In my opinion, the meaning of growth lies in constant pursuit. This process should be happy, self-centered and measured by self-worth. We learn in this process and grow in learning. From childhood, adolescence to youth, middle age and finally to old age. Every paragraph is a hard journey, and it is the movement of our growth. So, how do we define the meaning of growth? What inspiration do we get from growing up? When we grow up from childishness and finally find our true self, will we also be heartbroken or let go of the past? When we were children, we all played hide-and-seek games. When we try our best to find it, it seems that we can't find it. When we give up, we give up. I found the person I was looking for nearby. At this time, I said regretfully, "I am only one step away from finding it!" " "However, it is such a step that makes us losers in this game. I can't help thinking of a line: "Almost, but much worse. "In fact, in the process of our growth, we will encounter many such steps. Is this a step of persistence or a rational stay? There will be various results. Whether it is good or bad, success or failure, one step is much worse. ...
Later, we grew up and entered the most precious youth time in our lives. "Contact classmates and teenagers, Fenghua Zheng Mian." Everyone is full of ideals and ambitions. Facing the same growing society and world. We begin to get in touch with interpersonal communication, express ourselves, cultivate positive interests, control and enrich our time ... these are all difficult problems. Therefore, we have learned to take responsibility for ourselves and forgive others. I understand it as "knowing is not as good as knowing, and knowing is not as good as knowing." I've learned that "an inch of time is worth an inch of gold, and an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time." Suddenly found that every question has an answer. The difficult thing is not to solve it, but how to make correct judgments and choices in growth. We grew up in the arms of our parents, and then we want to resist and break free once. Let yourself face rebellion and choice, learn to choose your own direction and take a step that I don't know right or wrong. However, who among us has never been confused? Who hasn't experienced disappointment? Why do parents always tell us what is right and wrong, choose this and give up that? It seems that judgment and choice are so natural. And when you do it yourself, it's so difficult. Youth longs for independence, but when we are truly independent, we are no longer young. Let's unfold the blueprint of our dreams into a canvas, paint it with the most beautiful colors, and show our youth!
I once read an article saying that life is like multiple-choice questions, true or false questions and fill-in-the-blank questions made by students. The advantage of multiple-choice questions is that you can choose, even if you don't know the answer, you can make a choice by intuition. Just like all kinds of life paths we have to choose when we grow up, when we don't know how to go, we can only choose one, either the road leading to light or the lost road leading to darkness ... judging right or wrong, there are too many things we can't judge subjectively in the process of growing up. But we also have a 50% chance of being right. Fill-in-the-blank problem is not selective, so it is the most difficult problem, and it is also the most difficult problem we do when we grow up. Imagine, after a short period of youth. We will also grow into real adults. Step into youth, middle age and even old age. Like their parents, they look for shortcomings in life and try to fill them. Learned to pay and tolerate, strong and calm. Support your responsibility and pressure with faith, and fill the blank that seems to never be filled. Because I want it more as I grow up. Then we will know how to compete, learn to decide when others procrastinate, start when others procrastinate, learn when others complain, and persist when others give up ... Although it is difficult to do, it will lead us to success when others fail. Only in this way can we gain something in our growth. In the next year, we won't have too many gaps and regrets. Recalling childhood, we will laugh at childish childishness. When we think back to teenagers, we will be proud of their bravery. When we look back on middle age, we will feel sorry for the hardships of vicissitudes of life ... but we will also say, "Don't regret wasting time, don't be ashamed of being stingy!" " "This is the value of a person's growth. This is a revelation of a person's growth. Autonomy determines the meaning of our growth. She is happy, but full of ups and downs. She is intriguing, but irreversible. She is fearless and short-lived, but eager for eternity. She contains value, but a thousand dollars is hard to buy ... She has experienced too much good and bad in her growth, tasted too much bitterness and sweetness, and experienced too many successes and failures ... We have customized our growth, injected beautiful nectar into our hearts, made the growing spring flowers grow into autumn fruits, interwoven the flying dreams into clouds, let colorful youth bloom from now on, and pure hope is coming soon!
University is the most critical stage in a person's life. From the first day of admission, we must have a correct understanding and planning for the four years of college.
