As long as you believe in yourself, you can succeed. First, know yourself and rely on yourself.
No one living in this world will be isolated from the world. Even if people have such a connection in study or work, they must rely on their own abilities and strength to make continuous progress in this interactive relationship. It's better to be angry than to rely on others for charity. The only one who can really rely on himself is himself. Your destiny is in your own hands, don't rely on others.
There was a farmer in the countryside. The husband and wife gave birth to a son in their later years, and they were very happy. They regard their son as the apple of their eye, hold him in their hands and fear flying, and hold him in their mouths to prevent him from doing anything, so that his son can't even take care of himself when he grows up. One day, the couple wanted to go out of the city, fearing that their son would starve to death, so they thought of a way. He branded a big cake, wrapped it around his son's neck and told him to take a bite when he wanted to eat it. When they got home, their son had starved to death. It turns out that he only knows how to eat the cake in front of his neck, but he doesn't know how to turn the cake in the back.
Although this story is a bit harsh, similar phenomena do exist in real life, especially when most families are only children and regard children as treasures. Children are very dependent on their relatives in their daily life, which leads to their poor self-care ability when they grow up.
Rockefeller, an American oil family, once took his grandson to climb a ladder to play, but when he climbed to a height that would not hurt him, he kept holding his grandson's hand and immediately released it, so the grandson rolled down. This is not Rockefeller's fault, nor is he playing a prank, but to make the little grandson's young mind feel that he has to rely on himself to do everything. Even my grandfather's help is unreliable.
Independent and self-reliant people can not only stand proudly in the world, but also open up their own world and get recognition from others. So we must overcome dependence and don't always let others push our fate around.
There is a plant called Zizania latifolia. Its body is thin and soft, and it is not tall. It can only climb with other tall plants. Spring has come, and flowers and trees are scrambling to blossom and bear fruit. Slowly, the branches and leaves of Zizania latifolia also flourished and produced many red and black fruits. One day, a passerby was thirsty. When he saw the water chestnut, he picked a fruit and ate it.
"This kind of fruit is so sweet! It looks beautiful! " He can't help boasting. I am very proud of this and happy for a long time.
Later, a carpenter went up the mountain to cut down trees. He looked at the big tree wrapped around the trunk and said, "This tree is just right for a beam!" " "
So the carpenter took out his axe and cut down the tree without mercy. Just then, the carpenter cut down the big tree by himself.
"He will disown me!" At this time, I was very scared. I want to leave the tree, but it's usually too clingy. I can't leave now. When the tree fell, the stern broke with it.
Some people lamented, "If we could grow by ourselves, we wouldn't be cut by knives and axes." It is the dependence on trees that leads to the extinction of Zizania latifolia.
Kōnosuke Matsushita once said such a passage: