his gun, and the owl took a shot, hoping to stab him in the heart. Liang Wang saw that he was in danger, so he leaned over and hit him in the middle of his ribs. Uncle Yue put the guns together, put a beam head down and feet up, picked it under the horse, and shot it again, which ended his life.

Qian Cai: The Complete Biography of Yue Shuo

[Swing] With a swish, the general waved his tea-wood cane.

With a scream, the arrogant woman lifted her head like a chicken nest.

It was so quiet in the clinic that you could hear the sound of a needle falling. No one in the room is going to take the crutches from the general except the relatives of the stunned female doctor. The crutch trembled in midair, trembling. People can't wait for it to fall down and hit the broken nose covered with dirty freckles.

However, the crutch did not fall down at last. The general reached out his other hand and grabbed one end of the crutch. Then, with a bang, the strong tea stick broke in two.

Chen: A general in a small town.

[Riding] I turned over and rode on my son's bare back. The pony has never ridden a man, jumping around the yard, and my old head is holding its neatly trimmed mane. ...

The boy horse jumped wildly, jumping higher and higher, jumping harder and harder. The two hind hooves kicked back hard and kicked the snow high on the ground. My head stopped talking, my hand pulled my mane hard, and my face turned white with fear. The horse ran around the field and dozens of people couldn't stop it. Finally, I dropped my head on the ground. It rushed out of the crowd, ran out of the school and ran to the village road. Guo Quanhai quickly untied the green horse from the post, rolled over and rode it, driving the jade eye away. Speaking of which, my head fell to the ground and I couldn't get up for a long time. People around me kept laughing.

Promoting the separation of horses from land reform, I drove my grandson for 29 years and fell in love with the famous horse "Jade Eye". Before trying to ride a horse, he boasted, "Which fierce horse have I never ridden?" The result was thrown down, causing a burst of laughter, reflecting the inner joy of the peasants who turned over.

Zhou Libo: Storm

[Riding a bicycle] The young man struggled to step on the bicycle, facing the wind, and one person had another burden. It seems a little difficult. He leans forward and his broad shoulders rise and fall. Wenwen can sit behind this broad shoulder for shelter from the rain. Wen Wen looked up at his back, and there was always an idea in his heart: would he have bad intentions? He can turn into any alley. The road was quiet and the traffic police got off work, but he kept walking along the bright bus route, without any intention of turning into the alley or darkness. He has taken three bus stops. When riding the street garden, he suddenly released the handlebar and threw rain in his face. He threw it directly in Wenwen's face. Wenwen closed his eyes and lowered his head, feeling a little funny about his paranoia.

Wang Anyi: Rain, sasha vujacic

Running is a proof of a driver's ability and qualification. The one who curled up on the ground like a pair of cattail leaf fans is undoubtedly a novice who just came from the countryside, with his head very low. When you rub your feet on the ground, you can run at the same speed as you walk, but people over 50 run quite fast. For those who are experienced and weak, there is another way: chest to chest and depth; Legs raised; Walk the probe; In this way, they appear to be running hard, but in fact they are not faster than others at all; They rely on "habits" to maintain their dignity. Xiangzi certainly didn't adopt these postures. His legs are long, his waist is steady, he doesn't make much noise when running, and he is a little flexible one step at a time, so that the handlebar doesn't move and the seat feels safe and comfortable. Say stop, no matter how fast you run, your big foot will stop when it touches the ground; His power seems to reach all parts of the car. His back was slightly bent, and his hands held the handlebar loosely. He moves neatly and accurately; You can't see the rush but run fast, fast but not.

Lao She: Xiangzi Camel

[Cart] It's their turn to cart! Speaking of carts, many heroes on the construction site have had difficult experiences. Migrant workers who are not familiar with cart technology have to go through many days of hard training before they can walk smoothly and not roll over. These five children are not much taller than the wheelbarrow, and it is especially difficult for them to push their arms up. However, they studied hard and practiced hard, and found the trick in a day or two. "Don't learn to push the car, just shake it with your ass!" Grab the handlebars with both hands and keep your eyes on the front. When the car is tilted, your body will twist and shake back and forth. These children are much more flexible than adults for these! A week later, they pushed a car full of sharp sand and rushed to the dam. At a distance of 2000 meters, one class left 14 times!

Bing Xin: Little Five Tigers on the Site of the Ming Tombs

The ship is about to arrive at Baidicheng. It's only ten miles past Baidicheng, and Fengjie is the destination.

Twelve boatmen shook their oars on both sides of the boat, panting and singing. Black and sweaty, white cloth pants are wet, tightly attached to the legs, and the legs are bulging like hammers.

"The passengers on board be careful! It's almost Huanglong Huai! " The boatman shouted at the bow, "Please don't leave the cabin! Sit down! Don't walk around! "

A line of trackers towed our wooden boat to the beach. Sometimes they walk on rocks, and sometimes they walk in the water on the shore. The rope was put on their shoulders from behind, and both hands dragged the rope on their chests. As they walked, they bent lower and lower, singing with the boatman and falling together. They sang happily and painfully. The whole valley was singing, as if to help them pull the boat across the beach. It's no use. The foam on the beach turned over, turned up a big tent with white waves, and jumped on the wooden boat in desperation. At this time, the tracker and the boatman stopped singing. The boatman holds the paddle and looks at the coming waves; The tracker dragged the rope with the whole person, hunched his back, bent his legs and tilted his head to the sky. Drag and drag, people are nailed to stones. The ship was nailed to the beach and turned straight, and the rope tied to the mast rattled.

Nie Hualing: Mulberry and pink.

[punting] As soon as I went out, I saw a white-covered boat moored at the Pingqiao Bridge under the moon. Everyone jumped off the boat and happily pulled out the front pole, and Afa pulled out the back pole. The young people sat in the cabin with me, and the old people gathered at the stern. By the time my mother sent her out and told her to be careful, we had already set sail, knocked on the bridge stone, stepped back a few feet, stepped forward and got off the bridge. So he set up two paddles, one for two people and one for each person, shouting in a joke, and with the sound of splashing water from the gurgling bow, he flew radially forward on the river with mung bean fields on the left and right sides.

Lu Xun: Social Drama

[Rows] Rows of long bamboo rafts, along the rapids, rushing the rolling stones, snoring, screaming and rushing out of the mountains angrily. Standing in the front row without blinking an eye, propped up on the left and poked at the right, like an experienced platoon leader. Bend down and drill through the willows by the river for a while; Turn a sharp corner for a while and people will be out of sight; After a while, the head crossed the river dam and people were in mid-air; After a while, I plunged into the deep pool and became a drowned rat.

Seeing that the journey was pleasant and he was about to go down the river, Zhang's face was filled with joy and he couldn't restrain his heartbeat with joy. He just felt that his eyes would sparkle from time to time because he didn't sleep enough the night before. There is another sharp turn ahead. Zhang grabs the pole and prepares. Suddenly, he found a buffalo crossing the river at the corner, and it was too late to drive it away. Close call, in desperation, Zhang was taken to the front row by the river. Only heard a loud noise, he flew out from the front row, and his eyes were dark.