In order to enjoy the greatest happiness in study and find a job that you like when you graduate, everyone who has just entered the university campus should master seven kinds of learning: self-study, basic knowledge, practice integration, interest cultivation, initiative, time control and dealing with people. As long as these seven points are well done, the biggest gain for college students when they graduate will never be "patience and adaptation to nothing", but "confidence and desire to have everything". As long as you do these seven points well, you can become a happy graduate with potential, thought, value and prospect. University: the key to life
University is a critical stage in life. This is because, after entering the university, you finally put down the burden of the college entrance examination and began to pursue your ideals and interests for the first time. This is the first time you have left your family life and participated in group and social life independently. This is the first time you have the opportunity to learn theory and practice it yourself, instead of simply learning or reciting theoretical knowledge from books. This is the first time that your parents no longer arrange everything in your life and study, but have enough freedom to deal with all kinds of problems in your life, study and control all your time.
University is a critical stage in life. This is because this is your last chance to receive a systematic education in your life. This is the last time you devote yourself to building your own knowledge base. This may be the last stage in your life where you can spend a lot of time studying, or it may be the last stage where you can have high plasticity and concentrate on enriching yourself. This may be the last time you learn how to be a man in a relatively tolerant and ideal environment.
University is a critical stage in life. At this stage, all college students should carefully grasp every "first time" and make a good choice. Let them become the cornerstone of the future life path; At this stage, all college students should cherish every "last time" and don't let themselves regret it in the near future. After four years of college, everyone should try to weave their own dreams of life, make clear the direction of struggle and lay a good foundation for their career. Everyone only goes to college once in four years, and that's how four years of college should be spent ... the way of self-study: from learning by analogy to learning without a teacher.
A mother asked a university information professor, "What does the university teach my children? Why can't she even use VisiCalc? " The professor replied at that time: "The development of computers is changing with each passing day. We can't guarantee that any technology taught in universities will still be useful after five years, nor can we guarantee that students can learn every technology and tool. What we can guarantee is that your child will learn to think and master learning methods, so that no matter what new technologies and new tools appear in five years, your child will be able to do it with ease. " She then asked, "Learning the latest software is not education, so what is the essence of education?"
The professor replied, "If we forget everything we have learned, what remains in the end is the essence of education." In fact, this is "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish"
University is not a vocational training course, but a platform for students to adapt to society and different jobs. During college, it is important to learn professional knowledge, but it is more important to learn the method of independent thinking and cultivate the ability to draw inferences from others. Only in this way can college graduates adapt to the rapidly changing future world. When I was in middle school, my teacher would repeat the key points of each lesson over and over again. However, after entering the university, teachers will only play a guiding role, and students must study, explore and practice independently. After going to work, self-study ability becomes more important. Microsoft has made a statistic: only about 10% of the knowledge that every Microsoft employee has mastered is accumulated by employees in their past study and work, and all other knowledge is re-learned after joining Microsoft. This data fully shows that it is difficult for a person who lacks self-study ability to stand in a modern enterprise like Microsoft.
Self-study ability must be cultivated during college. Many students always complain that teachers don't teach well, don't know much, and the school curriculum is unreasonable. The master said, "It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness." . College students should not just follow the footsteps of teachers, but take the initiative to walk in front of them. For example, a class of university teachers usually covers dozens of pages of information in textbooks, and it is impossible to learn all the knowledge by attending classes. The best way to learn is to make clear the relevant problems in the textbook before the teacher gives a lecture, and then make up for the lack of understanding and understanding by comparing the teacher's explanations in class. Middle school students are more in pursuit of "remembering" knowledge when learning knowledge, while college students should ask themselves to "understand" knowledge and be good at asking questions. Ask more "why" for every knowledge point. Once you really know the ins and outs of a theory or method, you can learn other knowledge by analogy, solve other problems, and even reach the realm of self-study.
In fact, many problems have different ideas or angles. When learning knowledge or solving problems, don't always stick to a mode of thinking, and don't make yourself a slave to textbooks or experience. Only when students dare to innovate and be good at thinking from a new angle can they really stimulate their potential thinking ability, creativity and learning ability. The Book of Rites says: "Learning alone without friends is ignorance". In other words, college students should make full use of the talent resources in the school and absorb knowledge and methods from various channels. If you meet a good teacher, you can take the initiative to ask them for advice or ask them to recommend some extracurricular reference books. In addition to senior professors, young people in universities
Teachers, doctoral students, master students and even their classmates are the best sources of knowledge and learning partners. Everyone's understanding and understanding of the problem is different. Only by helping each other and learning from each other can we make progress together.
College students should make full use of libraries and the Internet, cultivate the ability of autonomous learning and research, and prepare for future work or further study. First of all, in addition to studying the courses prescribed by teachers, college students must learn to consult books and documents in order to get in touch with a wider range of knowledge and research results. For example, when we find a subject we are interested in in in a class, we should actively go to the library to consult relevant literature to understand the ins and outs of this subject and the current research trends. Skilled and full use of library resources is one of the necessary skills for college students, especially those who are interested in scientific research. Secondly, in addition to books, the Internet is also a huge resource pool, and college students can use search engines to find all kinds of information online. Some students easily believe online rumors, instead of using search engines to check and verify them themselves. Besides search engines, there are many websites and communities on the Internet, which are also good learning fields.
When you teach yourself, don't be complacent just because you have met the requirements of the school. Don't think that doing well in college is enough. 2 1 century, talent has become an international concept. In a word, being good at drawing inferences from others and learning to teach yourself are the best gifts you can give yourself during your four years in college. Basic knowledge: Mathematics, English, computer, Internet If a university is a platform for learning and progress, then the foundation of this platform is the basic courses in the university. During college, students must learn basic knowledge, including mathematics, English, the use of computers and the Internet, as well as basic courses required by their majors. With the rapid development of science and technology, many seemingly advanced technologies in the application field will be replaced by new technologies or tools in a few years. Only the study of basic knowledge can benefit for life. On the other hand, without a good foundation, it is difficult for college students to truly understand advanced applied technology. Finally, in many China universities, professors have more teaching experience in basic courses than in the latest technology.
Mathematics is an indispensable foundation for science and engineering students. Many students think that mathematics is the most difficult thing to learn in high school. Once you find that your major has low requirements for mathematics, you will completely relax your study of mathematics knowledge, and you will not see any practical application or employment prospects of mathematics knowledge. But we should not forget that most of the knowledge systems of science and engineering majors are based on the cornerstone of mathematics. For example, if you want to learn computer engineering well, you should at least learn discrete mathematics (including set theory, graph theory, mathematical logic, etc. ), linear algebra, probability statistics and mathematical analysis; If you want to further study for a master's or doctor's degree in computer science, you may need higher mathematics literacy. At the same time, mathematics is also the crystallization of wisdom accumulated by human beings for thousands of years. Learning mathematics knowledge can cultivate and train people's thinking ability. Through the study of geometry, we can learn to verify and think with deduction and reasoning; By studying probability statistics, we can know how to avoid going into a dead end of thinking and how to maximize the opportunities in front of us. Therefore, everyone must learn math well with heart, and can't be half-hearted. Learning mathematics can't be limited to taking multiple mathematics courses, but we should know why we study mathematics and master the methods of cognition and thinking from the process of learning mathematics.
The information age has arrived, and college students' information science and information technology literacy has become one of the necessary foundations for them to step into society. Although not every college student needs to know computer principles and programming knowledge, all college students should be proficient in using computers, the Internet, office software and search engines, and should be proficient in browsing information and finding professional knowledge online. In the 2 1 century, using computers and networks is as simple as using paper and pens. If you don't learn computer well, you can't get the knowledge or information you need quickly and comprehensively.
In high school, many students ask their teachers, "Why? What's the use? " Usually the answer given by the teacher is "Don't ask". After entering the university, the answer to these questions should be "Don't ask". In universities, students should know how to combine knowledge, theories and methods of various disciplines with concrete practice and application, especially engineering students.
There is a proverb about spiritual practice that says, "I will forget what I heard, remember what I saw, and truly understand what I did."